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writes:Im in love with this girl and were going out but she always wants to have sex and im not too keen on sex but i do it anyway for her. also i dont enjoy and i dont feel anything from it.Is the something wrong with me?How can i tell her to lighten up on the sex?Is there anyway i can get turned on by her? Reply to this Question
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reader, HateMyLife +, writes (28 July 2009):
thx for the info and i think it is me but i have tried to do different thing and she doesnt like it she just wants me for sex
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reader, HateMyLife +, writes (28 July 2009):
maybe she think sex is the best way to shw affection
there inst anything wrong with u unless ur too attractive
Maybe if u do something with her that wont lead to sex
as for turning on i dont know try live out ur fantasys with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx i think
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): ok this question worries me slighty as i think my boyfriend feels the same as you, its just that weve only started having sex in the past 2 or 3 months nd i only c him from friday till l8 sunday. he totally adores me nd i kno 4 a fact he isnt cheating or anything like that, but still we only have sex once, occasionally twice a week, he does initiate sex but most of the time hes "too tired" or its "inconvienant" as other people are around. iv talked 2 him about it but he says im being stupid and insecure, but i cant help feeling that im obviously a shit girlfriend. the truth is, if this is how u feel, your girlfriend may hav picked up on it nd started feeling horrible, mayb instead of ignoring the situation which isnt good for either of u, perhaps try sensitivly explaining how u feel 2 her, dont tell her you dont find her attractive, but explain u hav a low libido. do u think the problem is her or you tho? u may need 2 consider that first. Hopefully if your right for each other and really in love, you can work through it together, mayb try new things 2gether that may interest you more or make you feel more turned on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 Well, the mere fact that a woman would want me that bad would surely turn me on. I am sure there is nothing wrong with you, or he wouldn't want you that much, that often.
Oh, I wish I had your problem!!! Enjoy!!
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