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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Bent penis and orgasming too early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - i have just met a new man. he got an bent penis, and mayby orgasm to early because of it. Has that got anything to do with each other? Or could it be that he orgasm to quick, because he didn't had a girlfriend for 3 years. I don't know how long he ...

Can tight vaginal muscles damage a penis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is always extremely worried that I'm too tight and will cause damage to his penis. I have really good control over my vaginal muscles, but usually during orgasm they squeeze down on him and it freaks him out. He says it's too tight ...

I'm not emotionally involved in sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Me and bf have started having sex and whilst I love being with him, I don't think I'm getting any satisfaction from it. On the contrary I still bleed everytime we do it :S I know sex isnt the only thing but I'm starting to feel like its all about hi...

How do I define when is it too young or too old to have sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - is 15 young to have sex ? i was just wondering what are peaple views on 15 years olds having sex is it too young or an alright age? i would just really like to know what peaple think about it ! thakns ! x...

I don't want to use birth control and don't want her to get pregnant

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - when is it ok for me to cum inside my girl???wit no pill and no condoms.. and please dont tell me to use a condom cuz its not the same and i dont want to hear .make her take pills.. ...

I love my boyfriend but I think about girls in sexual ways!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so here goes.. I'm with this guy, love him to bits, seriously love him, never felt like this before. It drives me crazy! BUT... I have a slight thing. I don't know what to do or make of it. You see i do love my boyfriend very much, bu...

17 and having errection problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - am a 17 year old boy and have been having erection problems for the last 6 months. About 6 month ago I tried to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time i got inside her but after awhile i got soft and coulnt goback in(it was on the beach and ...

Do men orgasm during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Do men always have an orgasm while having sex? Plus - if they do - should it not be that a woman should orgasm too at the same time? (Just for life to be fair and equal?"...

Should physical intimacy play a minor role in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I have had major relationship problems with my boyfriend which have mostly revolved around intimacy/sex. My partner has revealed that he thinks non-sexual things should make up 90 per cent of a relationship and that sexual things should be 10 per...

What is the method of 'cleanliness' after having sex with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I am a married Muslim woman. I want to make sure what is the method of gaining cleanliness after having sex with my husband....

Not having orgasm from sex. What's this about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been having sex for over a year now. when I have sex I always feel pleasure from it but never have an orgasm. when I masturbate I always orgasm, quite quickly. Whats this all about?...

I hate having these negative feelings about women and it's consuming me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Hi where do i start. Im a 27 year old man and im really struggling with handling how much casual sex i see around me, though friends and people i meet out on a night out. Iv just come out of a long relationship almost 6 years. it was over due a...

I want to have sex with b/f but I'm afraid he'll leave me if we do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Since four years i am having a boyfriend. We have kissed and hugged each other many times, but no sex. For the last 4 years he is insisting me to have sex, but i never agreed. I have fear in my mind that he will use me and will leave me after that. ...

Had oral sex with friend's married mom..now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - We had a party at my friend's place a couple weeks back. I got trashed and passed out. When I woke up, his mom was there. So she was telling me their marriage isn't doing too good. They are in counseling but she wants to separate. We were ...

Why was the first time so wonderful and the second time so horrible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - this is an akward thing to talk about with friends etc.. so i hope you guys can help me out a little :) ive been with my boyfriend now for 18 months almost, i absolutly love him to pieces! hes amazing, hes the sort of guy who might not spend alot of ...

I called her a random celebrity name while having sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to ...

Should this size of a toy cause me pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I just recently bought my first d*ldo, and its diameter is 2". Based on all of the ones I looked at, the diameter was on the low-average end, with the smallest one's being 1.75" and others going 3" or larger. I figured that the 2" would be just ...

Too tight to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - my vagina is WAY too tight to have sex. it hurts if i try to use a dildo when i masturbate, and my muscles are so tight that there is simply no way to fit a normal sized penis in there. and if there was some way to forcibly insert, sex would be ...

Should I get male enhancement pills, does size matter that much to women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - i'm 18 years old and my dick is about 6 inches and whenever i show it to a girl i get embarrassed and i've actually thought about taking male enhancement to make it bigger ..does size matter to any of you women?...

I used to be able to orgasm but I can't anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I used to be able to orgasm but i cant anymore now just before i orgasm i get really sensitive, too sensitive,its horrible, and this prevents me from reaching orgasm. Ive never had this problem before and it only started 3 weeks ago, and its not...