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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

What is causing the unpleasant 'fart' noise during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - sometimes when i have sex with my boyfriend, i make an unpleasant 'fart' noise. it only happens when i go on top and i won't do this now even though my boyfriend likes this. i thought it was the condom but i dont think it is anymore. what is causing ...

Should we have sex or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait. [Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that...

Moving country for a bit and unsure what to do with the guy I care for immensely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions to start off with. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. A month ag...

I am afraid to perform fellatio, can there arise any problems from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i am afraid to kiss my boyfriend's penis or suck the fluid off him but he wants me to do that. is that safe is there no problem in sucking? is there a problem that can arise in the future from this?...

How can I last longer? It's driving me insane!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing ...

Slow, slow, quick quick slow...?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if people had any advice for me. I tried going on top of my boyfriend last night but it just wasn't really working. I was a bit drunk but I didn't really know what motion I was going for, the speed etc. so any advice on th...

My husband said I don't do "sexy things"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - question for man and women. how the women can look sexy ? my husband complained to me he said that i don't do sexy things.i told him buy me sexy clothes and you will see sexy.and his answer was you don't need clothes to be sexy there is other t...

Help, I dreamed of having sex with my sister! I'm shocked!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Im realy freaked out here, I dreamed of me having sex with my sister. I woke up this morning and was shocked, is this bad? I also have a girlfriend which is making me feel even worse!...

Immediate changes to the body after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - OK, this question is actually a little graphic in places, sorry. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago, it was lovely, there was hardly any pain and we stayed in the missionary position for the whole time. Since then, we've slept wi...

I'm ready for sex but I don't like my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - hello (Im 14 and im still at school ) i have liked this boy for about 2 years now i told him last wednesday and he was like oh ok me and him had a fight on thursday he said sorry on friday and he gave me a long hug at break then he gave me a...

Are his thoughts as abnormal as he thinks they are?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I seperated in January 08. I don't think he really has any problem but I need to support him so I am looking for advice. He has always looked at other women, and I have never had a problem with it, in fact I would point out attrac...

More romantic & less painful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Im still 14 and my boyfriend is still 16. He has been hinting that he wants to finger me. As we are making out, he slides his hands dow my body to my waist and on my thighs. Recently, he has made his way down to my vagina, but with my clothes on. He ...

What is a female orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - what is female orgasm? How a male can feel that female has enjoyed with intercourse? ...

Years of seduction

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi I am an Egyptian brother, 26 years old my sister is 21 now. I started to like my sister a few years ago, but till now had only mildly flirted with her by undressing in front of her or uncovering ******* and body while asleep when shes watchi...

I love talking like a pornstar in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - is there anything wrong with the fact that i love talking dirty like a pornstar in bed? it just gets me off i love it. is that normal? i have only had sex with one person so i guess i'm not that sexually experienced but...do a lot of people like ...

Questions about masturbation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I've heard that women can tell if you mastrabate. Is that true? Also, (women) what do you think about guys who do it? I know it's natural and stuff, but really... Thanks...

All we've done is kiss, but I want to go further... any advice would be great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Ok well i am 14 years old and my bf is 16. we have been dating for 8 months. All we have done is kissing and making out. We want to go further. What is the best way to get in the mood. If he fingers me will it hurt? When we have sex will it hurt a ...

She thought I called her ugly and fat, how can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - ok i need some help about this. this afternoon i went over to my g/f's house and its mostly everytime i go there we end up touching each other or having sex. so today when i went over her house i told her that we could only go up to the touching ...

We're underage but want to have sex, where can we buy condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i'm under 16 and i want to have sex with my bf the only problem is we need some condoms and we dont no if we are aloud to buy them and where ...

He was all over me, I couldn't go through with it, he called me a lesbian and left.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I am totally inexperienced but have been curious for about a year and a half. Before that time I did not know much about my body and had never dated. I thought I was ready to fulfill my dream of sex. I got a date with a fraternity guy who is very ...

Feeling terrible after having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i just had sex i feel terrible is this how this is soppose to feel and another thing thing is i didt use a codom should i tell my parents...

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking....

Do girls feel anal is humiliating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking...

Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...

How can I get over always thinking he wants to be with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex last year while i was heavily pregnant with our 2nd son, and even though i hated him at the time i took him back. Now our son is 4 months old, and our first born is 2, and my boyfriend wants us to start ha...

Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will ...

How to Know You ARE Protected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Throughout the time I've spent here at DearCupid, I've seen many questions regarding sex, birth control, pregnancy scares, STIs, and the like. I've spent the past week doing a lot of research, and have finally come up with some things that will ...

I'm in a sexless marriage wanting more

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a sexless marriage now for over a year--irregular for 3 years prior to that. counseling hasn't seemed to help. I've been seriously thinking of a "friends with benefits" type of relationship rather than an outright affair and would like to ...

My ex is causing problems between me and my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I was sleeping with a friend/coworker. My ex came by my house drunk over the weekend. I was drunk too, worried about him driving. Let him into my apartment. ended up going through my phone. Found some questionable texts between me and this other ...

My b/f of 3 years is losing his sex drive and I'm not getting my needs met! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just ...

How do you tell your partner you aren't happy with the sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - How do you talk to a partner/lover about your unhappiness with the sexual aspect of your relationship? I have some issues with my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to talk to her about them, but the more I think about it the more I feel like an a...

Can someone explain erectilve dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hi could you tell me wot erectile dysfunction is and why you get it, and wot can be done thanks...

Could sex be used as a way to celebrate friendship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I have been working as an English teacher here in Poland. In about a month I am going to leave Poland and return to my home country. My issue involves two women. One woman is also an English teacher at the same language school that I teach at....

No sex after 8 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hy is he waiting for us to have sex after 8 months of seeing each other? Could someone please give me some insight on this?...

Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends ...

I have been taking birth control, Can I still be pregnant if I still bleed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - In the past few months, since November, I've been sexually active. I'm on birth control and for the most part, I take it at 10 AM everyday. Sometimes it's 1 or 2 o'clock before I remember it, but I only have sex like one weekend out of the month. ...

Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch *Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out...

When will sex feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, the first time like a lot of virgins it was hard and I didn't really expect to climax because he couldn't get it into far anyway. The second time was a lot easier but even though we were at it for about an ...

I would like to finger her, how do I bring this up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - ok heres the situation..ive been going out with this girl for about 5months now..we both love to make out..i was her 1st kiss and 1st make out..whenever she comes over we make out all the time and she stradles me and all that stuff but i really do ...

Could she be pregnant even with us using a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - hi to all of you out there. well me and my g/f had sex on the 24th and we used a brand new condom and i came inside her with the condom on my penis. could she be pregnant even thought the condom didnt break or it didnt have any leakage. this morning ...

Stuck between a rock and a hardplace

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Okay, to start it off.. .I will begin from the start. I met this girl 8months ago, we progressed and we got to know literally everything about each other. We talk about everything, we see eachother at school 5 days a week, and hang out around t...

Could she be pregnant from dry humping

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, me and my girl friend were dry humping. When I came, the seamon went through my pants(like over the waist part thing). And it got onto her tights, and onto her panties as well. She went to the bathroom and removed the tights and underwear af...

Is it weird that I am not obsessed with sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hey everyone, ive got a question. well, im 16 going on 17, i have a lot of friends, guys and girls, and were all pretty much open about everything, homosexuality, sex etc. well im just wondering, everyone around me is soo obsessed with sex, guys a...

Are these signs of being homosexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Is being attracted to attractive transexual or transgendered people a sign of homosexuality? A friend of mine has transexual porn at his home. And well a few of us checked it out and the 'ladies' were attractive except for the fact that some o...

I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...

He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...

Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??...

I don't want my sister to watch porn, what can be done?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i caught my sister watching porn and masturbating !! she is 15. it has shook me inside and i cant see it happening and leave this matter though i understand its normal.what should i do about it ??? i dont know why but i dont want her to do it. ...

We met a couple of times, when is it OK to sleep with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi I've just started dating a guy quite a lot older than me. I like him a lot, and I also find him very attractive but we have only met up a couple of times, and been talking on the phone etc. I dont want to sleep with him too soon, but I think he ...