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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My wife masturbates when I'm asleep, then blames me for not wanting sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6689 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My wife of 23 years is bringing me down at every turn. She will sit up virtually all night(3.30 - 4.00am) and frequently masturbates, then revels in telling me. I get the blame of not wanting sex with her which is total rubbish. Shes now watching ...

She fancies sexy guys on TV... But shows absolutely zero interest in sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - why does me girlfriend seem to show little or no interest physically? hi, i'm 18 and been with my girfriend for just 1 year and 3 months. we've never had sex but have came close but i had to stop as she said it had hurt when i had penetrated he...

The absence of sex in my current relationship is leading me to check out other guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - My relationship is becoming a lot better. The sex between my boyfriend and me is still very little if even that. But, my question is, do I still keep trying to perk it up or what? My eyes are really starting to wander. I have this co-worker that ...

I want to date him, but he thinks I'm a slut because I sent him dirty messages. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Hey Folks See, there's this guy who I like and want to get to know. Only trouble is that he thinks I'm a slut as when I am drunk I tend to send him dirty messages. and now he has made it pretty clear that he is only interested in sex. BUT,...

How is my boyfriend going to know when he hits the right spot during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I have a great boyfriend that has been able to make me orgasm everytime manually. Now we're finally starting to have intercourse so how can he do it now? I know he has to find my spot, but how and when he does, how does he keep hitting it? He's ...

How much is too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - can you masturbate too much? I'm really addicted to it, and think about it all the time. And I'm only 13. Can you help me? ...

I had unplanned sex with my girlfriend, but I'm not yet 14. She couldn't be pregnant, could she?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Hi People, I am a 13 year old male who is almost 14. Recently (for about 2 months) I have been going out with this 16 year old girl. At first all we did was kiss, make-out and foreplay etc, but last night my parents were both at hen/stag nights ...

Why does my ex keep in contact? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 18 months. It was an on/off relationship because one minute he wanted me, the next he didn't. I also felt like he was using me for sex. He could not make his mind up about whether he wanted me or not and carried ...

Should I tell my best friend I was a webcam-sl*t with the guy she likes? I only did it to get back at her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy he's my x (lets call him will) i still like him even though it was me who ended it. lately hes been sending really dirty txts to my best mate i act like im not bothered but i rly rly am. i havnt told her. yesterday i got back at her ...

I get an orgasm each time I get intimate with my boy... Normal or lucky?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've read some of the questions about what an orgasm is and some replies said that they're not even sure it they've had one. It took him a while (about 4 mo., it was both our first times having any kind of sexual pleasure by another person), but now ...

He gave me a ring...now he wants us to become sexual and have a baby. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I am a sophmore and am really in love with a guy. He is older then me by 6 years but we have been dating for over a year. We are really close and can communicate by looking at each other eyes. He got me a ring for christmas, and is ready to take it ...

I am quite shy and want to suggest having sex with my bf but don't know how...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I am shy to my bf that i want to have a sex date? what would i do?...

She's 16, I'm 14 and we almost had sex. She wants to see me again..I love her but I dont know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hi People, I hope you can help me my problem is as follows,; I have just had a boxing day party and this girl was there, she was 16 and i am 13 almost 14, we got chattin and found a few things in common, after a few hours we ended up just lying on...

I haven't changed, but the absence of sex makes me think I've become totally repulsive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Heya.... I'm just feeling a tad insecure. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We have had an amazing sexual relationship since we started having sex..erm about 10 months, until recently. For the last 5 times of attempting to have sex he hasn't been abl...

My husband always leaves me unsatisfied when we have sex. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

26 December 2005 (F) - How I'm Married ..can any one tell me why my hubby and I only have sex when he wants it and If I don't cum he says ....sorry i'm done ..you have to wait for next time...help...he never has to wait ...y do i...i'm so unsatisfied it aint funny what ...

Still worried about my banana-shaped penis. Will I be able to satisfy a woman?

This question has 79 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

26 December 2005 (M) - I wrote a problem but didn't got a satisfactory answer, so I am hoping this time somebody will help me. I just wanna know. I've got banana type of erection. While erecting it bends towards downward, like a banana, so I wanna know will this kind of ...

I felt like my boyfriend went too far. He stopped when I asked, but now what do I say about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - I'm a teen and I've been dating this great guy for a few months. We are so right for each other and I thought we were on the same page but I was at his place watching a movie like I have many times before and he caught me off guard with something. ...

I use a lot of KY jelly and baby oil when having sex-can it cause damage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i have to use ky jelly and baby oil a lot when making love to my partner, do u think it could cause any damage over a long period of time, i'm getting pains in my belly a lot....

How do I make my vagina tighter??

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i really need help on this one if any one can help, my relationship kind of depends on it. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and we have only had sex a few times but he doesnt seem pleased. i dont know if my vagina is too big for him ...

Is my boyfriend, who prefers to masturbate rather than have sex, going to marry me or is he waiting for a "better deal"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - My bf of 4 years prefers masturbation than sex and is not committing in our relationship. He tells me that masturbation is easier, and that we don't have to have sex everytime we see each other, and that he gets tired when having sex. We only have ...

I still can't stop the internet gay porn thing...why am i so weird and what should i do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - Alright I am fucked up, From what I can remember I always seemed to be attracted to girls, but I never had much luck with them growing up. I seemed to always end up in the friend zone or for being to nice in jr high and high school, i figured it ...

He's a christian and I have had sexual fantasies about him! I'm embarrassed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I've told my bf (because I want to be honest with him) that sometimes I have sexual fantasies about him which was really maybe a bad thing to do on my part because he he reacted calmly and was actually a little surprised and then he told me he never ...

I had sex with him the first time we dated...now, he hasn't answered my message. What's happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Hi I met up with a guy from an online dating site on Sunday. I'm 32, and haven't been in a relationship or had sex for a year (yes - a year!!). The dating site is a good one - doesn't seem to have many of the usual players on it. Anyway - ...

How can I forget about my wife's past?

This question has 105 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...

When my girlfriend is more horny than I am, she guilts me into sex, then says "forget it!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - Hi, basically my girlfriend is horny 24/7 and always wants sex any given moment. I like sex, but I'm not as horny as her! Whenever I'm not in the mood and I'd much rather sleep, I just say "I don't feel like having sex tonight babe", or somethin...

Can't understand why my willy just goes limp?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - I'm 19 years old and have been "fooling around" with girls for a couple years now. The thing is, recently, I was with my girlfriend, and we were really getting into it. I had a super hard erection that was ready to go. She gave me a bit of a blow ...

He wants me just for sex but I love him. How do I get him to love and respect me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Dear cupid.. I have been in love with a guy for over three years now (I'm 17, he's 18), I want to be in a relationship with him. Trouble is that he is ony physically attracted to me, and will only ask for sex.It seems to me like he regards me as...

Help! I've never experienced sex with a man, so what's it really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - hi im 16 going on 17 and i am with this guy. i am very close to him and i think its time for us to get a little more sexual. i have never really expierienced a lads body before and i dont really know my way arround. my main question is wha...

When my boyfriend and I kiss, he gets so hot he even masturbates in front of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out since two years. We have got a little bit of physical but have never done sex. It's on the basis of understanding that we won't have it before marriage. The problem is that when we kiss and all, we really e...

Having sex for the first time...what if I'm too small?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl and plan on having sex for the first time. I know it can be painful, but is there any way I can make it less painful? My guy has a really large penis, and I'm scared that I'm too tight for him. Is it safe to try ...

What is an orgasm?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Okay... Heres me question... I'm 18 and have been sexually active for a little over a year. I just had sex with my boyfreind (the third guy i've ever been with). So yeah heres the question. What is an orgasum? I don't think that I have ever had an o...

Sexually active for a while, but no orgasm for me! Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Hi- I have a little question that I would like help with. Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for a while and I have never orgasmed. He knows this, and wants to do something, but I don't know what would help me. Can anyone give me any ...

He doesn't have an orgasm through intercourse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life- we're really attracted to each other and always have been, and I orgasm nearly every time we sleep together. The only problem is, although I know I really enjoy myself and he insists that he does too, he ...

She's just too tight and it's a strain on my penis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend's vagina is really tight. I have an uncircumsized penis and every time we have sex, it kills me because my skin gets pulled back and actually stays like that. I have to pull out and fix it, it gets annoying. We don't want to use a co...

How do I get my bf off... without having intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend(whom I love very much). We don't want to have sex, we're both virgins. I want to make him horny and I want him to "return the favor" but I don't know what to do. When we get really into it, he gets really ...

Previous attempts at intercourse hurt a lot...is there something wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - i am 17 years old, the first time i tried sex was when i was 15 years old, though the guy got in me, it hurt very much , but i new that would happen any way, it wasnt a good experience at all, i thought it could only get better. again in the may i ...

Is there any way I can have a bigger penis??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - This may sound dumb but, my girlfriend has had sex with alot of guys (like 30) this dosen't bother me that much (well it does but I'll deal) She had a couple guys with huge penis's like 10 inchers I have a 7incher and want a bigger one has anything ...

She can't have an orgasm...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6705 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and have had alot of sex at first it was great but now were getting frustrated. I used to beable to get her off quickly but we switched to anal sex for awhile, now she cant get off in her vagina. We ...

All I want for Xmas is... My partner not *only* to have bought me sex-toys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6705 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi, ok ive been with my partner now for 3 months and the sex is great! christmas is coming, as we all know. we have a very honest relationship and he went shopping with one of his male mates, who also has a gf, and they went to a popular sex shop...

How do I make my girlfriend go crazy, sex-wise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

16 December 2005 (M) - Hey, Ive been going out with a girl for a while, and we fool around a bit, we dont want to have sex and probably wont. I generally have no problems giving her an orgasm, but i would like to now how to really make her crazy, ie how do i stimulat...

He gave me a sexually transmitted disease..twice! Why do I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a 22 yr old man for 7 months now and think i may have fell for him. i had known from the beginning that he was still living with the mother of his child but it was not till 6 weeks later that he told me him and her were ...

Any help for my girlfriend's sore vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend's vagina is always sore the morning after us having sex, despite using lubricant. this in turn is leading to a decrease in our sex life. is there anything that can be done for this?...

My bf forced me to have sex and I'm confused..I was turned on by it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend forced me to have sex with him. We just finished having a really bad fight and sex was the last thing on my mind. He ripped my clothes off and threatened me with a knife. I cried the entire time. He just kept telling me to ...

Help...why am I fantasizing about my wife having sex with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - I have fantasies about my wife having sex with other individuals, we have a healthy sex live and we enjoy each other but it's over 5 years that I been having this fantasies, why?...

I'm a sex addict. How do I stop thinking about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a sex addict. How can I stop thinking about sex and just get on with my life? I'm 51 years old widower, I've looked after three children on my own for the best part of ten years. These children although they are still at home ...

My gf complains that sex is too painful-how can I make it pleasurable for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend complains that sex is painful for her. I have tried several different positions and techniques but I cannot seem to find anything that works. She says that the length of my penis is the problem ( I measure in at 8 inches ). I have not ...

Why do some men have pre-cum and others don't? Is it normal to have it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Help, why do some men have pre-cum and others don't. is it normal to have it? Is it bad? Does this happen only to men that are not circumcised? I have a foreskin and when i get aroused i have pre cum, other friend of mine, has no foreskin and has no ...

I can't have an orgasm!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - I am 19 and i have had sex about 5 or 6 times with different women, yet none of these women have made me come, most men would like this as it means i can last a long time but i am desperate to have an orgasm through sex, my last experience lasted ...

We had a threesome and now Im torn between my boyfriend and friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 8 months and we have been pretty happy. We plan on moving in together this summer and have talked about the future together. BUT, now i'm confused. We are both friends with one of his ...

Are there any ways to make your vagina smaller, without surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Is there any way to make a vagina smaller? My friend is asking and she doesn't have an account, so I figured what the hell, cuz if it was me, I would have asked for myself, hell, i think I will actually, Is there any way to make your vagina smaller? ...