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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Heart broken. Is he just not "into" me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'd really appreciate other peoples views on my situation please . I've had great advice about this very man on here before. Finally seemed to be getting somewhere a month ago with him inviting me out most nights , I stayed over him cuddling me ...

By accident I discovered that my husband likes to video himself masterbating, when he is alone. Why does he keep this secret?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - My husband and I are both in our fifties. We have been married for 13 years. He has always watched porn but now he stays up late to watch it, masterbate, and videotape himself ejaculate. He won't do this in front of me and he also denies that ...

I can't make sense of this sexual stuff!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (M) - Hello everyone... first post here, wanting to discuss something thats been happening for a while now and have never had any input from anyone else on the subject due to it being a pretty embarrassing to say the least. Anyway i have been with m...

LDR. How do we make the most of our time together, and build our loving relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 9 months we are 5 hours drive away. We unsually alternate the drive up or down. Usually we see each other late late Saturday, spend all day Sunday and most of Monday together, however we haven...

Is it hard to find a person who is your perfect sexual match?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Do you think it takes goimg through lots of people to find your sexual match? I mean somebody you are totally compatible in bed with? Unlike any other? You can be attracted to many people but that does not always mean mind blowing sex wit...

Help me beat my fear of violent sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have a problem that's seriously interfering with my sex life. When I was 11, I learned about how sex worked by looking up naughty videos. These videos and games were hentai, and often portrayed sex as bloody and painful and that the woman di...

How would you label this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - I've got a general question I'd love some feedback on. Friends with benefits? F*ck buddies? Dating? Friends? What are we? So I am friends with this girl and have been for some time now. That I do know. We do things together and talk about all s...

My boyfriend of 2 years came inside me for the first time after sex. Why did he do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend came inside me after having sex. He always pulls out and this is the first time in 2 years he has ever done this. So I am wondering if I need to be concerned by the change in behaviour. Why do this after all this time when he has neve...

I slept with my brother's friend and hated it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I recently slept with my brother's friend. I knew the guy for a couple years and had a crush on him. We get along well and share common interests like playing boardgames so we always play games together with my brother. Whenever I hang out with that ...

Would it just be better for me to be on my own rather to be with someone who is never around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a few years and were best friends before we got together. Since moving in together the relationship has become totally stale, I can concentrate on my career from home as I'm self employed but he works ...

Why was the sex so different between my ex and this man and which one is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - A little while ago, I had sex with someone. I'd only ever has sex with one other person before this. My first "lover" was my ex. During the act, we did not really kiss or look at each other. Or talk much. Even when I lost my virginity to him...

Why does my boyfriend lie all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - Hi, used to ask for help around here 5 or so years ago, and back again to ask for more help! I have 2 questions really, 1st one- Why does my boyfriend lie? He doesn't go out and then lie about where he's been as if he's been out with a girl and...

Why is hubby hiding Viagra from me??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have been married for a very long time. About 10 years ago I discovered that my h was a porn/sex addict, he has never sought help, just thought that he could hide it better, now with the use of pocket porn, his mobile phone, he has a constant...

I've developed a crush on my former FWB but he's moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I was having a friends with benefits relationship with a guy in my first term at university and when we went home for Christmas we were texting all holidays saying that we couldn't wait to get back and carry it on. It was over the holidays i realis...

It happened once, why cant it happen again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Hello. So every weekend, I go over to my partner's house and we do it. Recently I had my first "orgasm"-- well that's what he said happened. A bunch of stuff just gushed out and I pushed him out of me. That new feeling happened so quick it was hard ...

Could it be that we are sexually incompatible? 110 percent compatible in every other way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. During this time I have noticed that when we have intercourse he doesn't always reach orgasm. At first I put it down to us needing more time to get to know each other's bodies but now it is becoming...

Suddenly he cannot get hard. How can I help him with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - A little background on us, we've been dating since the week before thanksgiving 2015. It was fun and very exciting to build this new relationship and the sex was great! But suddenly he cannot keep hard no matter what I try. I didn't rush him aski...

She lied to me. Should I feel betrayed? First she claimed to be a virgin. Later she said otherwise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - Dear all Basically my girlfriend of about 9 months has always told me she is a virgin. that when we have sex it will be her first time. However, she has recently told me that she has had sex with more than 1 previous boyfriend, but said that...

What should I do? Is it wrong to have sex without marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I will be 70 next year and I have had no sex for many years since my husband passed away I am also a Christian and my Christianity tells me that sex before marriage is wrong can I please have your thoughts on this I'm not looking to get married and ...

I've completely lost interest in sex due to the health issues it causes for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I'm in a long term relationship (7Years). We are very happy together. I love him. However, I have to completely lost interest in sex. I think like main reason is that I get a bladder infection every time won have sex (been to doctors and had lots of ...

We've been married 7 months and I'm still a virgin because I'm terrified of getting pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm embarrassed writing on here but I don't have anyone I can confide in.... I hope I don't offend anyone with my post but I'm so sad and frustrated I don't know what to do.... I'm 34, and got married 7 months ago after being with my hu...

Is it possible being a forced virgin makes you hate committment/marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

23 January 2016 (?) - Can being a virgin make you never want to get married? I'm so distressed about being a virgin and turning 23 in April. I have had sexual contact in the past but never sex. I used to like the idea of holding a girlfriend and having sex a lot and th...

What action is needed by us, to resolve this family issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years living together for three years. Last year his mother died and his father had major heart surgery. We offered to have his father living with us temporary until he got better although he didn't tell his ...

Is there an explanation for what occurred??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Hi all I have a pretty weird question to ask, first of all I'll explain the situation: I was due on my period later this week so me and my boyfriend decided to have sex (our first time together and my first time in general) it hurt a little a...

Is NSA the same as FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm sort of dating a person for past 2 months and today after sex he told me he wants to do NSA and he doesn't attach emotionally to anyone (which he does to protect himself) and won't commit. Though its NSA he won't be seeing anyone el...

Why is he still keeping in touch? Even though we are no longer having sexual relations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - I did a bad thing. I was in a a relationship when I met a guy through a mutual friends. We exchanged phone numbers and started texting. After going out as friends for drinks, we ended up sleeping together. After that, we have done a few more tim...

Did how I act merit her emotional outburst?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys. I posted on here a few days ago and got some really good responses. I'd like to maybe get a new perspective after these past few days because now I feel a bit crazy. I had a regular friends with benefits and I thought things were goin...

Can't turn back the clock on what I saw

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - Hi Aunties A few weeks ago I walked in on my boy friend masturbating in my bedroom. He has a key to my apartment, and I let him sleep there during the day when he works nights and I am at work. At the time it happened, he didn’t know that I ...

He can't stay hard, says I'm too wet and yet he wants a threesome???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy for about a month, we did hit off well and he was nice and everything. Fast forward we had tried to have sex a week back, he told me I'm too wet and when he was able to do it, he couldn't hold his erection, tried ...

Is there any way to delay my period from starting so I can have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'm looking for a little bit of help, I'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow and we were planning on having sex for the first time, we are both totally comfortable with this but my only issue is that I'm due to have my period this week but it ...

I just want to move on and get out of this relationship because I don't want to get hurt again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - I am a divorcee and staying with friends. Opposite to my apartment one guy is staying. Since one year I have been seeing him. I got to know that he is interested in me and first I thought its just a physical attraction. But later on I felt that he ...

Difficulties in the bedroom with boyfriend and I don't know how to fix them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

20 January 2016 (F) - I am having difficulties in the bedroom with my boyfriend of three years and I don't know how to fix any of it. We have been very adventurous in the past. Our sex life was always amazing and I can't believe I'm asking for advice. A few...

I don't have confidence in myself in regards to women and dating. Should I give up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

20 January 2016 (?) - Is it possible to give up on women? I have a very complicated history with them that ranges from saving a girl from getting raped in high school to getting left by my junior prom date for another guy at the dance. I have had one ex in high schoo...

My BF just got back from a trip and said he missed me but I had to contact him to make plans to see each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

20 January 2016 (F) - Just want to know your take on my situation. I am not sure if there is cause for concern. I hope you can help me figure that out. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 1/2 years. We have a great connection as friends and still after all this t...

Fiancé keeps nude and masturbation photos of previous ex's

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - I feel silly and embarrassed for bringing this up, but it's been bothering me all day. My fiancé and I have been together for over 3 years and we are getting married in 6 months. For the most part, we have a good relationship, but an insecurity that ...

My FWB partner didn't seem right so I stopped the sex but then she was angry! Didn't I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - Hey guys, I am utterly shocked at the moment and need someone to help me clarify what happened. I have been in a friends with benefits relationship with another woman (both girls) for a few months now. Things have been amazing!! Sex was intensel...

I'm afraid my boyfriend will compare my privates to his ex girlfriends and won't like what he sees!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Hi all I'm a 16 year old virgin with a major concern, my left inner Laos is stretched and hangs down past the outer lips by quite a way, while my right labia is normal? The stretched on is also like a purple colour and rubs against my underwear and ...

Can we be friends or am I fooling myself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - Please explain what is going on here: This guy and I had been friends for a while. One day he said he found me attractive and I said that I had hots for him too. We ended up having sex for a few months, hanging out, texting, calling, etc. One day h...

do my feelings indicate actual gender identity issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (M) - Hi, I ticked male as my gender because there was no option to ignore and it said gender not sex, however I appear female and was born with female sex organs. So, basically I am "female" and refer to myself as a girl in most contexts, but deep dow...

Why not? I always make sure he's satisfied, so why doesn't he satisfy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - Dear cupid. This is a bit of an awkward one, me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now in the begining we used to always have sex and he used to go down on me. However now im lucky if it even happens on my birthday! ive tried talking to...

She refused me but tried fellatio with her fling. Do I have a right to be upset ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

16 January 2016 (M) - Hello! I'm 38.Me and my wife (42) have been married for 9 years now. We were in an on/off relationship for quite awhile before we settled down-we were at odds all the time which led us to break up and then get back together.The longest we'...

I don't like the way my boyfriend performs oral sex. Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

16 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of three years has suddenly been showing an interest in going down on me. It's never been something I've ever brought up, so I guess he just got curious and decided to try himself since I go down on him quite often whenever we're ...

I'm feeling very stressed and depressed with the relationship. All he wants is sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

15 January 2016 (F) - I've been feeling a little lost and depressed with my relationship. Before this, I'd been with someone who was very emotionally and mentally abusive. It took a lot for me to finally get away from him, he was extremely manipulative. About a year ...

My boyfriend didn't want sex and turned it around that maybe I should find someone who can give me what I want. Where did that come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

15 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I are not intimate that often, last night I wanted to be with him, he said no, maybe tomorrow and rolled over. I told him my feelings were hurt and I was feeling like I wasn't wanted. He twisted it all around saying I made him ...

I lied to my dying friend and told him that I loved him. Now he's gone and I feel sick

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

15 January 2016 (F) - I slept with my friend because he was dying and because I felt guilty for leading him on. Each time after having sex he would cry and hug me and profess his love for me. He had a crush on me for years. During his last days I lied to him that I loved ...

His ex was 9", I'm only 6"..should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

15 January 2016 (M) - I've been speaking to this guy I fancy on and off since last year and I've really got it bad for him, his now split up with his ex and now has kept our chats to the minimum we have quite a bit in common aswell. I really like him but now I've been ...

Would you get mad at your partner if he or she only replied "thank you!" a day after you sent a naughty text message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

14 January 2016 (F) - Would you get mad at your BF of three years who is in South Africa right now visiting family if you sent him a sexually explicit message and it took him over a day to reply to it? Not only that but when he does reply it's short? The message de...

Am I with the wrong guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts, hope you can help. Years ago i had this boyfriend. He was romantic, passionate, funny we were so in sync andthe sex was fantastic he was so in tune to my needs, however i was very young at the time and a very difficult teenag...

Why would he say I'm cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - my boyfriend is convinced that I'm cheating on him he says he can feel it when we're having sex. I have been faithful to him...what causes him to say this and what makes me wet down there? ...

Scared to let older man try something new

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3026 days ago

12 January 2016 (F) - I'm 18,and have been going out with an older,family friend..[a friend of my Dad's] for about four months now.I'm seeing him discreetly,they have no idea about him.He's 49.The sex is like..incredible!Older men really are better in bed!I love ...