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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

What do I do about this? He doesn’t return the favor!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - so here goes... From the ages of 15 (lost my virginity) to 21 I've always had oral sex given to me with out asking (im now 23)...(by boyfriends not randoms) My current boyfriend of two years this september has only gone down on me a hand full...

Why do guys want intercourse so badly?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Why do they want to have sex so badly? I was skimming the online forums about this; like those pua forums with the creepy guys who do everything they possibly can to get sex. And...I was reading all the replies and different terms, and I want to ...

What else has he lied about? It's upsetting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2918 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Okay. So I've been with my husband since my junior (his senior) year of high school. Lately, we've fallen on hard times and I've taken a fair amount of emotional abuse. I know that it's not him but the stress of his job. He's taking that stress o...

Was this a normal variation for a penis shape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys, so I have a question that's gonna hit a rather touchy area, especially for men, so please keep in mind; I have very little sexual experience (I've never had full intercourse)! So I was recently dumped by a long term boyfriend, and a friend...

He's less interested in sex. Is it me? Or could it be that I disgust him in some way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years and up until about 5 months ago things were great, we had a great love life and sex life and I was happy. However, recently, we've rarely been having sex, I would say maybe once a month. I brou...

Can you change a player just a little?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I'm trying to decide if I should have sex with a guy who's a player. If i don't have sex he'll just ignore me. If I do, then I'll get ignored after...but I was thinking, even if I can't get him to commit, what if I got him to at least do nice things ...

I thought we were on the same page about a baby, but now he wants to go travelling.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - A year a go I found out I had pcos and it horrified me that I would never conceive. I spoke with my partner and said I don't really want to wait to try for a baby - I'm 24 so it wasnt unrealistic. A year later and all of a sudden my partner wants to ...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

How do I approach him about becoming friends with benefits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Me and my friend enjoy each others company as mates , as of now we are both single were both not looking for commitment and just enjoy life . I'm thinking should i ask him he wants to be friends with benefits , and if i do how do i word this to ...

He can’t stay hard, please help us, we don’t know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - I have five years with this guy, everything was cool while having sex but now his penis don't stay strong it even goes down before ejaculation please help us we don't know what to do I love this guy so much...

How do I tell potential FWBs or hookups that I only want oral or manual sex, not intercourse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - I want lower std risks and no pregnancy risks. So I decided to try having hookups but only going as far as foreplay. What I'm worried about is what if they think I'm childish since we're all over 18? Or they may even be angry we're not f*cking... ...

I lost my erection just before sex, is this ED?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - Hi all Ive been with my partner 7 years now, we are both in our 40's and in decent health Recently we were intimate, i gave her oral to orgasm, then went to have sex....to my horror i had gone semi hard, and couldnt have intercourse My p...

Is the arousal because I'm gay or reacting to a forbidden, taboo act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

24 April 2016 (M) - If you're a man and aren't aroused at the thought of being with a woman but are aroused a bit when you think of having sex with a man even though you recently were capable of having fulfilling sex with a female several months ago and never wanted to ...

Do I cut all contact with him? He left me feeling disrespected when he took my virginity and then just left.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this boy for just over a year now, for a good 3 months last year we were seeing each other but things just didn't work out. He then had a giflriend and we were like bestfriends but now they've been broken up for a while an...

I want to try FWB. What should I consider?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I want to try friends with benefits. Any women on here have experiences with sleeping with multiple guys at the same time? Most of the stories I've heard usually only have the male fwb sleeping with multiple girls. So I figure if it's inevitable ...

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

Ladies: Can you sleep with someone for 6 month and have no attachment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - Question for the women. Can you sleep with the same person for nearly six months and have no attachment to them? Is it likely? I've been sleeping with the same girl for that span of time in a fwb situation. We spend the night weekly and talk ...

My ex boyfriend wanted the truth about his ED. Is ED a good enough reason to end a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I had closure with my 45 year ex boyfriend last night. The problems around our sex life weighed heavily on this new relationship. Is it a good enough reason to end a relationship because I cant have penetrative satisfying sex? I love making l...

Does anyone else think that D*cks and sex are overrated?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Now that I've been with a few guys I realize how small guy's d*cks are. Like when he's pushing it in, it can kind of feel big but once you get used to it, it's just not a big deal. And long and short lengths don't make a difference. The ...

Should I cancel the date? Or am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Hi. Bit of advise needed here please! Been chatting to a guy online this past week, and we are meeting for a date tomorrow. We have both made no secret of the fact we are both dating others at the moment, and he went on a date last night. I pl...

Does human love really exist? Do you really believe in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - My love life is not exciting at all,all relationships i have been involved they were nothing but heart breaking.I realized that that i was meant to love or dating for that matter. I will never love again. You give your all to your partner,but som...

If I don't orgasm does that mean I was used for sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - I've been struggling with this idea lately. I want to lose my vaginal virginity, but I know I probably won't get off so...How do I deal with not getting off but knowing the guy will? I could probably come from oral...But I still wouldn't be gett...

Should I hint to him that I want this, or should I leave in the hope that he will ask instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I had a drunken one night stand with a guy in my first term at university and we eventually became friends with benefits. This carried on for three months, until we both developed feelings and felt the best thing to do was end things as neither ...

Should I be concerned about my wife's strange sexual dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 April 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 40 years, and our sex lives have always been 'satisfactory', nothing out of the ordinary really, only occasionally doing something rather daring. However, about six months ago she started taking medicati...

How much does anal sex hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband since we were in high school and we both are extremely happily married. Our sex life is greatcoat nothing wild . He told me he would like to experiment a little but wants me to be 100% ok with it, (he's really respectful ...

Why do men like to ejaculate on their partner's body?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Why do guys enjoy cumming on their partners body? Wouldn't it feel better for them to just leave it inside? My boyfriend almost always pulls out when we have sex and I end up with his sperm on my stomach and boobs. I don't hate it or anything, I ...

I've fallen for my best friend, his girlfriend hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - Am I truly in love with my bestfreind? My best friend is a boy i have known him for several years now and we used to spend everyday together without fail. Now we live far away from each other. within the last year of us living close to each other we...

I'm in a stable relationship but I still can't achieve orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - At 22 I have now found myself in a relatively new yet wonderful relationship, my first 'mature' partnership since school and college flings. My worry is a commonly asked question, why can't I orgasm? The sex is great, I used to fear sex due to ...

I always liked girls but I'm afraid I might be gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

16 April 2016 (M) - Hi everyone ! I would really appreciate some insight as I am clearly confused as to whats going on right now, driving me insane !!! So all my life I have liked girls, I remember plenty of crushes that ive had, from elementary - highschool and my l...

Threesome gone wrong and I feel so cheated! Help me please...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - I have an issue that I can't get over and I don't know what to do. I have been with my husband for approximately 10 years and he has always been my best friend. We have always joked about a threesome but were never really serious, although secretly ...

Would a guy stay with a woman who saves sex for marriage?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - Would guys still be with a girl waiting until marriage to have sex, but she'll do oral every day? And I know guys like to do oral back too, so I'd receive also. I'm not shy about my body, I just want to have sex with someone who will mean something ...

What could be the consequences if my Gf and I did follow through with our wish to have sex, discretely, in a public place?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

15 April 2016 (M) - My gf and I want to experiment more sexually. She wants to have sex some place public, like a mall changing room or movie theatre . What exactly would happen if we get caught? She has given me head in a movie but we were pretty discreet about i...

I want my boyfriend to understand how unhappy I am that he cheated and had sex in a massage parlor

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 4.5 years has been a very loyal and humble person till recently. He had gone on a vacation and has sex at one of the massage parlours. He told me the very next day and has been very guilty and emotionally unstable since then. On the ...

Found out I'm pregnant at 41 after a first date

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - Please do not judge me , Im single and stable ,i went on a date with a guy we had a great date and planned to see each other again but he canceled the 2nd date saying he has issues and not ready to date. I have now found out im pregnant ( the condom ...

Husband lied for four years about sleeping with my friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years this year, married for two. We have three children together. Two girls and a boy. 7, 4 and 9 months. I have a friend, we will call her Lee, and we started becoming friends about two years ago when she foun...

I told my married ex lover I had a boyfriend and he burst into tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for 10 years and he said that we could be together properly once the children were off his hands,but we split up due to me being bored with the situation....anyway I met someone else and although I don't love him I ...

When I am tested for a STD should I trust the protocols in place re my privacy or should I give a false name?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - Hi, I am in need of advice. I am 18 years old and I recently had sex with 7 different men throughout the year. I had unprotected sex with 5 of those men. I am afraid that I caught an STD so I want to get checked. I plan to go to Planned Parentho...

Is it possible to get Herpes by skin to skin contact?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - Is it possible to get Herpes by skin to skin contact. I only slept with one guy and he swears he tested negative. I have hugged other people but it was friendly hugs,nothing sexual. I am so confused because it was a full on outbreak for m...

How do I solve the finishing problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - J and I have been sleeping together for about 2 and a half months now, and the sex is great and we have a lot of physical and emotional chemistry and we usually just can't keep our hands off of each other. However, no matter how hard I try, I can't ...

How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

12 April 2016 (M) - How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past ? From the time I was 18 I was in a band. Even though we were just a small town band we had our own little group of followers and got a good deal of attention. I was young and enjoy life. Ov...

BFcheated and confessed the next day. Do I cut him some slack because of his honesty?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 4.5 years. Everything was smooth until now. My bf had gone on a vacation and had sex with some random girl. He knew he was doing the wrong thing and wasn't drunk but it still happened. He's still away but ...

I enjoy it more without climax - is this odd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - Sex actually feels best when I don't cum? Am I normal? I'm a newbie to sex and have only been having it since last year. But I have done it a lot, and I honestly like sex when I don't orgasm the most. It just feels awesome, and I don't get spent or ...

Is it best to get sex out of the way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - I'm a 19 year old virgin, and my boyfriend of three years recently broke up with me. He's adamant we'll stay friends and so far that's working, but I really want to have sex. The reason we never had sex is we tried twice and the first time hur...

He says my vagina is too loose and that I'm cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend since i was 16 im 23 now. Our sex life has always been good but now he has been saying im too loose and he thinks im cheating on him, which im not!! I have been feeling the difference also but im not sure why my vagina is ...

If a guy has a wart on his penis, then is it genital warts ? And for how long can genital warts be dormant in a person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - Hi all my boyfriend has a wart on his penis which he is not sure where it came from. We have been together for nearly 3 years and I know he has been completely faithful as am I. I don't have any warts or anything. My question is, For how lon...

I'm not ready to be engaged but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend and turn down his proposal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

9 April 2016 (F) - So my bf of almost 2 years recently proposed to me. It's not that I wasn't happy to know that he feels so strongly about me, it's just that there's a few things keeping me from saying yes. I've been 'engaged' once before when I was younger. I u...

Boyfriend has a small penis!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2936 days ago

9 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is has a considerably small penis. When we have sex I'm unable to achieve an orgasm through penetration, only foreplay (oral, fingering) but I've never told him this in order not to hurt his feelings. We've been together for a little ...

Is he saying these things because he’s genuine? Or to get laid? How do I find out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I met a guy in dating site, we are dating each other for couple of weeks and we went exclusive. He is not handsome, but I kind of like the way he carries himself and talks. So I like him, he is younger than me and he never dat...

Is there hope or is this marriage doomed???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - Hello, I have been with my husband for almost 7 years and we only got married in about 5 months ago. He doesn't engage in sex and shows no interest and I am always the on instigating it. He jumps when I try to touch him and he comes up with ex...

Am I in a position to help her? or should others advise her instead?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

7 April 2016 (M) - I'm having a moral dilemma, me and my exgf broke up over a year ago, a few months ago we decided to be friends again since we shared the same group of friends. So I'm dating my current girlfriend for over 3 months now, I've made an effort for my c...