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I'll be 16 in February, he's 21, is he too old for me? And is a bj a bad idea?

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Question - (27 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *eRd 1232 writes:

I'm 15 turning 16 in feb. And is he's 21. Is he to old for me? Oh, and is it a bad idea if I gave him a bj?

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A female reader, NeRd 1232 United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

NeRd 1232 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank u ur answers really help. Thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

no he is not too old for you age is only a number.you will be 16 soon so then it is legal(not that dating is illegal anyway).and i agree when you say at least he is mature etc and others your age are a pain i should know.

do not let anyone tell you date people your own age that is your choice.ignore anyone who gives you grief etc.just concentrate on being happy.

it doest matter if he can do things you cant what on earth has that got to do with a loving relationship?

if you want to give him a bj it is your choice to make not ours.

hope this helps

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

Guys are all idiots. Just be patient, at your age it isn't about finding the right one. It's mostly just trial and error. But this 21 year old guy is bad news. I don't mean to put you down, but he's up to something if he's 21 and wanting to date a 15 year old.

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A female reader, NeRd 1232 United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

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Well. Thank u and that was exactly what I was thinking. But I think he is different from anyone I meet. And he's mature and I like that. But its like he's 16 or 17 but is 21. Do u catch my drift. And I aleady dated people my age and ppl a year younger than me and they r all idiots.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (27 July 2009):

Yes, he is too old for you. I know some ppl say, "age is just a number." Forget that. He's 21, which legally means that he is a true adult, not 18 and he can buy porn and cigarettes. He'll be into things that you cannot do, for example going out to bars, clubs, etc. He'll be meeting other girls his age (which he should be dating anyway) I'm sure in most states it is illegal anyway. I'm sure he's aware that a girl your age is easy to take advantage of and will use it to his benefit.

Date someone your own age and don't give him or anyone else BJ's.

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