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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Help, my sex drive's too high!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, I am almost 21 years old male, and i am unhappy with my sex drive. It's too high, it is one step behind to perversion. It almost makes me unable to concentrate anything whole day. I'm asking a way to lower my sex drive, if there ...

When in a relationship with an older woman how should the younger man approach the topic of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - When in a relationship with an older woman how should the younger man approach the topic of sex? Should the older woman take the lead in the topic? Should the younger man communicate an interest? How so? Any tips for enjoying sex with an older wo...

How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Body language and expression tells a lot. How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse? Do you like seeing the expression of pleasure on partners face during sex? Is that good for you? ...

My first time, how do I move during sex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a long time (well over a year now) and we've only just decided to have sex (we're both in our 20s but decided to wait until the time is right, which it is now!). However, I've never had sex and although he has ...

Can I have proper sex with a 4 incher???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I have kind of a problem ish. i can pre cum but i wanted to know is there any indication to when i will properly be able to cum. I am 14 and thats what i wanted to know and i have a 4 inch when erect and was wondering would i be able to break a ...

How do I respond to this kind of situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I'v been doing online dating for about 5 months now and let's just say it's been quite interesting. A few hits and a few misses, the usual. I'm just a little puzzled as to what I should do in the following situations. Guy emails me indicating ...

Dyed orange or pop goes the weasel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Okay, bare with me on this one. So, I've been afraid to buy any real sex toys, so sometimes I use a hairbrush. Well, i found a new one in my aunt's house, and it had a loooong handle. it's orange, btw. so, i went deeper than I've ever gone ...

What makes a guy suddenly want a break from sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I just want to know from guys, but not just mainly... What would actually make a guy decide that they suddenly wanna take a break from sex? I'm just wondering....

Boyfriend can't get hard enough to have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i need help when im with my boyfriend he cant get hard enough to make love to me weve been together off and on for 5 years now and we havent been able to make propper love making please hel ...

We had oral sex and then he started talking like nothing had ever happened!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Please someone , tell me what this all means - Met up with this guy who i have been having a fling with for a couple of weeks , i get in his car and he says he wasnt sure if he wanted to see me again , but still agreed to meet me on this day . He...

No sex! Make it work? Or end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He's the type of guy that every girl dreams of being with: committed, monogamous, great personality and sense of humor, interesting, fun to be with, very handsome, financially secure, charming, great heart, ...

Will she think I'm fat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - So, im kinda average size (six foot tall, 180 lbs) but a little fat. Im pretty outgoing with a great peronality and every thing. My girlfriends amazing ( i dont know how im going out with her) and we have both mentioned having sex for the first ...

He thinks sex hurts because I don't have a G spot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 12 months now. We have been having sex for 10 of those months but when we do it hurts me, when its going in, when its in but not when he pulls out. He is the only guy i have ever been with. He has been with ...

Anal activity questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have a few questions. First off...is it weird or...gross for a man to "finish" inside of a girl's butt? I just started experiencing anal sex, and...I kinda wanted to see what it was all about, and...I asked my boyfriend about his opinion on f...

I got irresponsibly drunk, had sex and my parents want to sue him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i kinda got raped. i cant explain but i can try. i was drunk. i passed out , was consantly throwing up, but continued drinking. he carried me into his room. i was awake, i didntr say no but i didnt say yes either. im 16 and he is 22. my parents ...

Ok to have sex? We're not related by blood

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - ok well i have a HALF brother (we have the same dad but not the same mom)and i hang out with a lot of his family on his MOM's side (so they have no relation to me at ALL) and he has a cousin on his mom's side that i am attracted to. i am just ...

I'm paranoid about my next intimate relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I am very confused by the actions of a guy I'm trying to hook up with. He is a friend of mine and we have already slept together once, about a year ago. Things didn't work out between us at the time because I was looking for a serious relationship ...

I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...

Why do guys wanna get in young girls pants!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Im almost 15, and i have ton of guys saying they love me and wanna date me. But i don't get it everytime i trust and let someone in, they try to have sex with me and crap. and i don't like that. So why do guys wanna have sex so much? ...

Whose libido is out of whack? His or mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 months. we have been around each other 24/7 for the past 3 weeks. We have sex maybe once every couple of days. in other relationships I am used to having sex two to four times a day. When we get done, I ...

I get excited too quickly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm a girl and I'm 18. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year, and we've had sex. I cum really early, and it's even while we're making out. I hate it. He can go on forever, but I cum within 10 minutes. Advice?...