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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...

I have fallen madly, hotly in love with my sister in law

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I have completely fell for my sister-in-law , she even told her cousin I have the major hots for her and word for word her cousin came and told me , my brother has not done anything with her sense October last year and she is so grandly hot and it ...

What are we ? Last night he told me "you're not my girlfriend".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I'm having the most troubling time. I'll start explaining from the beginning. (lets call him J) I met J my first year of college. At the time we both had someone we were dating, so we never bothered getting close or anything. maybe 2 months p...

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....

I feel like "Mr No Spine"

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - His ladies and gents, long time no post here. The past 4 years have been great, I have met a great woman, and 1 year ago, we got married. We are living with her parents, it can get a little claustrophobic at times. Just for a small amount o...

My gf won't be sexually intimate

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

Has he agreed to see where things lead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I had been seeing a separated man for 2 months. He has been separated for 18 months. He has been very open and honest with me about his difficult divorce he is in the process of. From the start he told me he wasn't sure how much he had to give ...

Before I met her she had sex with my cousin. How do I get over this fact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her...

My boyfriend has a fat fetish and wants me to gain more weight! I've already gained 100!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2329 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I met my bf almost a year and a half ago and we imediately hit it off great. Then I weighed about 150lbs. The first 4 months were great and he was so caring and attentive always surprising me with my favorite snacks or ice cream and taking me out to ...

Will a man in a sexless, long term marriage eventually have sex with another woman?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a question and I am curious about what the opinions are out there. If a man is in a long term relationship or marriage and his wife was no longer willing to have sex (ie. she never did like it to begin with, she no longer likes it) with h...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

What's your opinion of age gaps? Does he really like me? Or does he have a different motive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - Okay so first.. What's your opinion on age gaps?? What's to big of an age gap? There is a guy at my work ( I work in a factory) who works second shift while I work first. He is 12 years older than I am. When I very first started working there he...

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

I feel I'm missing out on a experience that I desperately want to feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I'm a man and I'm confused about my sexuality with no idea how to confront it. For as long as I've had an identity I've never labelled my sexuality as what's between the ears has always been more superior to me opposed to how someone identifies. ...

I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues. I am not the kind of woman that turns down sex from my man but yet I feel like ever since we married my husband puts in no effort causing me to think he will be tempted to ...

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

Are there problems for wife swapping or threesomes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - Friends, Me and my wife are very god friends and talk about any of our feelings each other. Some two years back I have spoke to her about couple swap or threesome she was also interested in and had similar fantasies. Now that we know there are r...

How am I supposed to have sex after I orgasm from oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - Hi! I have a quick question. I'm new to all of this, and my friends told me that the best thing is to have your bf go down on you before sex. But when I get off when I masturbate, the walls inside get really super tight, and there's no pleasure down ...

What can I do? Don't want it rubbed in my face. But she says I'm offloading my insecurities by being upset with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 June 2016 (M) - My friend upset me again talking about interacting with another man who she has a past with... I've covered with her in the past that she's to have as much fun as she can with whomever she feels like regardless that I'm mad about her. We have f...

I want to marry my g/f but she won't do oral sex and its important to me

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

20 June 2016 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and she wont blow me. I go down on her and tell her alot how much id like one. She says she might one day but thinks itsgross and awkward. I want to marry her one day but this is important to me. What ...

I've asked my ex 3 times if he wants to hook up. He always says yes but it never happens

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Okay, so I've been horny lately and I ended up asking my ex if he was interested in hooking up and he said yes. But we never did it. I asked him 3 times, each time after I waited 2 weeks. The last time I asked was 4 weeks ago, and he said he was ...

Painful foreplay is a turnoff

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

18 June 2016 (M) - I am in a relationship for more than a year , while have foreplay with my gf she feel extreme pain and that moment will be the end of our quality time. And after a year still she is virgin. Is there any problem in her or anything that we can make ...

High Libido and still a virgin. Am I weird or is it somewhat normal for my age to use masturbation to relieve my sexual tension?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts. So I'll be 17 soon and am not yet sexually active. Problem is my hormones have been driving me crazy since I turned 11/12 (when I hit puberty). That is the time when I started masturbating (please don't tell me its a sin or anything...

How do I meet a woman who is accepting of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I'm 30, male, and from the United Kingdom. I have Asperger's Syndrome - but it isn't the main issue here, the main issue is dating and my sexuality. I am mostly attracted to women, but have some attraction to men [but it is less important th...

Is it wrong to sleep with my sister's boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have been single for the last year epically failing with guys and dating.. I can never get past first kiss.. And for a girl with a high sex drive that can be pretty frustrating!! Last night we all went out to celebrate my sister's boyfrie...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

How do I get over my needs for a boyfriend and for sex? I'm 16 and a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 16. Obviously I'm a teenager so I have'needs'... Well they're more desires than needs. My first desire is to find someone to love who will love me back. Someone I can trust and talk to who understands me. Will I find him soon? Who know...

I have sex daily with my BF and I masturbate. My high sex drive is a problem. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I have always had a fairly high sex drive even in high school but the past year my sex drive keeps getting higher. It's to the point where I actually can't do daily things. My bf and I have an amazing sex life but he said that he physical...

I feel broken and replaceable in my marriage. I just want some affection!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - Hi, I am (28) married for about 10years now my husband is 32. I can't help but feel like there is something wrong with me. He is the only man I had ever been with. He taught me how to give blow jobs, and even got me got me to me to try anal. And I ...

Should I accept this? My Boyfriend wants to sleep around and then come back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - This is my first post so I'll try not to make it too wordy. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. About 10 months ago, I broke up with him because I felt like I needed more sexual experience before we settled down. He was heartbroken and ...

Group sex with boyfriend, his room mate and room mate's girlfriend! I loved it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I'm 23 and have had boyfriends all through high school I've never thought about another girl in a sexual way. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were drinking with his roommate and the roomates gf when they dared us to kiss. After more drinks we ...

I feel betrayed and devastated that my husband is regularly visiting a brothel. What are my options to deal with my hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - after 6 years of marriage I feel everything is falling apart! and I am completely devastated .. My husband is having an adultery, he is a regular brothel visitor. we got married after years of crazy deep love and commitment, now we are married for ...

Am I being selfish? Should I persist and continue with this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I have a lot going on in my life right now. I just got a new job that I love and my youngest just graduated from high school and is leaving the nest soon. I also started dating a new guy. He is very handsome, sweet and is in good shape. I like...

He wants to have sex on Skype! Do you think anything serious can come out of this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - Hi, iam on a dating site, I received a message from man aged 53, he was saying how he liked my profile and would like to get to know me. I checked his profile it said looking for serious relationship leading to marriage, he also said that he likes ...

I need help, please. Ten months therapy. Still a virgin. Still wary of girls. How can I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

10 June 2016 (M) - Hi everyone I'm posting again here because I cant seem to solve this problem no matter what I throw at it. I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have low self esteem as a result. My last and only girlfriend was 5 years ago. I've been on several first an...

Do women feel extra sexy during their periods?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - Is it true that when women are on their periods they are sexually high / their sex drive is high at this point? Like few days before the periods, on periods and just after the periods gets over. Does it happens that they dress in a way that they lo...

Not long before we started to date he had sex with a girl who is one of my friends. Now I know I feel uncomfortable about it. How should I respond?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - Would you date a guy who had slept with your friend not long before you decided to date? Note that it was not a one night stand, but happened a few times... I have known this guy for a while and only recently have we hung out a lot and gotten t...

These are some sexual dilemmas that concern me. Can you advise me on any of these issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

8 June 2016 (M) - If you think you would like to be friends with someone and you can see think they are angling for a date/sex, do you make it clear to them you aren't looking for anything? or do you hang out with them and then just be distant. Sometimes ...

Can anyone understand why I am so distressed about my husband masturbating to porn when I'm at work or when I'm asleep beside him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - Hi A couple of months ago I discovered that my husband masturbates to porn while I am asleep or while I am not at home or working late. Our sex life is average, we have it at least 1-2 times per week, but I am always the one initiating i...

Our sex life has gone stale! I’m feeling unwanted. Am I being selfish? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

7 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 23 years old, and I feel like our sex life is pretty dead and boring. It sounds horrible to say it but it really bothers me. When we first started dating we couldn't keep our hands off each other now we will have sex...

Does it seem that this type of man would love a girl of this nature? What's the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - Can this guy really be deeply in love with this girl? I have a college classmate/group member who I kind of have a crush on, but his relationshiup with his girlfriend is kind of questionable. Had a friend ask him if he has a girlfriend, and ...

Should I feel this hurt that he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts. I had sex without protection with some guy a month ago. Before we had sex he told me that he loves me so i just went with the flow. The next morning he bought(he is working) me morning after pill to prevent the chances of me getting p...

Are his drunk words a red flag or simply a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - I'm dating someone I met online. He's normally very level headed and very good to me. But yesterday he posted a Facebook status while drunk which bothers me. It said "I f***ing hate it when one can't close out" which I believe he means he couldn't ...

How can I ensure that I don't get myself into such a scary situation again, where the next guy might not be so considerate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 June 2016 (F) - Hi, So last year I was talking to a guy online. We met online and spoke for a while, including messaging and video calling. And yes the messages quickly turned quite sexual as you'd expect. It was all just innocent "fun" but then he suggested we...

Why do we no longer have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

3 June 2016 (F) - Im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and have been for 2 and a half years we have lived together for one. Were both incredibly happy and are very affectionate towards one another. All is going well except for one thing ... sex. In the ...

Our sexual energies might not be aligned! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

3 June 2016 (F) - I have this incredible bond and friendship with the guy I'm dating. He's exactly my type. He's so endearing and cute. I want to take care of him and give him anything he asks for. I've never felt such a strong feeling of giving. He's so ...

Why do I have no luck with dating and forming new relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

2 June 2016 (F) - I hope my life doesn't sound too miserable.... I never had luck in love. I'm not a weirdo. I have good taste in clothing and I try every possible way to make myself look nice, but I didn't start dating until I was 27. My ex who is also my first br...

Love my current LDR partner, but I am energised and in love with a colleague. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

2 June 2016 (M) - I met my GF in college 5 years ago and we have been together ever since then getting engaged 3 years into the relationship (wedding organised for summer next year). We have been involved in a long distance relationship over the last 3 years as...

I'm frustrated in a sexless marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

1 June 2016 (F) - I am currently in the most wonderful marriage... Married my best friend and we share a beautiful Family and a very blessed life... Every day I thank my stars that he's In my life and we are enjoying this journey we are on together... So what's the ...