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I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1998 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

A friend is interested in a poly-amorous relationship but how do I tell my wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1998 days ago

29 October 2018 (M) - I and my wife have been married for 40 years and our love for each other is as solid now as it ever has been. Our sex life up until 8 years ago was very satisfying. Eight years ago my wife sustained an injury which has left her house bound. She ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1995 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I’m excited at the concept of an open relationship but I’m not really happy with the current situation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1978 days ago

26 October 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years is studying abroad for a year (since mid-September). We’re fairly committed to each other so we are trying to do long distance. We are also fairly sexual people but have only ever really been with each other. We are also ...

I think my bf is bored with me and I'm feeling insecure about sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

25 October 2018 (F) - So lately I’ve been feeling insecure about sex. Me and my bf had an argument that he was following strippers on Instagram. He ended up deleting it. I told him that it made me feel disrespected and insecure. He said that he thought about why he ...

I think my husband is deliberately making himself unnatractive to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2003 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - My husband never showers or brushes his teeth when he is home with me , even if it’s a whole week . We’ve been married less than two years. The last time we had sex was three months ago , he says he’s tired from working but watches porn ( ...

I have a question about porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2003 days ago

21 October 2018 (M) - I have a question about porn. My grandparents are pretty strict and almost never leave the house. Well, they do but Grandma works part time and Grandpa is retired and is actually a Deacon but they are never gone at the same time unless I'm in ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

When discussing sexual history, do handjobs count as sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

20 October 2018 (?) - When discussing sexual history should people you didn't have sex with but gave handjobs to count? I know to count oral and vaginal ( I never had anal.) but do handjobs you've given typically go into that count?...

Should I be upset that my FWB partner is having sex with others and lied about it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I have been having sex with a friend but he said he having been with anyone else but I caught him with another woman should I be angry or not because we are not dating? please help me because im mad as hell....

I have an anal sex question and can't find answers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - Hi, Okay this probably sounds stupid. But please give me some serious answers... I would appreciate it. Yesterday my husband and I had anal sex and he came inside. Today, more than 24 hours later, we had anal and vaginal sex both. Can th...

He loves me, wants me for his wife.. but also wants sex with other women. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years; we're in our thirties and met on a dating site. We've been having a great time together and at this point we're discussing a path to marriage and children, but I'm having trouble ...

We had an argument about porn and lack of sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - H, me and my partner had a argument last week about him watching porn and not having sex with me. we’ve been together for 4 years I’m always catching him watching porn but he makes no effort at all to have sex with me. he says he doesn’t have a s...

He watches porn but wont have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi me and my partner had a argument last week about him watching porn and not having sex with me we’ve been together for 4 years I’m always catching him watching porn but he makes no effort at all to have sex with me he says he doesn’t have a sex ...

Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

8 October 2018 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl through one of my friends. She had just come out of a 6 year relationship which lead to her losing almost all of her friends. She moved to my city for work and this is how I met her. I had an instant attracti...

What will help me feel at ease about entering a bdsm relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - I am 25 and about to enter into my first bdsm relationship with a guy I met online. We’ve been talking for a while now and discussed everything we both want but I am a past rape victim and getting spanked scared me! He knows this but nothing he has ...

I know he's had sex with others before being in a relationship with me but it bothers me that he lied about his "first" sexual experiments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

7 October 2018 (F) - I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. we are very open about our past relationships and both of us accepted everything about it and continued. so trust and respect was the major factor in our relation. we have a very ...

Should I tell my potential mistress that my marriage is falling apart (not true) in order to increase my chances that she'll do it without guilt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

7 October 2018 (M) - My question is simple. I'm married and going on a trip this weekend to meet a friend that I'd like to get intimate with. She knows I'm married, but has hinted she doesn't care that much. However, I'm not sure I trust that. Should I tell her that my ...

I'm not comfortable seeing him if he is going to date other people.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2023 days ago

5 October 2018 (F) - I have been dating/talking to this guy for only 3 weeks. We have been in on a few dates and I have stayed at his house also , things seemed to be going well. So I found out he took another girl out on a date but he doesn’t know that I know , and I ...

He’s made me feel worthless, after 6 years, what advice can you give me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

3 October 2018 (F) - Hello everyone I’m in a situation and I don’t know what to do so I’m hoping for some good advice I’m in a relationship now for 6 years the past year or so he has made me feel worthless like I’m not good enough for him he makes no effort with how he ...

New boyfriend wants to dress in a dress during sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - I have just got a new boyfriend and he told me something a couple of days ago, he said he wants to dress in female pvc in the bedroom. He doesnt want to wear wigs or do make up just wear a dress and certainly doesnt want to go outside in public. At ...

Could a lack of confidence in the bedroom be making first-time sex more difficult? How can I relax more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - So when it comes to sex, my boyfriend and I are still virgins. Yes we've fooled around, but never had penetrative sex as it's always been too painful for me, and I'm afraid it's becoming a problem. We've been together nearly 5 months and have tried ...