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Archived questions from: February, 2006 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Does my size matter??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - my wife had other partners and was married.this is kind of hard as it is, I feel our sex life is out of this world but she has told me some things that make me feel insecure. I know she didnt mean to hurt my feelings but she told me her ex-husband ...

Perhaos he only has sex with me for my sake...what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

28 February 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 6yrs im only gone 22 ive been with him since i was 16 he is a lovely bloke and i do love him, recently we bought a house together but i wasnt a hundred % certain at the time that it was a good idea because we ...

Two women! One likes sex... the other one doesn't. Who do I choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - hi ive been with my girlfriend for 10 years and we planned to buy a house and settle down together, the only problem was there was little or no sex, ive recently met someone and ive fallen for her and the sex is amazing. i could make a life with ...

My wife told me she was a virgin, but the truth's come out and she was far from it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 10 years (I am 30 yrs old) and been with her for 12. When we got together, she told me that she was a virgin. I was a virgin so I thought that is was great to lose our virginity to each other. ...

I have to tell him to stop...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a very long time... and we havent long started to have sexual intercourse! my boyfriend and i want to make me orgasm. it will be my first orgasm.. but everytime im close to one i always tell him to stop.. ...

I always initiate sex and now he smells funny...could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. At the beginning of our relationship I used to have to beg him for sex and he still would not give it to me. He later said he just liked to look at porn a lot that is why he wouldn't have sex ...

Di I want to marry her because I feel guilty for what I dod with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - i've been with my gf just over a year and have just got back from holiday with her. i had a messy break up with my x gf and still speak 2 her sumtimes but i met up with her on my lunch break from work and he had a play with eachother. we didnt have ...

I want her to have her first orgasm with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - i have been with my girl friend for over a year and lost my virginity 2 her a few months back although she had a sexual partner before me she has never had an orgasm. i really want 2 give her her first one to return all the pleasure she has given ...

I fantasise about being paid to have sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - Hiya I've recently decided that i'm bi-sexual. So often when trying to masturbate I often look at porn. And often some of the things that come up are often where girls are paid to have sex. I know this is wrong, but I keep thinking how I would lo...

I'm turned on with my girlfriend, but I still don't ever climax!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a few months but it seems impossible for me to climax during sex. In fact, I have never climaxed with anyone before. With my girl, I am extremely turned on (more than I have ever been before) but still something ...

Feel inadequate because of my lack of sexual experience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

25 February 2006 (M) - Ive been going out with this girl for a while now, Im 19 and shes 17. The thing is im still a virgin and she has been sexually active since she was 14. We've talked about it and she says its doesn't bother her. But I feel stupid and inferior...

My boyfriend touched me sexually, but it didn't feel all that great...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 875 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. The other night he put his fingers inside of me. I know what this means, but how do I make it feel better? He just kind of sat there. I will not have sex becuase I'm too young, but I don't mind other stuff because I ...

I'm sure I would have be aware if I'd had sex with the guy I met...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 881 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - Hello, I split up from my husband 2 years ago but the divorce has just been finalised. We had been together for 5 years but have fallen out of love. He was the only man I had ever been with. For the last two years I have been very depressed, ...

Happy to use sex toys... but what are they, exactly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - My bf keeps asking me if I want to use sex toys and I think that's fine. But I'm not quite sure what they are. What are sex toys? What are some examples of them? Thank you for your time x x (I think this site is great!)...

Is sex only meant to feel good for guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - I've had sex with my boyfriend about 6 times, the pains gone but im not getting any pleasure out of it, and im starting to think this is only for guys, i dont even cum, but he does...is there something wroung with me? it feals better when im ...

She sends me emails saying she's horny... but only at times when we can't be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - Hello there, I am unhappy with my sex life. My partner is a great girl but we hardly ever have sex. She just sent me an email saying she's horny knowing that she's at work and can't have sex, but as soon as I say we can do it after she says no, cuz ...

My online guy popped up after an absence, but all he wants to chat about is meeting up and sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hello, I am wondering what to do in this (long) situation I am currently in. I met this guy online a few months back. We talked maybe like five times a week for the first month, then after that it was like once a week (if that) and it was real ...

We're not sexually compatible and he doesn't seem to remember what I like. Worth continuing or let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm going out with a lovely guy but I try and avoid the sex as I don't enjoy it at all. He's not that interested in sex and I have tried lots to improve it but I always have to repeat to him what I like and I'm tired of it all. As I think ...

Does anyone know why my guy prefers text sex to the real thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Help, my guy seems to want only text sex. I fell in love with him when we met back in September and he pleaded to meet again. I agreed to meet a week later but he cancelled at short notice, asking for another date. Eventually after stalling for 6 ...

We are attracted to each other but he has a gf-I need advice on what to do before this gets out of hand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - I've met this guy through doing some work with him, which is not finished yet, I'm single and I thought he was, we started text flirting (he started it), it got really flirty and then he told me face to face, he had to stop as he was seeing someone ...

I want your thoughts and opinions on some good relationship questions...thanks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I know this is a 'help' site, but for awhile now I've been tempted to ask this/these question(s). After going through hundreds of postings here on Dearcupid.org and reading the same repetitive worries and cheats and the love-octagons (as opposed to ...

I don't enjoy or feel anything during sex...how do I feel good again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 884 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - IM 29 AND MY PARTNER HIS 23,WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS,HAVE A BABY TOGETHER 15 MONTHS,MY MAN WAS ON DRUGS FOR A SHORT TIME,BUT DURING MY PREGNANCY HE GOT HELP AND HAS BEEN ON MEDICATION FOR A YEAR,SEX BECAME ZERO TO HIM BUT NOW HIS BACK TO ...

I lost my virginity to my gf but she doesnt know and I am haunted by her more experienced past!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and everything is going great for us. I think she is the one and she thinks the same of me she says, its not in the cards yet, but marriage could be in the future. The only problem is, I've lie...

What is the difference between sex and making love??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - Simple question: What would you say is the difference between sex and making love? Thanks...

Me and my bf try to have sex but his penis wont go in!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - I've tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but his penis just won't go in! Is there something wrong with me or can this happen to anyone? I was really in the mood and i don't know what's going wrong, is it just that i'm nervous and ...

When i masterbate there is a pain at the end of my penis!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 875 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - Hello I know this is kinda gross but some guys will undrstand me here, I'm a teenager, and I masturbate quite often, sometimes after I have done this, I get pain at the end of my penis. I can't ask anyone about this, just too embarassing, I know the...

How will he view me if we have anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am in new relationship, we are very much in love and we're happy. The sex is good, it wasn't to begin with, which we discussed and now it's good and getting better all the time. However we recently discussed Anal sex and I'm worried now that If I ...

I know her sexual past is past, but she keeps running into sleazy exes at social functions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi All, I have a gf who has a long sexual past. This does not bother me, except for 1 aspect... She keeps seeing them at social functions because they are either related to her friends or are friends with them. (She comes from a small town where...

Sex with "strings attached"? What does she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend will be at seven months on Friday. We have never had sex, but done a lot of fooling around. Now she has told me that she really wants to do it with me, and is planning on doing so very soon. Her biggest concern is that there wi...

Just as I was ready to orgasm-I had this illusion of a demon in a cloak. I am shook up..is this normal??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - This is rather absurd question that i'm asking now, and i'm not entirely sure if it's even answerable, but here goes. Pardon the explicit nature, but it is necessary as i don't know quite how to word it. This evening while my long term boyfriend and ...

When I ask my Mother about sex...she goes all cold. Should I just keep trying or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I have recently turned 16 and me and my boyfriend really want to have sex for the first time. we waited so that we knew it was the right thing to do, until it would be legal and so i could tell my parents, because i've always wanted to be as open as ...

I want to have sex with him, but I'm feeling confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 885 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I have a good friend called Kallum. Today we were kissing and I asked to toss him off. He let me, whilst he fingered me. I want to have sex with him now as I really enjoyed it but I am feeling very confused at the moment. A bit of help please? ...

Any advice about helping me to stop thinking about having a baby. I'm only 12!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Hey.I'm a little worried right now because i am only 12 and i really want a child! I have never thought about this before i had my period. it worries me because i know i am way too young to have a child at this age but i am stupid enough to do so ...

She asked me a loaded question and I failed miserably...now I'm paying for it bigtime. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Before we were married my wife asked me what my fantasy was...not really one to fanasize, what came to my head was a asian woman. She said nothing at the time and a few weeks later asked me what seemed to be fraised in a joking matter....if you came ...

I've just had a baby and now my bf doesnt want sex with me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I just had a baby. Since than he doesn't want to have sex.I've explained to him how this makes me feel (fat, unattractive, frumpy) and still no change. He proposed when I was 9 months pregant and tells me his feelings...

Orgasm score: nil. But my boyfriend gets defensive if I try to discuss it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together and having sex for over two years and I still have never climaxed. He says that he really wants me to and it's what he thinks about, but I feel that it's all for his pleasure. When I try to talk to him abou...

I don't love my bf..I'm using him to lose my virginity. But I do like my gym teacher! I am sooo confused..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - hi so i got a boyfriend, but i don't love him, i think i just want to use him to loose my virginity.i know it's bad,i know that i should break up with her,but i want some experience in sex before i go into a real relationship. i thing he doesn't...

My girlfriend says my penis hurts her during sex. Can you help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

20 February 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has trouble with my penis hurting her vagina during intercourse. she says it feels like its pulling the skin. can you help?...

I'm 14 years old and I want a bigger penis. Got any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

20 February 2006 (M) - hi im 14 and i am worried about the size of my penis. It's 3.5 " normal and 5 " hard is this normal and is there any natural way i can make it bigger? thanks...

I wish my boyfriend would just take his time when he touches me. Right now, it isn't a turn on at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 885 days ago

20 February 2006 (F) - When my boyfriend tries to finger me it really hurts. (This is the most sexual activity I've paricipated in.) The first time it was OK, but it didnt turn me on at all. And the second time it hurt. I told him to stop, which he did of course. I feel...

Can I get my BF interested in sex toys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 887 days ago

20 February 2006 (F) - I am into using sex toys but my boyfriend is not. How can I get him into using them? ...

He's told me that "we're going to sleep together" on Saturday. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I have a problem. There's this guy I've known for about 4 years. We have been on and off for ages, usually when he has a girlfriend, but we've never slept together. Now, he's breaking up with his girlfriend and we've been flirting outrageo...

My boyfriend seems to be losing interest in sex at the very time I'm ready to try new variations!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - My bf and I have been together almost 3 years. Originally our sex life was amazing. Recently (past 4 months) it hasn't. In fact, asked bf and he in uninterested in sex. At all. It's down to once a week. And personally i think that's only because he ...

Three older ladies paid me to have sex with them. I need the money, but I don't want to be a gigolo!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

19 February 2006 (M) - hello I am 18 years old male. I meet a group of old ladies. They are between 55 and 60 and they are 3 ladies. They offer me $200 to sleep with them and I did it, but I am feeling that I am selling my body. But I need that money. Shall I stay and ...

Need some help figuring out my premature ejaculation problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 889 days ago

18 February 2006 (M) - I'm 19 and a virgin. The problem is when I've been messing around with girlfriends I've been ejaculating prematurely. I can't seem to figure this out and it's stopping me from losing my virginity cause I'm really embarrassed. Also I don't know if ...

My foreskin doesn't retract. How do I correct this?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

18 February 2006 (M) - Alright, I am an 18 year old male, living in the UK. Growing up I lost my virginity with my grilfriend when I was 15, and have had various sexual partners since then. When I lost my virginity, my slightly more experienced girlfriend mentioned...

What age should you be to have sex the first time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

17 February 2006 (M) - Hey, I am wondering whether to have sex for the 1st time. I am 14 and so is my girlfriend. She has done it before and is kean for me to join her, but I am not entirely sure about what to do. Please help me! P.Enguin...

My best gal pal touched me and I didn't resist. Confused over this because we are not gay/bi!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

17 February 2006 (F) - I am a late 30's female and have been friends with my best friend for over 20 years. We both have boyfriends and have never considered ourselves as bi or gay. However the other night after rather too much wine we slept in the same bed (not ...

He doesn't want sex until "it's the right time", but I'm getting impatient!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

17 February 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this really nice guy for the last 6 months. We really get on well and he makes me so happy,however, he doesn't want to have sex with me. When I asked him about it he said he wants to wait for the right time. I have always ...

We love each other, but our sex life is bad! It shouldn't just come down to sex so what's the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 888 days ago

17 February 2006 (F) - Hi people, I wonder if you can advise what to do. Im with a very caring very loving man and we do everything together. My problem is this, how sex life is non existent practically, though not from my side his... mainly due to the fact he always s...