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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I hate the person who I used to love for his std and promiscuity

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - I'm in love with my partner , we've been together for a year and a half, we've been through so much, specially at the beginning. The truth is, even though I thought I knew him ( we were friends for years before falling in love ) the fact is I did ...

I think he has erectile dysfunction. Do I wait it out? Approach the subject?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

31 October 2017 (?) - I have started dating a new guy. We have not had intercourse yet. Dating for a few months but have done plenty of other stuff. I’m late 20s and he is in late 30s. When we first started fooling around I noticed he wasn’t really getting a full ...

I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...

My past has led me to hate sex, relationships and even the human touch

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

30 October 2017 (F) - I hate sex, masturbation, porn and sex toys. I even despise human touch and being social, including relationships. I'm very happy being single being alone by myself, but my family and therapist pressures me to date and socialize, which angers ...

Still not comfortable with my sexuality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - Hey all! Forgive me from the beginning if I am over graphical! I've known, and accepted that I am attractive to my own gender in a sexual way for years now. I identify as bisexual, but in private. Anyway I really come with 2 separate questions. I...

Has my husband gone off me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Hello I have a problem with my husband never wanting sex anymore we have been together 6 years and married just over a year ago and now have two children together.in the beginning we were sex maniacs and he couldn't get enough of me now he never ...

How can I boost his sexual interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - My husband has a low sex drive but mine is extremely high and I'm looking for tips or advice on how to spice up our sex life and things I can do or say to get him excited and turned on. ...

Can I ask him to let me touch myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - I want to masturbate in front of my husband but I'm not sure how to go about it. Do I talk about it and just straight out ask him if he wants to watch or should I slip into something sexy just be waiting for him when he enters the bedroom and ask ...

Given his past, do you think that this man would be a good parent to my daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

20 October 2017 (F) - I recently left an abusive marriage, and have been seeing a man from work for almost a year. He moved in with my kids and I over the summer. He has always been very sweet and caring to all of us, but the relationship isn't perfect, though I love ...

Is masturbation gay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

17 October 2017 (M) - If you are not thinking of anything and just masturbating for pleasure is this homosexual?...

Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do? Hi I'm 18 and I've had sex with two guys, including the one I lost my virginity to. He was a friend and still is, but he occasionally flirts and I respond to it. We hung o...

His online world has me worried

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Inst...

I want to have sex with the father of my children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

13 October 2017 (F) - Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

She has gone off sex and I'm worried I'll lose her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

13 October 2017 (M) - I have a girlfriend i am 66 years old and she is 46 years old we have been together 4 years but this last 6 months she has went off sex she says she do not care she has sex or not i am getting wor...

He has kept in touch, but I thought he only wanted sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - Hi there! So i went on a date a few months ago with a lovely giy who i knew from primary school who just happens to now have his own tv series. We went out for a drink, had a lovely time. Then the next week he drove 3 hours to see his father (...

Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...

Is it possible he wants more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2383 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - About a month ago, I downloaded the app Tinder out of pure boredom. I wasn't looking for a relationship because my previous one really messed me up and ever since then I've had a really hard time developing feelings for guys. I was in a place where ...

I feel like I was second servings!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Okay i really dont know what to do in this situation. So my freind is friends with this guy and they are just friends nothing more. So one day he spent the night at our apartment and I ended up having sex with him. I felt weird about sleeping with ...

I feel I can't even communicate anymore because of his crazy reactions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2383 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Ok so myself and my husbsnd just had a huge fight. It happens every couple of months but ive just realised that i think he oveereacts. He shouts, spits, throws things and wont talk to me for days. This time it started like this.... We h...

Why am I having thought about having passionate sex with my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I think somethings wrong. I am in college, and one of my classmates, I have known since high school turns me on. Every time we talk and see each other (which is all the time, because we have the same major and minor) I have thoughts and fantasies ...

Boyfriend only likes sex if I am on top

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2383 days ago

7 October 2017 (F) - My boyfriend seems to like all sexual activities with the exception of (vaginal) sex, which he does not seem to care for. He only seems to like it (a little) if the woman is on top doing all of the work. Do any men out there feel the same way, and ...

I think a year is a long time to wait for him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - So, ive been seeing this guy for a few months now he's a couple years older than me (being 25), when we first started speaking in july and from that point i thought it was going to be more of a friendly kind of relationship as he didn't seem my type ...

My wife is another man's slave

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - My wife is deeply into S and M and I am not. I discovered that she has become the slave of another man, but still professes she loves me. I have allowed her to spend 2 or 3 nights a week with her dom. I don't think I can find any way to give her...

Is this just a slump in the relationship or should we part ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - So I desperately need some relationship advice please! Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 and a half years now, we're both 22 and we live together. We both have very good jobs and we stay at his family house (all his family live away...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...

Is it wrong to be turned on by a thong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

5 October 2017 (M) - I'm a 26 year old male and I have a question regarding a fetish that I have had since I was probably like 11 years old. Basically my fetish revolves around women's thong panties specifically. When I was just entering puberty I found thongs to be...

Does looking at nudes lead to objectifying women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

4 October 2017 (M) - I understand how wrong it is to regard people as objects. That's why I never stare at hot girls on the street, talk about their bodies or "hit on" them. But privately, I am curious about the female shape (being very inexperienced and never had a ...

Do you bleed the second time you have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - Hi,I lost my virginty 3 months ago I had bleeding I bleed for four days and I had craming along with it I didn't know if it was my period or that and he didn't go all they way in either. I didn't had sex after that because it hurted alot I wa...

I think guys just want me for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - It feels like guys only want me for sex. Every guy to ever show interest in me has somehow indicated that he wants something mainly if not entirely physical. It's made me really conscious and insecure because when a guy asks for my number or flirts ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

I think it's degrading to give oral if it's not reciprocated and he thinks I owe it to him because I gave it to other lovers!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

3 October 2017 (F) - An Oral Sex Dilemma My boyfriend and I have been discussing about oral sex for a few weeks now. We have very different opinions and want the opinion of outside individuals. I think that it is degrading to give oral when if it is not reciproca...

I am not a masturbatory toy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

3 October 2017 (F) - My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...

Why can a woman reject sex but if her boyfriend does it, it's the worst thing ever?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

1 October 2017 (M) - Why does a female get so offended when you reject her from any pleasure? I been in relationship nearly 4 / 5 years. She doesn’t have same sex drive as me, she felt up for it once in our week long holiday, but because I’m so used to not having it she ...