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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Am I being paranoid about why he doesn't make eye contact during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - Eye contact during sex? My husband usually turns his head away from me or closes his eyes. I dont remember having a problem with it years ago... but recently he holds me close with my head buried in his neck and almost forcibly stops me from bei...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

I don' t seem to fit the gay scene

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

26 November 2017 (M) - I feel abit stuck in a rut, I work part time while setting up a business and accepted I’m gay I liked a guy who I thought would like me, cause we have a few things in common and spoke a lot now and again. I was hoping it’d be a fairytale we’d e...

I was a virgin, didn't bleed and now my husband says I wasn't a virgin

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - It was totally my first intercourse, but i did'nt bleed....i only felt a very little pain...even my hubby said that i'm not virgin as my vagina is loose. He said my vagina is not like virgins have.... But It was my first time. Why it happens to...

Help me deal with this pee fetish?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a problem I've never confessed to anyone and I certainly can't blurt it out to my pastor at the altar. I can't tell him in private either bc when people of the church sin, he brings it to everyone's attention so we ca...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

Lost my virginity and I didn't even enjoy it but now I'm wondering if I could be pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - I just lost my virginity, tbh it was painful and i never enjoyed it at all, according to my friend its because he never did foreplay. Even though i was not satisfied, apparently he was because he came on the inside of my thighs. The cum wasn't alot ...

What is he saying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - I was talking with a guy online and never met him .We chat for month so. He had to travel for work. We were still in contact when he were out of country for his work. Finally, he came back to state and wanted to meet me. I told him I don’t wa...

He's taken my wife. Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - my wife an I have been married for 3 years. however things have been interesting for last 18 months. we have a neighbour Raymond who is divorced for a long time and is 44. he has two girls about 8 and 12. me and my wife are both 28. however 18 ...

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...

Lost my virginity to a man I don't know or like very much

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - How do I cope? I recently lost my virginity to a guy I barely knew and i regret it so much.i don't feel innocent anymore. And the worst part of it is i lost to the wrong guy,i always assumed i would lose it to someone i loved so much and it would be ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then ...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2339 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

How to deal with a more sexually experienced partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

17 November 2017 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm not particularly handsome either and I am obese. I will be visiting an escort in a few weeks to lose my virginity. Finally I'll get to feel what intimacy is like. However I've b...

Does she really love me like I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - I just recently found out that my wife, I'm a lesbian, only watches straight porn. I'm questioning a lot now, not so much about how I feel about her but if I could ever truly make her happy or if I have ever truly satisfied her. She's brought it u...

How do I tell potential dates that I do not engage in sex outside marriage vows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2351 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - Hi I am going to start online dating . I don’t want to have sex before marriage . I am not virgin I was married before. Mostly folks respect your decision ( not sex before marriage) if you are virgin . If you are not virgin they don’t respect ...

Led into a fantasy and I like it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

12 November 2017 (M) - The other night after having sex my girlfriend told me she wanted to do it again but that this time I could do whatever I wanted to her and she would let me. She said she would be my whore for the rest of the night. When we started up again she...

My housemate keeps having sex in our shared spaces and I don't like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - My housemate keeps having sex/foreplay with her boyfriend in our shared living spaces, like the living room etc. She tells me and laughs about it, but I actually find it so disrespectful and it makes me quite angry how she disregards my comfort ...

I'm afraid to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2351 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - I'm afraid to have sex with my boyfriend... I've been seen this guy for 3 months now and things are moving forward. However, every time we start getting intimate, I freak out and stop all interactions. I'm a virgin and this is the first pro...

He wants to finger me but we don't want to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hey am just 20 and my boyfriend wants to finger me... But we don't want to have sex... Is it OK... Or possible.. ...

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

New Relationship Reflection, Age Gap and Polyamory

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I have been recently seeing a man that is 10 years older than me, I am 21, he is 31. Saw him at the bar and asked for his number, had a date, was pretty nervous but ended well with us making out and finding out we were really physically compatible. ...

There is no intimacy in our marriage .... is my wife having an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I have been married for 15 years. Beginning of marriage the sex life was great. Then all of sudden I had to wear a condom didn't want me to orgasm inside her. The kissing stopped was only just a peck on the cheek or lips. Once a month she has dinner ...

I'm in a mess I cant walk away from

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - Urgh, what a mess. An old colleague messaged me to ask how I was getting on. We never really interacted at work. The messages very quickly became flirty. We are both married. But we met for coffee and there was definitely sexual chemistry....

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ...

I am male and I have no sensational feeling during sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Hi, I have a very big problem - I do not feel anything during intercourse! Please help me! I am 35 years old and i have had this problem since my sexual debut. And the problem is really simple, yet very complex - I do not feel anything! When I...

Pouting Boyfriend when sex takes a back seat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - For 5 years, I've been with a man, 54yrs, who has treated me like a queen. Always very courteous, has all those "good ol' morals" of our generation. I don't think I would ever find another man like him and I'm not looking. Over these years....the ...

Am I wrong to want my boyfriend to stop looking at porn online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, I'm only 21 and have been in one relationship which I'm currently in so I don't have much knowledge. My boyfriend's penis looks nothing like the ones I saw in porn.It isn't straight...it kinda twists a bit. Plainly put, it ...

My husband is flat out lying to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is it ok to snoop if i am being lied to? My husband keeps telling me that his 'penis is broken'. We havent had sex in two months or so. Hes massively stressed out. The thing is that in the last two weeks i have given him two blowjobs and we have act...

Can our love be revived?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

3 November 2017 (F) - I'm a beautiful women and I (have) a sexless marriage. Supposedly my husband isn't cheating. What else can this be. There is no connection anymore. I want him to show me he wants me. We love each other, but our marriage doesn't feel strong. N...

Advice on paying for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

2 November 2017 (M) - Little background: I am a geeky, fat male virgin who's never been on a date or ever kissed a girl. I don't ask girls out anymore because they always say no. I don't have much of an option in experiencing intimacy so I thought about paying for sex or ...