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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

About to have my period, but still want to make HIM happy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound weird. But im supposed to be going to my boyfriends tomorrow for the weekend. And i was not expecting my period until the 11th...So i was wonderin.. 1. What ways can i please my boyfriend, while im on my period? 2. (for g...

Could I be pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old female.I jus want to kno if my boyfriend cum on my belly...and i use the same cloth that he uses and wipe the cum,and i accidently wipe my vagina with the same cloth right after,would i get pregnant? ...

Waiting for marriage for intercourse.. already done everything else will I be disappointed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years, and it has always been important to us to wait for marriage to have sex. After being together for a little over a year, we started to be sexual. After a while, it got to the point where we ...

I'm still attracted to him I just have no sex drive, and now there is a Sailor involved!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Q1, ok so heres the thing my husband and i have been together 2 years and my sex drive has gone down a lot.... he is lucky if i want to have sex once a month. when we first got together it was like 2 or 3 times a day i dont know what happend i give ...

We only have sex about once a month but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi,iv been with my bf for nearly four years now and living together for 2. I love being with him cos we have loads in commen and everything but he just doesnt get intimate with me much at all anymore,it hurts when we go to bed at night and he wont ...

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...

I feel cheated in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. we have struggled with his impotence problem from the very start of our relationship. i want us to have that bond sexually. 95% of the time the sex is not very good. i do what i can to ...

I never climax!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or ...

Self conscious about sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x...

Thinking of having a three-some!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are thinking of having a three-some. he of course is the 1 with the idea and im half there for it. i do want to experience it but of course there are reasons that put me off it a bit. i know we need to set boundaries, but does...

Its still early days but I'm worried I'm being used!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. We have a lot in common, and we have a great time when we're together, which has generally been at weekends. This weekend a friend of his in in town and naturally he's arranging to meet up with ...

Gay man married to a woman....now I want her to sleep with someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i am a gay man married to my wife for 8 years, we have two kids. I am not very active in sex with my wife, for the past 4 years i had hardly had sex for 5 times. She keeps on insisting me, but i just jerk off when she is asleep on our bed. I ...

It always hurts when he penetrates me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My problem is that when it's time for my partner to penetrate me it’s very painful and I do not know the cause of this but after trying it finally goes in but it's still hurts. What can we use so stop the pain and easy penetration....

Masturbation: why do I reach my orgasm but I can't come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i masturbate maybe like once a week, sometimes i skip a week or so but every time i masturbate, i get to that point where i'm breathing heavy and can't control myself but then i can't come. i reach that climax but nothing ever "squirts" out and i ...

We want to try oral sex, but we're nervous about the consequences

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Ok, My boyfriend and I have been talking about having oral sex lately. We've been going out for almost six months. The desire to have oral sex isn't one sided, we both want to. We're both still reluctant because of the consequences. Should we wait ...

I was raped by my sisters husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...

Should I carry on sleeping with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I've had the serious hots for the guy in question for as long as I can remember (i.e. all through school) but after he left high school we didn't really see each other. About three years ago we bumped into each other and kept in touch. He text m...

I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall ...

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just ...

Tips about having sex on top

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Just need a few tips about having sex on top!! Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried ...

Any tips for a shy girl on top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

Is it normal to bleed the second time too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??...

Should we continue to wait or should we just be with each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Not long ago I posted my dilemma . . . . with regards to my boyfriend and I, and whether or not we should finally make love. We've dated for over 4 years now and it was my decision to remain a virgin till marriage and well he agreed that if it was ...

2 questions about sex....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice... my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt...

Tempted to cheat on my boyfriend as the sex has dried up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and everything was going good until we stopped having sex its become like once a week but even then its not amazing. So i went out to a club and met a fella i gave him my number and we have been texting and ...

How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...

My boyfriend claims he is the shy type in the bedroom yet he likes discussing porn with his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I got a question about my bf. We together 1,5 years. Our sex life was very good when we started and we did allot of stuff in the bedroom. However, my bf made me believe that he is a quiet and shy type, as he was not into experimenting with ...

How should I approach the subject of sex toys with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - how do i no if my boyfriend is into advetureous sex toys ect.. we have not been together long so nothing o rush just he has not had much exsperience he is the only one i no is the one and its took me years to find him but how do i introdu...

Trouble in the bedroom with my new partner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi i've recently started to see this guy who i adore he is 33 and i'm 25 we slept together for the first time a few weeks ago and he was a little nervous.. so one minute he had an erection then it would go this would happen through out the ...

Funny smell "down there" after sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, I always seem to get this problem where if I sleep with my partner without a condom I seem to get a funny smell down there after a few days no matter how much I wash. any ideas of what it could be? p.s We have both been checked for STI'...

Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...

He slept with someone else after we broke up and I can't shake it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I am a twenty-two year old, single female whom just earned her Bachelor's in English. This past Fall, I started work at a local high school where the majority of faculty men are either already married with nearly grown children or in some way ...

I let the relationship get physical without commitment, now I want to back off from sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Theres this guy ive been seeing for umm maybe 4 months or so.We started having a sexual relationship after a few dates.I know,dumb on my part.He seemed interested in more than sex,and still does seem to be.Sometimes we just go out and do things ...

Why do so many men prefer bigger breasts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - probably been asked a million times... but here it goes, ok... why do so many men prefer big breasts? i don't get it... it's the same shape as small ones, only bigger in size, but it's basically the same... two lumps of fat... they're for feeding ...

Do guys just want us girls for sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight....

Help! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is ...

When he gets intimate I don't feel anything.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok, i am dating a really great guy and I like him a lot. The thing is just when he gets intimate I don't feel anything. I really like him. I like kissing and touching but when we go any further it stops. I don't feel anything. I'm not repulsed or ...

My wife of 20 years wants a threesome...I may want a divorce!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for twenty years. she would like to have a threesome or swap with a couple. When she told me this i was shocked and hurt. i would like someone to help me understand this. She is forty im forty ...

I just found out about my boyfriend's threesome! I'm shocked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are very much in love. we have our ups and downs like most relationships but we have gotten through bad moments and are enjoying time together. we've recently been away and had the most amazing ...

My boyfriend has Erectile Dysfunction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for about 3 months now and recently we've been having some problems. We've always used condoms and he's never had any trouble getting an erection before. However, last time I stayed at his he lost it ...

Condom split, could I get pregnant?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex using a condom and he came, about 45 mins later we had sex again and the condom split, the top ripped off the condom, could i get pregnant from the pre-come or the come from the 1st time?? ...

What are the signs that a man is enjoying fellatio?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - what are the signs that a guy is enjoying oral sex? vocal? shaking thigh?...

Friends or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok so me and this have been friends for a really long time. and when we first had sex it was in Nov. of 07 and we didnt sleep together again until jan. of this year than we had sex again in march. and i threw a party for his birthday the 18 of this ...

Smear test hurt. Will it hurt when having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - hi i had a smear test not so long ago and it really hurt i nearly cried. does this mean it will really hurt when i have sex? also the nurse told me that my hymen is broken i've not yet had sex obviously other activities have caused this but ...

I don't feel pleasure during intercourse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - aaaahhh! i need help! ok so my fiance and i just started having sex i guess 5 months ago. he's the second guy i have had sex with. i get in the mood but everytime i feel him inside but there is NO pleasure! i know he's not too small because th...

Sex CAN be beautiful!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I have made love with 3 of my ex-boyfirneds and my current bf. I was amazed by how romantic and gentle and beautiful sex could be. all my exbfs were virgins and sex with them was boring, tiring (I had to move from the beginning to the end and I am...

He says he only cheated for sex...can this be true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My question is can a man (or woman)who cheats on their partner with the same woman and says it was only for sex nothing more over seveval years can it be true? He would go to her house for coffee and sex,and have gropes in the car if he gave her...

My ex boyfriend told everyone I'm not a virgin anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - what should i do?,my ex-boyfriend told to his friends that there something happen between us,that im not virgin anymore. my mother did not know about it..i made NAME in our place our family, so im afraid that if people in our place know about it...

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer ...

He begged me to be his girlfriend but now I'm not what he is looking for!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hey you guys, Just a week ago, I went on a date with a guy that I had met on a dating website. He convinced me to meet him a Saturday evening (9:30 pm- which is quite late for me normally). Anyway, I made it safely and we met. We hung out with hi...