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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How can I get him to initiate sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), ...

What are some techniques for lasting longer in bed? And how can I exercise my PC muscle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I want to last longer in bed and was wondering if there are any techniques to help me? I've heard of strengthening your PC muscle and Jelqing, do these work? Everytime i try to find my PC muscle i can't seem to find it :S Is there any other...

Dry spot and severe pain is putting me off sex! What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months now and at first the sex was great and just about every night! Now its hardly ever, which I guess is normal but recently I haven't been enjoying it as much and it has also become painful. I ha...

I have a mental block that prevents me from having an orgasm during sex! How do I get past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - i have a mental block that prevents me from coming during sex or fingering, i can come no problem from oral or masturbation...when my bf fingers me it feels amazing and he knows just how to hit my gspot, but when he goes at it for a while i get the ...

Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be ...

This may be stupid...but...what is a multiple orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 June 2008 (?) - what is a multipul orgasm? :S my boyfriend always talks about it and i dont know what it is, i feel kinda stupid....

I become petrified at the thought of experimenting more, sexually wise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Okay so I have kissed three guys. The first was just a kiss at the end of a date but the last two guys I made out with. I am scared though becasue I don't know how to do anything else. Is something wrong with me because I am scared to get ...

He wants a threesome, I said no. Have you tried this and how did it work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - The guy I am seeing has asked me to do a threesome with me. I am not into it and have said no. I mean I know it is suppose to be every guys fantasy, but, I just wondered how many other girls have been asked to do them by guys they are seeing? ...

He won't have sex with me because I had a one night stand. This is breaking my heart.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hiya well im 17 and my bf is 27 we have been together for 3 years and i love him dearly i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he says that he wants the same. well the problem is about 1 and 1/2 years ago while we was split up i had a one ...

He wants me to take control. I want to be controlled. Is there a solution?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to take control but i want to be controled. how can i fix this problem?...

Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?...

I haven't had a climax. Is it my fault it's not working?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - ok well...before my boyfriend and i started having sex, i was a virgin. Now we've been doing it for about 6 weeks. During this time, i have not once climaxed! I'm not sure if it's myself or my boyfriends fault but it really puts his confidence down ...

I'm finding it hard to look past the sex in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I havent been able to love a woman in the past without sexual gratification i only love women foe sex. but now am a christian and find it hard to go into a relationship because of my past sexual escapades i have had as much as 30 sex paartners in ...

Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?...

My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't ...

Should I feel used? Do you think there is any hope that we'll get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - my g/f broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i'm still depressed. she was my first g/f and i'm 18 and she's 17. i thought everything was going great but i had noticed somethings but ignored them, thinking i was paronoid. after visiting her for a fe...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and to say we've had a bad sex life is an understatment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and to say we've had a bad sex life is an understatment. He has trouble keeping erections and we're both quite nervous, so i bought some things to spice things up. I've got flavoured lube, massage oil, ...

I really want to sort my paranoia out and give him a holiday to remember.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm not sure how to put this. Im 18 and have a really stable relationship. I love my man to peices and would do anything for him. We always have a laugh and a joke when we are together. I have been with him for 2 years, but was unable to 'dis...

Mixed Messages from a guy who's got a girlfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I ended up fooling around with s guy at work on Monday, then afterwards he told me he has a girlfriend and I work with her too. Today was the first time I'd seen him since, he was sending really mixed messages, one minute he was shaking his head at ...

I feel sel-conscious about being too hairy down there! What do you guys really think of hair down there? What would be an appropriate way of getting rid of the hair??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi I have a really embarassing problem. It never really used to bother me that much, but ever since i've been getting deeper and deeper in this relationship with this guy i'm crazy about, i find myself only growing more and more self-conscious.. ...

Is 8 months too long to wait to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and he's my first proper boyfriend. I'm almost 17 and he's almost 18. We haven't had sex yet and we're both virgins. I don't feel ready for sex yet but nearly all of my friends have had sex and I'm starting ...

How do you come to accept the sexual side of yourself??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - How do you come to terms with your sexuality? I have difficulty with this. Once I had a few too many beers and things went gone further than I would have liked with a guy that I had met and a girl friend of mine. Full sex wasn't involved. I feel ...

Is it safe to have sex in the sea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Is it safe to have sex in the sea? its something i have always wanted to do and me and my boyfriend are going away and would have the opportunity, but he seems to think its not good for me, is this true? ...

Anything "different" that we can do in order to postpone actual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - SO my boyfriend of about a year and a half keeps saying he wants us to do something "new". But I'm not ready to have sex yet. We've done: handjob, blowjob, finger and "eat out".. is there anything 'different' that we can do?...

I want to surprise him when we have sex for our first time together...how can I do this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - hey all. i have been with my man for two months. weve tried to have sex, but circumstances havent allowed us! i really want to surprise him for our first time together but unsure of what to do...? its going to be in a hotel room, so i was thinking ...

Is it possible that she's pregnant??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi all im a male aged 22. My girlfriend and i had sex(unprotected). She was on my lap and eventually turn to missionery with her on top. I ejaculated during da lap position. She asked how many times did i come inside her and it was only during t...

I need techniques to make my boyfriend cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - My b/f says ive never made him cum.i need some techiniques....

What is classed as a physical relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Does hugging tight, sitting on your boyfriend's lap , keeping your head on his shoulders, sleeping on his lap etc mean that the relationship is physical? Is this sex? if my boyfriend does all of this then does he love me or is it just lust?...

Had sex with my ex! Is it FWB or more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I dated my first love for almost a year. From the moment I met her we just had this instantaneous connection. Everything just fell into place. However, there were aspects of her personality that drove us apart. IE her selfishness and self centered ...

How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...

How do you give a good blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I'm quite embarrassed but i don't want to ask my friends. How do you give a blow job? Do you stick the whole thing in or just the tip of the penis? Just curious......

My wife is an escort. What does she mean by this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - last september i posted a question about my wife working as an escort and received very helpful answers. we decided she should continue escorting as she wanted and everything has been pretty good so far. she is very much the typical affectionate ...

Please help me out, I cant get him to find where to please me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, when we have sex i cant get him to find where to please me. It's really difficult because i dont want him to feel that he is doing something wrong and upset him. What shall i do? please help...

I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...

How do you request a new partner to go for a check up before actual intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hi all, I have a few questions regarding preparation for sex: 1). Do all of you here request your partner to go for checkup prior to the actual intercourse, if he/she is a new partner? Or do you rely on trust? What can you do if your partner ...

I have taken the pill for more than 2 years without the suggested interruptions, could this cause infertility?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. He is 8 years older than me, and I do want to be with him forever. Since we have seen each other, I went on the Mini Pill- Cerazette, and we have always had sex without a condom. We are ...

The sex is great but only once a week, it hasn't always been this way and it's so frustrating now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Help! I am finding myself contemplating unfaithfulness and it is freaking me out. I have always tried to be an honest decent person and this is terrible. I have been in a commited gay relationship for almost four years. My bf is a wonderful man bu...

What kind of condoms should I use so my erection doesn't go limp?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - do condoms kill mens erections off are is just me it happens to? condoms always mess up my erections,what kind of condoms could i use so my erection doesnt go limp,it doesnt happen when i dont wear them as i can have a good erection and soon as i ...

I had a comtraceptive implant in March and now I'm torn between being safe and dirty or unsafe and clean

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - First a little background info. I had the contraceptive implant back in March and the doctor did say that it would take about three months for my periods to sort themselves out. In the first couple of weeks my period was constant then stopped but ...

Should I feel ashamed about being curious about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - ok alot of people i kno that is my age are having sex. Nobody pressures me into it cuz they already kno rite off the back i would curse them out lol. But im starting to ask myself wat does it feel like when you have sex because i'm so curious. ...

A young lady who is not ready for sex or to fall in love sleeps in my room...I want to have a sexual relationship with her!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - A young lady who is not ready to fall in love or sexual relation, she is very strict against love but everyday she is sleeping in my room.I want to make sexual relation with her.How it is possible.How can i convince her for sex and how should ...

Am I doing something wrong?? What should I do next time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - my girl and I wanted to try something new and that was giving her a orgasm by massaging her clit. I got her in the mood and I started to massage her clit, after a few minutes she started to shake and breath hard but she said she didnt get there. She ...

I get really nervous in sexual situations...should I continue to feel this way...or make a change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 108 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I never really had a bad sexual experience but I am still really nervous in sexual situation. Sometimes I dread the idea of being sexual. I've never masturbated and have always preferred just kissing to other acts. I would rather give than receive ...

I give him oral, so why doesn' t he ever return the favour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a relationship question. I've been with my bf for a year but we've been having sex since the beginning(I knew him for a long time I knew I was ready). I have also been giving him oral sex. Befor me he went out with a girl that ...

Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressuri...

Sex statistics on fellatio and anal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - what percent of single women have performed fellatio and what same for having anal intercourse....

I have a problem staying hard after foreplay....help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Hi there, i'm 16 years old, and i've been dating this girl for about a month... We started staying over each others house's, and we gradually got further (sexually) each time, untill the first night when we both decided we wanted sex... So, a...

I have a huge jealousy issue, how do I overcome this? Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I've been having sex with one of my best friends, but he doesn't want a relationship. We see each other every few days, and pretty much act like a couple. My concern is, I have a huge jealousy issue, and it's always in the back of my mind that he c...

She led me on and then completely broke my heart, and It still hurts like hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I'm hoping someone can help me to get a better understanding of what's happened to me recently. I was seeing a lovely girl for three weeks. It was only a short fling, but she was very keen and things got quite intense quickly, mainly because she ...