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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My girlfriend has cheated on me several times. Is it acceptable for me to have an affair of my own to show her that there are consequences to her behaviour?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - My 28yo GF has been with me for 5 years. This is the best relationship either of us have ever had. Its not perfect but we enjoy each other and we are good for each other most of the time. My GF openly says she used to be a huge cheater. Then...

Why do the men orgasm so quickly with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Almost every man I've been with reaches orgasm quickly. Anywhere from one to five minutes. They say it's because I feel so good. My natural secretions are plentiful and have been described as slick and hot. I've also been told I'm tight ...

My boyfriend is convinced he is not "BIG" enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Hello dear internet, I have nowhere else to turn and thus I find myself here requesting your genial and honest advice. This is mostly an appeal to men, personally as a woman I don't understand it but anyone who can offer advice I will be very ...

How do men feel about dominating women during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, I was just wondering about submissive/dominant sexual relationships. Over the last few years I've gotten really into the idea of being completely dominated during sex; tied up, handcuffed, spanked, etc. I don't think I'm a masochist ...

Can I make this work or should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I'm having relationship troubles. My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We were fine until a few months ago. I bought a house and we started doing it up together. That was stressful. Then my dad got diagnosed with prostate cancer and my ...

What's a mature way to handle casual sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - So this is more a request.for guidance. I especially would like answers from men, and from women with experience in casual sex. I lost my casual-sexginity! This week! It was AMAZING. Here I was all cynical about the crappy hand life had dealt m...

I am afraid I am wearing out my older boyfriend with too much sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 August 2013 (?) - Hello all. I have a situation I need advice on. I am not sure if it is a problem or I am making it into something that it isn't. I am 45 and my boyfriend is 15 years older than I am. He is very sexual and passionate and there are times h...

After 10 years of marriage my husband has no interest in sex. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Just asking. Is it really happening,when the husband and wife is living together for nearly 10 years the sex life is gone? i mean, my husband and me are nearly 10 years now. i dont know but its already 8 months now that he dont even think about ...

Why can't I get over guys quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I am "friends" with this guy my problem is he hasn't been texting me or talking to me...I've done something bad, as in texting him multiple times, each day. (I know that is really bad and clingy!) I'm not like this with every guy honestly. It's been ...

My girlfriend has body-image issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now and everything is great i couldn't be happier. now two things id like advice on number one when im not with her for a few days which has been regular as I go to my mums w...

I don't understand my ex. Does my ex have issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - My relationship with my ex ended almost 6 months ago as she had been raped 12 months ago. She was able to tell me just a couple details to start with but admitted she had an orgasm. she said she couldn't get it out of her mind or understand how i...

Can working too much cause impotence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I was wondering, if it is possible that my husband 'simpotence,caused by his workaholism? He is totally off sex, never wants any sex, at all, he is unable to get hard, when once every few month i initiate sex. I found very confusing articles...

My g/f broke things off, slept with a man and now says she doesn't know how she feels about anything

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I'd been with my gf for about nine months. I was the first woman she had ever been with, and she assured me that sexuality mattered none to her. That if she fell in love with a man, she would be with a man. And since she fell in love with me, she ...

How much blood can I expect from first time sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid! I don't want to sound immature or stupid or anything like that because I am not, so don't make fun of this question, please. I want to sleep with my boyfriend in couple of weeks for the first time. I'm a virgin but he had a few ...

What is the best way to handle sexual frustration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - This maybe a silly question.. but its not meant to be in a crude way.. but lately I've been finding I'm very sexual frustrated, understanding as I have been without a partner in 3 years.. but lately this year it has been worse, I keep seeing ...

I'm confused by my partner's behavior during sex with other couple??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - Dear qupid..... My woman and I started a swinging lifestyle. The first time we got together with a couple we had no problems.... Second time no issues there neither..... Third time was all bad.... We get...

I now have an erection whenever I kiss my gf. How can I stop this awkward reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I were making out and it went a little further. We ended up doing oral. Now I every time we kiss I get an erection. Even just regular "goodbye" kisses. I didn't have a problem with this before. How can I stop it from happening? I ...

What physical act counts as cheating in a relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hey Just wondering what you guys would consider cheating in a relationship? E.g. A kiss? Oral? ...

What to do when girlfriend doesn't want anything intimate with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

26 August 2013 (M) - Ill keep this as simple a possible, just a little lost. My girlfriends sex drive, passion, affection is dimming to damn near nothing. She is a few years older than me. I'm 24 she is 27. We do not live together but she does stay with me at my house...

He is a good father but always turns down sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - I've been with my guy for over 5 years. Together we have two kids (2 and 4). We haven't had a regular sex life since I fell pregnant with #2 in Oct 2010. This year alone we have had sex about 4 times. I have tried to talk to him about it but he ...

My boyfriend just doesn't have the urge to have sex often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3894 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as I'd like. We average about once a week. W both work full time, and he tends to work long shift, with few breaks. Work stresses him out. I've been going through some medical problems the past 6 ...

My partner broke up with me while hiding his cross dressing and other fetishes.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - I am 39 years old and have been with my partner for 2 years. Our relationship was fantastic to start with, and i thought he was the one and we would always be together, i had found my soul mate. After about 8 mths into the relationship, he s...

Am I prudish for not wanting to ejaculate in her mouth?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

25 August 2013 (M) - I have a girlfriend for the first time in my life. We've been together for almost 6 months. She told me before we committed to a serious relationship that she was very sexual since she was 15. I was a virgin but lied and told her I had a few sexual ...

What did they mean when they said we had 'history'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - What's it mean when a guy says we've has history I was out with my ex the other night and these 5 lads who I know started talking to me and when my ex asked who they were they all said we've had history I've done stuff with all of them just haven't ...

Nothing has been said since I reminded her of her sexual past, should I bring it back up?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

25 August 2013 (M) - I am upset over something but don’t have the right to be. I posted last hear on Dear cupid and got some good feed back. Let me explain and get your reaction. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy for a number of years. I realize the p...

Busted by my 8 year old, butt ass naked in the kitchen!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - Hello. I am a just turned 31 year old, married mother of an 8 year old daughter. Last night, our daughter was having a sleepover with a friend a few houses down from ours. My husband and I took the opportunity to enjoy our alone time. We wer...

I need to know how to stop my sexual urges.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - In the last few days or so, I've become more sexually aroused then normal. I find myself having to masturbate every few hours because it gets too difficult to concentrate. My body has these new urges. I had sex with my ex boyfriend this morning and ...

How can I reconcile my idea of love with reality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Hey folks, this post might be a bit long and unorganized so stick with me please. I'm 23 year old male virgin currently studying philosophy. As you can easily guess, my problem lies with women. I never really had any intimate contact with women, n...

Should I worry about others hearing my girlfriend's moans during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - During intercourse last night in bed my girlfriend started moaning for the very first time since we started having full sex regularly from being virgins a couple of months ago. I was pleased to hear her because I'd been thinking the condom was ...

How could she move on so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - My wife and I had a six week break before we got back together and got married. She was 19 at the time. During that time she was living with a family member who had a male roommate who was the same age as her father. She had a sexual relationship ...

Do I have the right to feel jealous if my on-and off bf sleep with another girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hello, So technically my boyfriend broke up with me a year and half ago (in Jan 2012) but he still keeps me around. He said long distance isn't for him but I still love him and have a hard time letting him go. So, every break when I get a chance, ...

Is it rude to masturbate in front of your boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hello, So my boyfriend and I had been on-and-of together for more than 2 years but I was never able to reach an orgasm. Not sure if it is because some women are just hard to get one or it is my problem. We don't see each other as often as we want...

How long after losing your virginity will sex start to feel good for a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a question. I have had sex for the first time recently. I lost my virginity on August 1st. Since then we have had sex once or twice a week. He can fit inside me and we have sex no problem. But it still feels a little...

I need some French Kissing pointers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend are a little bit new to making out (we're both each other's firsts). We've tried kissing before but I found it a bit awkward ... I understand that when you're french kissing your tongues are supposed to interact, but what do ...

My boyfriend blames me for his recent sexual problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - My Baby's father got a problem. he lost his sex drive. No erectoin and ejaculate very quikly. he's in mid 40's pls help me. Now accusing me of missing my ex. he saw msg on my phone. Of one of my friends. Pls help!!!...

A guy I was messaging online wanted me to do things I wasn't prepared to do and in the end he stopped contacting me. Now I see he's viewed my profile again. What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

23 August 2013 (?) - I have been on and off a dating site for about 5 months and have made a few pen pals. In the first few months there was a guy, he is 29 years old and he wanted a friends with benefits situation. In the beginning he was sort of nice complimenting ...

My friend doesn't approve of one night stands and now she won't speak to me because I told her that I had one!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - So a few months ago I went home with one of my friend's roommates after a party (I was a freshman in college) and we ended up sleeping together. I don't regret a thing, but my best friend from high school doesn't really like how college has changed ...

Why does my b/f get soft and hard when we have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 18. We had sex twice now,safely with the pill and condoms. Arousal isn't a problem but he softens and hardens throughout the whole time. I can feel the difference but I'm not sure if it's because he's overexcited or if ...

Any advice for swinging? I feel jealous of the rapport between my b/f and the female

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a few "swinging" encounters and we want to continue in the lifestyle. I enjoy being with other women without a doubt. Once I am in the heat of the moment I also enjoy being with other men. The problem is that the last ...

What does it mean when your husband doesn't get hard anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - Hi I'm a married woman, mother of 2 and 1 on the way. My husband and I just recently relocated for a better life for the family. We don't know anyone here so we just rely on each other to get to know the area more. So as most parents know, its ...

It took me a long time to climax during first-time sex and I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to speed things up a little bit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

22 August 2013 (M) - I have been dating a girl who is not a virgin for about six months now and just last week we decided to have sex when I was a virgin. She's same age as I am. Body wise, she's got a body that turns me on and she's great at making out...probably a lil ...

I've been involved with a guy from work who also has a girlfriend. Things were great but I feel like he's backing off. How can I keep him interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - I've been seeing a guy from work for a while, i started there in April and I've had so much fun working with him and flirting away. We get on great! The flirting increased about two months ago and we started sending dirty texts and pics, which ...

I once let a guy film us having sex, which he then showed to his friends. I'm dating someone new and I'm not sure whether I should tell him about this incident.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

22 August 2013 (?) - Once in my past, I let a guy that I trusted briefly film us having sex. He then showed it to a few of his friends, and for some reason I didn't stop him. I told him no, that I didn't want him to, but he did anyways and I just didn't know what to do ...

Should I wear lingerie under my dress to surprise him even more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3898 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - OK, so my 10 month relationship has been a little rusty for the last 3 months. We really care for eachother and love eachother but We haven't had sex for about 5 month, not because we don't want to, we really want to, but timing, destiny, karma and ...

I got horrific razor burn and ingrown hairs from shaving my groin. How can I make it go away and avoid it happening again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me she prefers a man that is shaved in the groin. I've always just trimmed fairly short, but I figured I would give shaving a shot if it is what she likes. I've only ever shaved my face so I wasn't too experience with what to do ...

Why is my wife suddenly so happy to have anal sex? I can't ask her about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - Anal sex with wife. Hi. Been married for 10 years and wife said was virgin. Regular sex was painful with her to start with and she seemed really not to know hot to handle it. However, very recently she started initiating anal...

My Bf, while still a child, suffered sexual abuse by a male pedophile. Can this affect the relationship between my Bf and I, long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend recently told me that he was sexually abused by his male coach when he was 8. I am the only woman he has ever had sex with and he says loves making love to me. He says he feels very loved and complete afterwards. He said that he does...

Does my wife's behavior mean she is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - In the last year,my wife has talked sexier and much more than in the pastwhile having sex,started to exercise,swallowed several times giving me oral sex a couple times in one week when she. Has only did that twice before in 20yrs and became ...

Brother is running around with an older man and lied to me. I found out by snooping. Do I confront him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - Hey-My brother went away on a trip and had me come and feed the fish at his place while he was gone. I'll admit I did a bit of snooping and found his password to his email...What I found shocked me! He has been having sex with another guy quite ...

How do I make my best friend see things my way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - I'm really concerned about my Best Friend We've know eachother since elementary school and we've always been neighbors. Back then it was kind of weird if i didnt see her every week. She's super nice and funny, but she's also a bit impulsive and ha...