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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, When my boyfriend fingers me it hurts. I am a virgin and i feel its such a tight space as he goes in - i get so uncomfortable. I have never done it with my own fingers. And when he does it, he goes in slowly, with one finger and only goes in until Im really wet. Yet it still hurts? Maybe im not relaxed entirely? But what else could be the case? This is also after two more other times that hes done it (though spread apart - dont see each other often)Is it just a case of really bad nerves? P.s - Im a very panicky, anxious person in general. WHat does this mean when we eventually have intercourse, will it hurt really badly? even after ive gotten used to the fingering, well hopefully that is...
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 well because your a very anxious and worried person the fact of you being a virgin scares you so when he fingers you, you tense up which causes pain.to be honest you could try some lubrication on his fingers when he does this but u could still experience pain until you loose your virginity and that certain wall in your virgina hasnt been broken in.when it comes to loosing your virginity make sure you are ready it is quite uncomfortable so best thing to do is use lubrication and take deep breathes.
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