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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Should I just ask him to leave my house and be civil for our son or should I try work on things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I'm mortified my partner has gone away for a weekend with a mate we have chatted every day like normal and made plans to go on a mini break together Except tonight he sent me a message asking me if we are meant to be together I asked him why he...

Any advice on how to handle seeing my player hookup on this very small campus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hey all, It's almost since a year since my ex-fiance broke up with me. I have only dated one guy since then and decided to stop it before it went too far because I couldn't get over my ex. I am a senior in college and have liked this guy ...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

Why would he buy a packet of condoms (when sober!) and suggest sex after telling me he wanted me to respect him more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - So yesterday I was kissing my boyfriend with tounges in a public place and kissing on his neck and he was like "please don't put your tounge in" so I apologized and he cornered me and told me how I was going too fast and he wanted me to slow down ...

What is vanilla sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi What does people consider "vanilla sex"? How does mostly practise it and do you find it unattractive or not excited?...

Nothing seems to make her cum, she won't tell me what she wants, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Okay so my sex techniques aren't good enough for my girlfreind . Before you over look this as me not going down on her or lacking basic no how, let me explain in detail. I have been with 8 women and made 3 of them cum (squirt, and p***y clench). My ...

Whenever he sighs 'I love you' I think of him saying that to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - dear cupids, whenever i'm with my 10 month boyfriend having sex and he sighs "i love you" i instantley remember a situation that happened between him and a girl he once slept with before me, in which he sighed to her "i love you" and she said tha...

My partner says I'm too heavy for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - We cannot have sexual intercouse because my female partner has told me that I am too heavy for her. What is the best way to lose weight? Is it a good idea for me to go to the gym? Has this been a common problem for other couples when hav...

Should I text the guy I had first date sex with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hello I asked a question last week after I (stupidly) had first-date sex and I am still not sure what to do. This is my original post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sex-on-the-first-date-how-can-i34.html OK the thing is, we had sex and...

What could my fwb want to 'discuss'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

30 March 2013 (?) - Friends with 'some' benefits situation: here goes: Nov 2012: approached him, started to hang out with him, told him I liked him, he told me he liked me too. Started to send flirty text messages daily. Saw him 2wice a week. Very sexually attract...

We can't get time alone and its causing a strain on our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Well i've been with my gf for 6 months. Getting time alone (i.e) when parents are out is near impossible, the past few times have not been ideal (period, illness etc etc on both our behalfs). this has led to no sex for either of us for 2 months....

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she aske...

He's so rough that I find myself sore afterward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Whichever way I say it, it will sound awkward so here goes.. I have only had a sexual relationship with one guy, as many I didn't really know what to expect blah blah blah so I pretty much let him do anything. He was quite rough especially when ...

Spice up sex life with some stranger role play - or is this asking for trouble later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts, I could use some opinions/advice! Here's the short: My fiance and I are getting married in 8 months, and we have a great relationship. We've been together almost 3 years, live together most of it and our sex life has diminished th...

How can I make sex easier for my virgin girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi, me and my new girlfriend (since last night) just had our first sexual encounter last night. We played with each other, no actual sex. I've noticed that she's extremely tight. As in, one finger only, two hurts. I asked her if this is normal f...

Why does everyone like this girl and want to be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Dear cupid, there is this girl who I know of and I'm quite worried about her and concerned for my friends, but I don't know if I should stay out of it or start doing something about this. Basically, she is going around and fooling around a...

Why can't I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I have tried to have sex with my women two times this week and my penis has not worked well at all. Even with her giving me head ....I don’t know what to do. I only 32 and this has never happened before! What is wrong? ...

I want a FWB relationship that is exclusive with him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - I have a friends with 'some' benefits type of relationship going with a very hot n sexy guy. He's the hottest guy I've ever laid eyes on, and he makes me wanna just be free and not hold back in any way, or I might regret it. However, becau...

Is it normal to keep a chart of your sex life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - I noticed in a drawer that was open, between the porn tapes, a piece of a paper. On the paper was the dates we had sex, where we had sex, the tapes we watched or did not watch and the number orgasim's I had. It appears my significant other has ...

What is the difference between making love and having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - What is the difference between making love and having sex? Is it more morally right to make love rather than have sex? My BF says he could never just have sex but would like to make love (we are both 19) and just wanted thoughts please, not on us ...

I am a virgin, girlfriend is not. I am afraid I can't measure up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I just met this girl 4 months ago and things couldn't have been better. We hit everything off perfectly. But I'll get directly to the issue. Eventually I brought up topic of previous sexual history and I asked to be honest. I'm 21 years old, only ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

How do I tell my wife I want to watch her have sex with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - Behind The Green Door I want to watch my wife have sex with other men. And I don't know how to tell her. It's a Turn On I would love to experience. How can I tell her to bring home the boys and men?...

I miss feeling desired from my man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and our sex life is getting me down. I feel like the chemistry is dying... I'm still trying but I'm not getting anywhere! He never initiates sex anymore, and we are only having sex maybe a couple of ...

Some like it rough.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for awhile (6 months) and we have some great times in and out of the sack. The other night, we were partying and she made the comment,"I like it rough too as long as their is no pain". I have never been rough, to women. ...

Dealing with my wife's past...need help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I’ve been married for 6 months now and I have been with my wife for 1 ½ years. We are both Christians, but we met while we were in our previous marriages. I found out early in the relationship that she had an affair about 9 years earlier with a ...

She's detached, doesn't like sex, won't work on counseling, doesn't want to split, I'm confused, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - my wife has been detached for maybe past 3-4 years emotionally. She will not kiss me or when we have sex might as well be using a doctor scrub outfit. just very maybe agonizing for her, i ask her why and she says shes just very angry with me which ...

For females, are squirting and orgasms two separate things or when a female squirts is that the orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - For females, are squirting and orgasms two separate things or when a female squirts is that the orgasm?? I have squirted three times but don't ever remember feeling that big "O" moment where my body shook uncontrollably.. I don't know if I've tru...

Am I satisfying my Man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I don't know if my boyfriend cummed while we were having sex. Usually I know when he cums by his reaction but last time I wasn't sure as we were having sex for a while. There was stuff in the condom, so was that cum? Or can that be pre-ejaculati...

Is there any way my girlfriend can make herself tighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - I have a girlfriend who i have been dating for 2 years now. We are sexually active whenever we see eachother. Heres the problem, when my girlfriend gets really wet the friction lessens a lot and the sensation is completely different. She doesnt feel ...

It seems like a chore to have sex with my boyfriend because I hardly get pleasure from him and he wants it ALL the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months always wants sex. I'm 22 and he's 19, I can understand he's a hormonal teenager, but not only can I not keep up, I physically can't, I inflame easily therefore can only take it slow with a lot of foreplay. Although I'm n...

I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity togeth...

Does the depth of a woman reveal if she was sleeping with another person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I have been having sex with my lady friend for over 15 years and I used to be able to hit the back wall of her vagina because she used to say it hurt when I went to deep we had broken up for a little while she said that she did not sleep with nobody ...

Can a man tell me what a lady needs to do for some steamy sex from her husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I need direct, honest answers, preferably from men. I love my husband and don't plan to cheat or divorce. I find him extremely attractive and he shows me love via copious amounts of affection and support. Our sex life on the other hand, i...

Nothing below the belt - My belt not his!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I am a 28 year old female and I am a virgin (Vaginally and Anally), Although I have given a few (2 to count them) blowjobs I have never had the desire to have full intercourse and when the option has come up I would start to shake or even cry and ...

Drunken one night stand with the friend of the girl I like. How do I discourage this girl nicely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - Hello all, Firstly, I'm a 22 year old guy currently studying at University. Recently, over the past 2 months of so, I started chatting to and hanging out with a girl I'll call Rita on my course. We'd just do stuff like get coffee and talk, which ...

How is it I enjoy having sex with him, but when ever he tries anything else, I can't seem to enjoy it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - The first time my boyfriend tried pleasuring me, it was amazing, and I even had an orgasm. He continued after that point, and we both figured the irritation / discomfort I was feeling as he continued was because of over-stimulation. Ever since, ...

If you've just started seeing someone, when is the right time to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Hey y'all To start off, I've started seeing this guy recently. He's older than me by 5 years, but our personalities seem to really suit one another, which is why I think we really hit off so far. So, we've talking for 2 weeks now. We've g...

My wife is interested in a non-intercourse foursome with our best friends!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been happily married for 4 years. No real fights everything is great. We have two beautiful girls together. In the past year and a half we have become extremely good friends with another married couple. My wife and the woman ...

I want to improve our relationship in so many ways, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So I'm going to an 18th party at the weekend with the new boyfriend. Planning on getting him drunk and then because we are sleeping the night (drunk) in a bed was gonna take things to the next level. He's a virgin though. We will have been going ...

How can you tell if your 16 year old daughter is having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - How do you know if your 16 old is having sex she say she not but how can you tall? ...

Sex on the first date. How can I stop it being a one night stand and date him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I had a first date with a man the day before yesterday. It went very well as in we got along well, had lots of things in common. I was adamant that I would NOT sleep with him, completely certain but... several glasses of wine later and whoops, I ...

Can you have sex without feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am super confused, please help me figure this one out! If a guy said he never had relationships with a girl, he only used her for sex, how in the name of everything that's good can it carry on for 2-3 months and no feelings whatsoever developed? ...

We've never had sex before, so how do we get started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with this guy for a year now and we are deeply in love. Though we're both virgins we've done all the kissing and touching upper the waist but this time I really want to have sex with him. How do I get started and make ...

Could stress be responsible for the lack of intimacy in our relationship? How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - so me and my bf have been together over 3 years, he has his things and i have mine. i like porn, he likes russians, but have a relationship that is true and honest. we know everything the other does. well lately he hasent wanted to have sex, or even ...

Lack of passion and intimacy is making me paranoid and suspicious

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25 March 2013 (F) - Hi there, Myself and my girlfriend have been together around 6 months now and its been brilliant. We're both very happy together and can see the relationship having a real chance of a future. When we first started dating we had that honeymoon pe...

Will my husband be able to tell that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I had sex once before 5 years....i never had sex after that...will my husband know if am a virgin?.......

How can a relationship continue without sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have come to terms with being a bisexual, maybe even lesbian if the future remains this way. This all started when my very close friend and flatmate told me she loved me and threw me into a whirlwind of questions. After a month of separati...

Virgin, BF cannot get it up. Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - First off: I am a virgin, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we started fooling around the other night and /tried/ to have sex but..... He could not get it in with and without the condom on. We tried missionary and doggy and it just ...

Bleeding after sex an she is no virgin and neither is her periods due?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. It was my first time ever, not so much hers. After maybe 10 minutes, I pulled out cuz I felt myself slipping, and I wanted to change positions. When I pulled out, the condom brushed a...