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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I'm 15 - is it legal for my 18 year old partner and I to have sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Im 15 years old and currently dating a 18 year old is this legal if we dont have sex?...

Why won't he orgasm when I give him a bj?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have tried giving my boyfriend oral and I know I am very good at this, But I want to know why he wont cum. I know he enjoys but it's upsetting me he always seems to worry more about my orgasm that his own what am I doing wrong?? Please Help I feel ...

I'm in love with someone else - but should I just settle for my less physical marriage or move on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm a 25-year old christian guy that married his first girlfriend 2 years ago (after dating her for 3 years). Before I met her, I spent most of my time behind a computer, not meeting girls. Although I was not a christian when we started dating, I ...

Is my vagina abnormal, or am I just worrying about it too much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - im worriedthe skin around my virgina is to big! im 18 im sexualy active but im a virgin, am im worried when it comes down to me and my Boyfriend having sex or even giving me oral he will notice and think im odd and very unitractive! im i just over ...

I'm scared to leave him, he raped his last girlfriend, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i have found out that my boyfriend is a rapist, he raped his last girlfriend she used to be my best friend until she left. they have a daughter if i dump him i will get raped and that has happened to me before what can i do he is obssed in me...

We have anal sex and stuff comes out, can we fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - sorry for being so grafic with this question im a gay man and its when im having anal sex only sometimes this happens when u pull the penis out the obvious comes out either on the penis or after it i have been told there is something you can do i ...

He slept with me, then found someone else, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 604 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i slept with a boy the other day, people new we really liked eachother but ysterday he brought a girl home and had sex with her. what should i do?...

What is the ideal penis size?

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - What do women consider to be an ideal penis size? My friend told me all women want a penis that's at least 8 inches long and 6 inches around. Is this true? I'm way below these numbers in both categories and I'm really afraid to have sex, now. Any ...

My boyfriend hates it when I'm "on"... Should I let him sleep with other girls? Is there a "third way"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. He's a great guy but, lately, he's been annoying me a bit. I'm 20 and he's 27. We have a good sex life but he moans when I'm on my period. I am usually on for about a week and he moans that we can't have ...

I choke the chicken over my friend's younger sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm 19 and I was round at my friends house who's the same age as me for the first time and I met her sister there. The problem is that she is 14 (in year 10) and I find her attractive. I've ended up thinking about her when I'm masturbating! But, ...

What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex ? Is there certain spots that will drive him nuts ???...

Should the ladies cum first? (or after)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I would like the ladies input on this one. Whenever I have sex, I like to ensure that my lady comes, either by manual or oral stimulation. I used to be a big believer in "the lady comes first" and then we'd have full sex. Now I'm not so sure....

He dunps me! Then he says he go out with me again if ..I have sex with him! What do I say to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me after going out 6 months. He texted me and said if I have sex with him he will go back out with me. What do you I suggest I say to that? We are both under 16....

Someone said that he was using me for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - i have a boyfriend, its been almost 1 week since we started dating and he says he loves me and isnt using me for sex but then again he acts like it and someone said that he was...what should i do? should i beleive him??...

We are good friends and 'f*ck buddies' but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hi there. I really like this guy and we were just good freinds who went out on night outs together. Then one night we ended up going together we are now"fuck buddies" but i have fallen for him in a big way....how do i explain to him that i want mor...

I cry after sex from being so emotional! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hiya, i know people are going to laugh at this but, well i do like sex its just it makes me so emotional afterwards and i go into the toilet n cry, once i actually cried while we were having sex and so it took a lot of convincing to my bf that it ...

For 2 years, I've had a 'mirena' and I'm wondering..how safe are they?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, i just wanted your advice on a matter pls, i had unprotected sex with my bf today, he ejaculated inside me for the first time and i know i have a high chance of becoming pregnant. However, for for 2years now Ive had a 'mirena'. That t...

White discharge...what causes it and how can I get rid of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I have this white discharge from my vagina and When I have sex I get embarrassed because it is yuckey. You can see it and I know my guy doesnt want to eat me out after me have sex because you can taste it. He says go to the DR. we are engaged and he ...

Why is it important to have a pap smear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Why do I have to have a pap smear? I don't like doctors and haven't been to since i was probably about 12. Why is it important for women to have a pap smear, i'm fairly strongly against this because i believe that the female or anybody for that ...

I'm a virgin, he isn't - I don't know how much he will expect from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 5months but we havent had sex and its because i dont know how much he expects of me. i am still a virgin and he is not.... please please please give me some tips on what to do?...

How do you have phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend has recently gone away on business for a month but where still at the stage where we're madly in love with each other so he sugested he'd call me and we could try phone sex, im very nervous as ive never done this before and have no idea ...

What are the symptoms of some STIs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 606 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Are there any STIs that cause you to feel rundown, dizzy, sick, and give you a headache? ...

After having unprotected sex, there's blood in my urine and it's painful to go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i had unprotected sex on saturday, (i know i know) and its been really painful to urinate since then and theres a bit of blood there too, its not my first time but im scared i could be pregnant. can someone please give me some advice? is this a sign ...

She's teasing me about my penis

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - hi there i am aged 19 and i have had sex for my 1st time just on thursday (23/11/06, but she wasnt a virgin and now shes teasin me about the length of my penis.... i have always have been worried about the size, and now im starting to feel self con...

Is it better to have a one night stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - How do you open yourself to a person emotionally and tell you have little or no sexual experience despite your age? is it better to have a one night stand with an attractive bloke who offers but doesn't love you before you try to find stable ...

I've slept with others before him and I feel so guilty about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating this guy for 9 months, though a long distance relationship he is the best thing that has ever happened to me..he is just soo caring and sweet to me, we have talked about our past, he is a virgin where i am not, i have had sex with ...

Before me, my wife had a real 'wild' past..trying to deal with it. Any advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - We hear all this about men having chequered pasts as in 100 women , But I have the reverrse I am married to a woman who came clean and admitted to having sex with 16 different men most of the time these liasons were adulterous, some were one night ...

Having sex for 3 years and I never had an orgasm..what's it like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hey im 16 and i have been having sex since grade 9 and im in grade 12 now and i just wanted to no what an orgasum is i dont think ive had one and like to no about it ...

Should I be insulted that he didn't orgasm after giving him a BJ for the first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hey i gave my bf a blow job for the first time the other day, but he didnt cum! he realy seemed to enjoy it, and i think i didnt everything right, however should I be insulted he didnt cum, or can boys enjoy BJs without cumming!! advicee plzz x...

Am I being paranoid or does my hubby really find me unattractive? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi, I have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together, i have two children from a previous marriage. when we first met sex was great, then i feel pregnant with our daughter and things were good. as soon as i had my daught...

I'm a virgin and hes experienced so will this lad go off me if I slept with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 607 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - will this lad go off me if i slept with him? im a virgin and hes experianced? iv been seeing him on and off for a year and i know how he feels, but im scared he wil go off me cause im so unexperianced? x...

Do I suck at giving blow jobs? Literally? I can't get it right and the gag reflex sure doesn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I have given a few people a bj now and have not been able to successfully get any of them off fully. They always have to intervene themselves and help out a little bit and then I finish it off--it just takes forever and I am doing all of the things ...

He came in me, but I think I got it out. Can I still get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I am 22 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex last night. When he stopped he told me that he did come inside me but it was just a little bit. I got right up and went to the bathroom. I may have gotten it out. But would I still get pregnant?...

Anyone have experiences with golden showers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other ...

Married with two kids and no libido due to lack of energy! Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 607 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - HI, i'm a married 23year old with two kids. Ever since i had my kids i can't seem to orgasm or get excited with my husband. I love making love with my hubby but i just don't get aroused, also sex seems a little boring and by the time we go to bed ...

It seems no-one really sees me for who I really am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I'm 23, I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago now. I have been single and getting along with my life fine up until a few months ago. It feels like my confidence had deflated into nothing. I'm not sure of myself and the decisions I make. I feel ...

He complains that I'm quiet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I'm 17 (18 in May), and my boyfriend I recently started having sex. Now, he complains that I'm quiet and I don't do anything. What can I do to show him I enjoy it, or to get more involved?...

We're not able to "fit together"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - alright, here is a question: My new partner and I recently tried to have intercourse. However, she is a small girl and I am well endowed. We simply were not able to "fit together" I have had only one sexual partner before this, and had no problem ...

Just started dating...how long to wait before having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - How long should you wait to have sex with a guy that you just started dating...

When do you stop giving a bj?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Ok, just something I need to know about guys orgasms and cumming. Once they've cum is that it? I gave this guy a blow job the other day, and I'd been playing mind games and teasing him for like, 20 minutes beforehand and when I finally got around to ...

We're trying for a baby, but his sperm flows back out! Why is this happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - After sex with my boyfriend his sprem seems to just flow stright back out of me. It is really upseting him as we are trying for a baby. why does this happen? As it has never happened before with anyone else i have slept with....

I can't enjoy sex but I can when it's just me and porn!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i am 44 years old and asking if is it natural for my age that i cant be happy having sex,but i can be more happi when i do masturbation while watching some porn video,do you think this is no back affects?hope to hear your adivce...

I'm 14..should I have sex now or wait?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 559 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Should I have sex now or wait? ok im 14 years old, and i have a bf and we been going out for 2 months and we been talking about having sex.I really like this guy and i mihth just love him. ...

Problems with our first attempt at sex...any advice on how we can deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Hi, im 17 and my bf has just turned 18, we are 100% comfortable with each other. we tried having sex for the first time last week, i wasnt very relaxed and was shaking a bit but i new it was the right thing to do. when we tried to do it, it really ...

It was supposed to no strings sex but--I've let myself become attached and now-he dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi i need some advice pls. i was with my ex for nearly 3 years and we split up about 4 months ago. when we were together we had our ups and downs split up but always got back together. latley hes been in contact sayin our sex was amazing and we ...

I'm 16..is masturbating 2 times per day too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - Im 16 and i think i have a problem. I masterbate about 2 a day or maybe more and finish everytime. I think i am doing it to much or is this normal? and all of a sudden i keep looking at porn sites again, can someone please help. Please....

I need to reject my ex bf's advances? How do I overcome all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 610 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need to learn self-control when it comes to my ex, as he certainly won't. It seems all he wants to be is friends with me, then he'll get with me as soon as he's single because he thinks I'm a great shag. I have some feelings for him still but I ...

Want this friend to be my sex buddy--is this wrong and what do women really think of the sex buddy concept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 610 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - ok so I met this girl with a bubbly personality. I find her really attractive too (even if she does carry a bit of weight - no offence) but I don't want a full blown relationship. Trouble is I can't stop dreaming about her as a sex buddy. Is this ...

How should I move when I'm on top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - When having sex and I'm on top I don't really know what movements to make, like I move my hips forward and backwards quickly but my boyfriend once said to me "Can't you try something new? And move differently?" so I think he was kinda getting bored ...

When I'm alone..I'm horny! But with my bf..I don't want sex! What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I never want sex with my boyfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we started having sex after a month. The problem is I never want to have sex with, I'm not sure whether it's because maybe I'm not truly physically attra...