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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Anal sex tips and help plz!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i have just had anal sex for the first time me and my boyfriend used lubricant it did hurt, however i let him continiue for about 10 -20 minutes untill he had ejaculated. i have had an embarasseing time when i went to the toilet afte...

I don't like porn! Is that so wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I don't like porn. Is that so wrong? I've read many questions about porn, and the responses are always something like "Get over it, it's just a video, porn is great, watch it with him, grow up, all men do it...". But I don't like it. I've watched...

My girlfriend wants nothing to do with sex, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - My Girfreind [ been freind for 4 years been going out for 3months] doesnt want to see my C*ck.......she says they are ugly....... she doesnt want anything like Oral sex fingering because it is slutty..she is completely turned off by a C*ck and ...

Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...

Married for 6 weeks and think I made a big mistake!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Please help me, I have been married for 6 weeks now and feel that I have made a huge mistake. Its not that I no longer love my husband, as I do more than anything, but the soul destroying problem is that he refuses to have sex with me. We have not ...

Does he have real feelings & is scared? Or just likes the fwb thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a friends with benifits relationship for 3 years now. we have been friend for 25 years. we spend all our free time together. every night and on weekends. he says he doesnt ever want to be in love again after a bad divorce. he knows ...

Condom discomfort

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I've been married about 3 years and my wife and I were each other's first and we have always had natural, naked genital sex. Now she has a medical problem (nothing real serious) and has to go off birth control pills and stay away from other things ...

I liked her so much I couldn't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I have a major problem. I have wanted this girl for a long time...recently she pretty much gave me the green light and i got so nervous that i couldnt even be turned on.....my heart was beating like a million miles an hour an i couldnt get an ...

Why does it hurt when he fingers me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - It never really feels good when my boyfriend fingers me, it feels great when he rubs/plays with my clit but no feelings but pain with the fingering, (pain cuz i'm really tight). Is something wrong with me?...

Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like ...

Would a guy still have sex with a girl even if he thought she sucked in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Would a guy still have sex with a girl even though he thought she sucked in bed? Or because he thinks she sucks would he completely turn it down?...

How do you keep a guy without sleeping with him at the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - How can you keep a guy without sleeping with him in the beginning? and where do you draw the line when making contact? ...

Can anyone give me some blowjob techniques?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Can anyone tell me about blow-job techniques that would help my boyfriend to cum?...

What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......

Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be ...

Sex has become a much higher priority to him than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've been living together for almost 2 years. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and that he loves me with all his heart. The problem is, our sex life has steadily gone downhill over ...

Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...

Why did he apologise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - hello everyone :) okay so today i had to go to drivers ed and pick up my friend "Jack" too. Jack and I have always been very close friends but about a month ago we took it a step forward....we disided to send pictures of our selfs to eachother(n...

Worried all I'll be able to think about during sex is getting pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Okay so I have been talking to this guy for a year and we just started dating about 2 and a half months ago. I'm pretty sure I love him ha, actually I do love him. He means the world to me, well he's ready to have sex and I am too I'm pretty sure. ...

For the men, do you like it when a girl sucks on your balls during a bj?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - This is kinda a question that is towards men, but do you like it when a girl sucks on your sack when your girlfriend is giving u a blowjob? Thank god for anonymous lol ...

I'm 20 years old and my libido has disappeared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old and as of the last two years (or maybe a bit less) my libido has gone down, down, DOWN!!!! I no longer get any tingly sensations, maybe VERY mild ones. Sometimes, when I'm with my boyfriend... but it's not him, it's me. Well...

My Ex wants to still have Sex when his new Girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 5 years he cheated on me 3 times but I love him and still ended up back with him. We got married last year and I got pregnant. He left me for other women when I was 2 months prego. He told me thay it was a mistake to leave me ...

Is phone sex wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I was wondering if someone could tell me if phone sex is wrong with my bf...we've been dating for 41 months and pretty much do it every other nite....

I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really ma...

I've known him a week. How do I know he loves me and isn't just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i started dating a man i hardly knew since a week. we both spend time together and also on phone all the time. he too calls me whereever he is. he cares for me. but i dono if he is in love with me. we have already made out and stuff too soon. this ...