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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He says he "can't" love or care about me because of his past. How do I stop caring about this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 9 months we have never been out on a date we just have sex, he tells all about his past relationships, I love him and don't want to love him because I don't believe he loves me because he has never said it neither does ...

When do you think I got pregant? Having trouble figuring out the conception date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - okay, i just found out that i am pregnant. i went for a sonogram and the sonogram showed 6w6d and gave me a due date of feb 16 2010. and i figured that up and on or around the 12th is when i would have gotten pregnant. right? anyways i know that i ...

Am I getting an orgasm? I can't even tell with the vibrator.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much, everything is amazing. there is one thing though, i don't seem to be able to get an orgasm.. atall. i've never had an orgasm through sex EVER. i've had three sleeping partners, one who i was with for 11 months and th...

Orgasm, sexuality, and urine pain: can anyone help answer these questions I have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Recently i have this feeling where i need to go for a wee all the time but when i dont pass urine, but when i do it stings alot, so much!! what is it? im a woman, with a boyfriend of nearly 2 years who i am totally in love with, thing is, in sex, ...

Why do guys only want me sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...

I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help....

He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...

He's had more partners and yet I'm the slut!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about one year cannot cope with the fact that I have a sexual past, yet he tells he doesn't want a virgin. We love each other dearly and talk of a married future with children, but he cannot refrain from these outbursts which are ...

Bored with the relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for the last year and we get along fine, but lately I've been getting bored with the relationship. We were away from each over for 2 months and missed each other terribly, and I've been back for three weeks now, and...

Genital warts..how do I know I don't have the virus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 months told me he got genital warts and he thinks i gave it to him hes the only guy ive had unpertected sex with and im confused on how i could have gave it to him.... do i have hpv already? but i dont have any warts at all i ...

I can please my gf but she can't please me, anyone else been in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - so my girlfriend i have sex everyday and after it we just lay in bed for a bit and then she will jerk me off and blow me the problem is its feels great but i don't burst for her and she gets upset and i feel really crappy about it i can please her ...

My boyfriend is too big, but we can't not have a sex life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - Im gay and I love my boyfriend so much, but sex is extremely painful! iv been with other guys before, and iv never had a problem, but his HOOHAA is too big for me to take in....... I love him way too much, but we cant not have a sex life? how do i ...

For him: oral sex while he watches porn. For me: 3 minutes, no kissing, no passion. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I live with a guy for almost a year we have had are share of troubles. At first he said he didnt love me but he has grow to love me but we never have sex maybe once a month but he always wants me to give him oral sex everyday while he watchs porn. ...

I felt the time was right to lose my virginity, but then it wouldn't fit!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it ...

During sex all I do is think about the size

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, ...

Should I take a break from sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - hey there all ive had sex like every week sometimes like 5 times this has been happening for about 3 weeks straight when my chick comes over ... then after that I watched porn for about a week and masturbated like everyday when she was menstrua...

How can I get my wife to want ME? I feel so undesired

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has to fantasize about other people in sexual situations in order to recieive pleasure. This means she usually shuts me off by closing her eyes and not wanting any talk during love making. It takes her ...

How long should I wait until first sex in my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm 23, and i've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, only that it's been mostly a long distance relationship. but we've been pretty good in communicating with each other about our feelings and usually we get to spend a weeke...

Putting love on hold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - No I don't believe this, but I've been seeing a girl recently that somewhat does. Now of course I'm not going to lie down for this and I have told her no person can decide when they fall in love or not. But from experience from myself and frien...

How can I keep my erection long enough to have sex properly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - How can I keep my erection long enough to have sex properly? Im 20 years old, nearly 21 and for some reason I have a reccuring problem during sex, I can get hard during foreplay, even just kissing alot of the time but when It comes to putting...

Sex: Lust and Caution

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - In today's modern world, we as people have to be cautious and informed when making decisions. I think this is especially true when it comes to sex. STDs are at a high in the US across the age spectrum. How can you really have safe sex? You could ...

I'm gaining a lot of weight, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend used to be really sexual but now that we're older we calmed down and like a week ago we got in the shower together and we kind of got tempted to have sex but I have told him before that i don't wanna have sex till im out of high ...