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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Do I need to moderate my high sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6003 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I want to have sex with my boyfriend more than once a week and more than one time when we actually start. I like to bring new positions,places and even clothing to the act. I even e-mailed 7 new kamasutra positions to do together. Some times I call ...

Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with ...

He has problems ejaculating! Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - mmm... wenever i masturbate my boyfriend.. give him oral.. or we have sex with me on top.. he gets no pleasure out of it + tells me to stop.. :/ its been like this since the 1st time and wev been together nearly a year. he has always had probl...

The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... a...

I heard that testosterone helps a woman's sex drive..can any female attest to this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5999 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - A question for women. I have heard in a recent talk show a woman say to the host that she had taken testosterone as part of a treatment she was undergoing and under the influence of testosterone she said she was shocked how her sex drive and ...

When I am naked he doesn't get an erection...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - What does it mean when you can be entirely naked in the shower, with your boyfriend talking to you (sat on the toilet) and he doesn't get an erection... Any ideas? Does it mean he doesn't find you arousing? Does it mean he could be gay? Does it ...

I am married...but am I normal to crave sex so bad with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm pretty sure that I'm bi-sexual, but I'm not exactly sure. The only way I can really get sexually aroused when I have sex with my husband is if I think about gay sex. (That includes men and women). My ...

No period...a negative urine test...but what will be the result of my blood test? Thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello again! I previously wrote in saying i had pregnancy symptoms and they all went away. My period is due nov 21 - dec 1st...so far NOTHING! I went to the dr wed still negative by urine. Thursday i took a blood test..and the nurse is suppose...

I am worried I am turning gay...but I don't want to be.

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I am a 13 year old boy and i am worried that i am turning gay. dont get me wrong, i dont hate gay people i just dont want to be gay. When i think about penises i get an erection. when i masturbate and i think about penises, i get an orgasm much mor...

What are the pro's and con's of swinging??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - What are the pro's and con's of swinging??...

Do you think he's just after Sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - ive known this guy for nearly 2 weeks and i really like him the thing is i dont think he belives me as i told him it again yesterday and he said ive not proved it to him, do you think hes just after sex,ive stayed over night at his place 5 times and ...

I'm not sure if I'm masturbating "properly" can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - When I was young, I literally had no idea 'how' masturbation was 'meant' to be done. I wasn't aware of the conventional method, so perhaps in my naivety I just did what felt good. When masturbating, I would lie on my back and with the palm of my h...

A male stripper forced my wife's hand down his underwear, and she touched his Penis. I say it's no big deal, but she feels guilty. IS it a big deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, this says I'm Male, but it's really both myself and my wife asking this. So please address your replies/advice to both of us. We are doing this together as a solution to our little problem. Here it is. My wife's very close friend is ...

His double standards annoy me. Should I let him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My ex husband has a very small penis and doesnt know how to pleasure me in bed. He only cares about himself. When he finishes he just snores away. This new man I've just met is much older than me. He knows every trick to please me in bed and ...

Questions about orgasms during Sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I'm really not asking this because of my sex life,which has tremendously improved.Some of the questions posted 2day had me thinking.Though i came up with answers i need to hear what other people think.As a man,if your lover doesn't scream during ...

I am dating another man but do not feel anything when he ejaculates, only a leakage. Do I learn to control my high drive or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I've just divorced of my husband. The last year together we didnt have sex at all. He has got problem of erection and refuses to sort it out. Since then he doesnt even touches me. He makes me feel really bad. Now I've met this man 18 years ...

Could there be a medical problem with me... I'm 19 and I've gone off sex (although oral sex is fine).

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hiya. recently i have completely gone off sex. i am a 19yr old female. ive been withmy bf 6 months and for the last 6 weeks not had sex cause iv just not wanted it. hes given me oral sex which i love my no matter how aroused i get i never want to ...

Is this just sex or a relationship? Should I just go along with it, and hopefully he will "catch on" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Okay, So, I have been thinking. I really like this guy, and he likes me, we aren't dating, but have had sex a few times. We didn't mean to the first time, we were pretty messed up. But, we had been talking for almost a year or so about dating. He ...

We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time ...

I have been very picky about relationships, but now that I met a special girl we don't "click" in the bedroom! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years, because Ive been very picky. I've finally met a girl who I think the world of. We get along better than anyone Ive ever met in my life. She's extremely attractive, and she feels the same way about me. ...

I cant help screaming when my man and I have sex, but it wakes the old lady next door, I cant help it though, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after ...

A good place for your "first time" ? Suggestions, please.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Where would you say is a good place to have sex for the first time for both you and your partner? and who esle would be around you? e.g. in a house parents etc.Suggestions, please....

Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it ...

Help me about natural life source???!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hey I am in need of a bit of help I am staying on till 6th year but I am in 5th year, all my friends have had sexual intercourse and done lots of other things with boys and their bits and bobs. I am scared of mostly the disgustingness of a g...

I have a fetish which I am afraid will annoy her: I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet ...

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

Is he wrong to say no??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I love to have sex when I have my period but my boyfriend finds it messy and he says he cant feel it as there is no friction. I am not wanting it when I was on fast. I think he should not say no. Please advise....

Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...

I want to try sex with a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have had a series of bad relationships with guys,im currently on my own...and ive decided i want to try sex with a girl!. I have always knew i was a bit bi sexual, and i had an encounter years ago with a mate, but i was young. I am wondering wha...

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with other guys to 'learn new tricks'. Isnt this totally off the wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i was a virgin when i met my boyfriend so hes the only guy i have ever slept with, given a BJ to, etc, etc. we have been together for nearly 4 years but he ended it the other day and said that he wanted to go on a break and that he wanted me to go ...

I am worried my much older boyfriend will kick it during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I married my husband 10 years my senior for his money. I was happy in it because of the money. Years later I realised money is not everything and I was really not happy in it. I've just divorced him and met this man 20 years my senior. It's the ...

I fantisize about other women and cant seem to have sex with my wife. How can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5935 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I'm married, happily, and love my wife, but our sex life has fallen off, and I find that when I fantasize about sex it's not with her, and then when we get a chance to make love, I get ED troubles. How can I bring my fantasy sex life more to do ...

What if I get it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I am a virgin and i really like this guy and i want to make the move on him but i am just scared becuase i don't know what i am doing and what if i am going to do it wrong, i would feel stupid....

He couldn't get hard... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I went to a wedding with my boyfriend, afterwards we headed to a motel to have sex for the first time, so he starts kissing me and removing my clothes, I was so ready! But I guess he wasn't because he wasn't erect! I asked him what was wrong, and he ...

Am I not enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Why does my boyfriend feel the need to masturbate when I'm here and willing to try whatever he wants?...

Is cumming and having an orgasm the same thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - For a boy is cumming and orgasming the same thing?...

I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her...

Worried about pregnancy....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I need help... I am 16 years old and i am in 5th year. I am the only one in my year who hasn't had sex yet. I am afraid of getting pregnant but this guy has had a lot more experience than me. He told me he wants to start seeing me but i don't even...

She wants us to have sex every single night and it is wearing me out. How do I stop this crazy train??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl, and we have been having sex nonstop almost every night since our second date. It’s been three months now, and it’s like every night for an hour or two. I’m not as young as I use to be, and although I love it, the ...

Any ideas how I can talk to my mum about losing my virginity without upsetting her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and wanting to lose my virginity to my 20 yo bf of 4 months. I would prefer i told my mum cause then i have someone to talk to about it but i'm not sure how she would react. I know she would prefer if i waited till i was older but i told her...

Anyone else have a real preference for sex in evenings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I really prefer sex in the evening. Morning sex rarely does anything for me in fact although I'll sometimes have the horn the wee fella downstairs is asleep. Bed time is another matter and I'm a sex pest. Anyone else like this? Prefer ...

Sex from behind/on top... how do I make it enjoyable for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - What do guys like you to do (how to move) when you are having sex from behind (doggy style)?? Also, how do you have sex on top when the penis is quite small? I want to make sure it is enjoyable to him. ...

Scared of losing my virginity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - hiya, I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say a...

He says I should learn to enjoy touching and cuddling and all the sex is createing too much pressure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 42, just divorced and met this man 20 years older than me. We start to have sex two or three time a day when we are together. I really enjoyed it because my marriage is lack of sex. He said I am wanting too much sex and it is a sign of ...

How long will a guy wait for sex??

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...

I feel horny... but how do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - well u see i am 13 years old and i have been getting really horney lately and have been thinking a lot about sex but i can't decide what to do if i should have sex or not or what please help and answer my question please...

Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...

He likes filming us having sex, why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I need advise, I have been involved with a guy on and off for 4 yrs. over the last 2 yrs he has asked if he can video he and I having sex. I did it then but was extremely paranoid when he kept it and didnt delete. a few months after he filmed it ...

Do you think I may have caught an STD from him and how would this be and how would this be if we have been faithful to each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi I was wondering if you guys will help me? I have a spot inside the lips of my vagina and I am very worried. I have been with my fella for 6 weeks, and both of us are faithful to each other. I had sex with him last Sunday and we also take precau...

Is it possible to orgasm simultaneously with your partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of several years and I have not had sex yet. We are both virgins. I have read that orgasm are very nice. How can I give her one? Is it possible to give her more than one? Is it possible for both of us to have one at the same time? ...