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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why does it hurt during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok....

His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...

"Dating" is shaking my confidence AND making me lonelier!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I found this site by googling the same question almost as Honeybun. I am an older woman - divorced for almost 10 years - had a financee 6 yrs ago for 4 rocky years. My thing is I am older over 50 and maybe I shouldn't complain....please keep ...

Sex and masturbation questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - how often do guys want to have sex? how often do they masturbate? is that all they think about in a relationship? and also, i know a single guy in his 20s. he's been single for a while. does he masturbate? and is it a lot different than bein...

Do women in relationships still masturbate or have sexual thoughts about other men?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - My wife and I were talking the other day and the topic of masturbation came up. When I asked her the question I am positive she fed me with a bullshit answer. So basically I want to take a poll here. The question for any married woman or women ...

Is a penis with a girth of 4.5 to 4.75 inches considered thin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Is a penis with a girth of 4.5 to 4.75 inches considered thin? I know I shouldn't be asking this and be confident in my size, but I have recently overheard a particularly catty group of women bragging about their boyfriends 7 inch girths. (Give or ...

She was my first time, but I'm wondering if I was hers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - i recently got married and on our first night we didnt go all the way as she said it was hurting her but even on the next day she didnt bleed but she says she was a virgin. can that happen as she doesnt play any sport and i always thought there ...

Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection? Do you act flattered? Are you usually disgusted? I hug this girl from time to time and I always get an erection whilst hugging her. I used to find it embarassing unti...

Do you think my sexual history is bad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Just looking for opinions if you think my sexual history is bad. im 19 nearly 20. before my bf i have had sex with 4 guys, all of whom i was in a relationship with or had strong feelings for. In about 4 years i have hooked up (made out) with about ...

I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but I'm never in the mood!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have the best relationship... except I don't want to have sex anymore. I feel terrible about this, I really do love him. I like having sex with him, but I'm never in the mood. I'm only 23 so I shouldn't ...

My girlfriend might have got caught masturbating through the phone by her parents! I'm nervous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Ok. well im somewhat young lets say in my early teens. i have known this real cute girl for a few months and today, she told me she was masturbating. she turned me on and i was having so much fun so was she. we were helping each other masturbate by ...

My boyfriend told me he gets bored of kissing me for too long!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, but recently he told me that he 'gets bored' of kissing me for too long? We rarely snog anymore and when we kiss its maybe only for a couple of seconds, maybe less. also he's been reluctant to hav...

I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...

I'm a 29 year old virgin that doesn't want to wait anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I'm a 29yr old virgin, and while I know that's 'okay', I really would like to have a (few) sexual experience(s) before I turn thirty. (And please don't give me self-esteem advice or wait-for-fate advice. I just really want to try this, in case I ...

How can I drive him crazy and reciprocate all he does for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - This isn't a problem, but I was wondering what does this mean about his "tastes"? My boyfriend loves to go down on me and he will do everything he can to make me cum. He also likes anal sex, and sniffing my used (gross, I know) panties. Now, i am n...

Embarrassed about a wet dream

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Okay, this is embarrassing, but there's nothing for it so I might as well ask... So, I was at my girlfriend's house, and at the request of her father, we were sleeping in separate beds. In the morning as usual, she came down to wake me up, but ...

What does sex mean to you as a person? Please, honest answers only!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - SEX...what does it mean to you? Just curious to find how different people respond to the matter. To me sex is sex. Its fun. I don't find it overly intimate whereas to me a cuddle is. I can't get enough of it sometimes. I never refer to sex as ma...