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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How do I confront my boyfriend about pictures and files I've found?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I having problems trusting my boyfriend who I've been dating for 6 months. He's my first boyfriend and he says he loves me deeply but I find it hard to believe him because of some of the things I have discovered on his phone ...

Will I just be another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - [Mod note: could you please ask the question you'd like the aunts to answer? Your last comment said you need to be so desperate to be with a man like this so why are you even considering such thing with him? Thanks.] Hi dear agony aunts. Thanks f...

I'm worried about my erections when I'm with her in person!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing and extremely attractive woman. We have spent a number of weeks together in person now in the real world, and I would definitely say we understand each other very well and are very comfortable with ...

The sex has gone to zero, he said we'll try again soon, 2 months later, still zero. Though he still watches porn. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for just over a year now, our sexlife was great literally like rabbits! But within the past year it's become non existent. He's 6 years older than me, (im 20) but has never bothered us. I know he's not cheating on me that's ...

Why isn't he talking as much as he used to? Is it the distance? Or did he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3616 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for over a month and a half now. We met online and live an hour and a half away from each other. I went to his city three weeks ago because I needed to get something there and he took me out to get drinks. It was a lot ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

I wonder if he could actually care for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I met someone on holiday five years ago. It was clear we liked the look of each other but nothing ever happened. He found me on facebook somehow when he got home and three years later we were still texting every other week. Last year he asked me...

Are we dating or is this just FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Before I ask this question, I'm going to ask that if you want to answer, just answer respectfully. I recently started seeing a 30 year old man. We have gone on a few dates before about a year ago and once about 6 months ago, but I sort of backed o...

Engaged to be married but afraid to do so because I do not want sex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I am 21 years old and engaged to be married. Let me explain some of my background to you so that this makes sense. I went to a very small Christian school all my life (16 kids in a k-12 school) that is attached to my church. I grew up reading ...

I mentioned my ex and now this man has blocked me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - When I was in college a guy lived next door and I lived there until the end of college and moved and he went to michigan we were just friends and neighbors. He came into town not to long ago and low and behold his aunt is next door that he was ...

My husband doesn't have much interest in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - What would you do if your spouse doesn't want to have sex with you? My relationship with my husband has been...different. Very early on in our marriage, in bed, he said to me, "Don't initiate sex. I'll initiate." Then, over the past ten years, ...

We don't make love anymore, we just have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship as of about a year ago. We have been together for 3 years. The last 3 times we have been together we hardly make love and is more like sex. This past weekend we were together after not seeing each other for 4 ...

Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up...

Given the circumstances why wont he give me a key?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about two and a half years. He is 35 and I am 27. He has been married before, I have not. I am at his place often, probably about 5 or 6 nights a week. I do not have a key, so if he has to work before me he will ...

She came across sexual and experienced, but she's a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - I'm confused at what the girl i'm dating told me yesterday, I don't judge her for it and never would but it doesn't make sense judging by her actions and the things she says that she is. She's very affectionate and feely with me, she'll roam her ...

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my pla...

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...

My clock is ticking and I want a baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want a baby and I am dating a guy who is 7 years younger than me, i'm nearly 39 and he is just approaching 32 and we have been on and off for over a year but it was just sex that turned into something more but only the last 2 months we have been ...

I am planning on having sex outside my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly ...

No strings attached sex with coworker - could this progress into more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I need to understand how men's mind work... There's this guy at work I go out with sometimes. We both made it clear that we don't want to be in a relationship and that "it's just sex, no strings attached". I know mys...

What do I do when I don't feel him? I don't want to fake it, and I don't want to stop.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I've recently started having sex with a guy I've been dating for a few months. We kiss well and make out well. The passion is definitely there. However, there are times, when he is inside me, I can't feel him. Yet, there are times I do feel him. Why ...

Is being horny tons of times a day normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Hello. Just wondering if being horny tons of times is normal. Ever since i turned 13 I've been getting horny urges. They were laxed originally but as i got to about 18 they started to become very abundant. My estimate (because i don't keep track...

He goes limp! Is it my fault? Is he cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been tighter 16mnts an our sex life was normal nothing freaky or spontaneous but here in da last4 months or so our sex has come to a complete hbought.He can't maintain an erection or when he does it will go limp inside of ...

How do I control myself around this guy? I'm older but can't seem to get a handle on my actions and feelings. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Ok, so this is a really embarrassing and very silly problem. I am a confident woman. I date. I don't have any trouble picking up guys, but for personal reasons I am not interested in a relationship at the moment. BUT for the first time in about 10 ...

I found porn on girlfriends phone about men with big penis. Should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

20 May 2014 (M) - So me and my girlfriend been sexually active and I am actually below average size but my girlfriend says she is fine with it and that she is satisfied. Recently I checked her phone just to go on the internet and on her history it said "big black ...

We haven't kissed or cuddled for years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for almost ten years. We are a gay couple, but things aren't all rosey I'm afraid. Our sex life has completely broken down for no apparent Reason. I've asked on regular occasions why, but he is older than me by...

Does it really happen that people can't keep their hands off each other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Can this really happen? You know in films where a couple can't keep their hands off each other and they basically attack each other. Does anyone have this? Is it real or is it just for the drama? Most the time form what I can remember the sex I've ...

Some of the things she confides turn me on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - For a while now my best-friend, call her Cee has been in a relationship with this guy, who's also mostly my friend too. I's been going on for two years, and it was the most ridiculous relationship ever, and Cee was complaining about him constant...

He doesn't care for intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I am 52 years old, married my high school sweet heart a year ago - my first marriage and his second. He has been single for 20 years. We have not had sex in 7 months. There is no intimacy either - no kissing, no cuddling. He says he doesn't know why ...

What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or bi curious

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or at least bi curious? Then they say there are studies to back it up. Maybe so, but studies still cannot speak for every woman in the world. Or men for that matter. It's total bul...

How can I even things out sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

15 May 2014 (F) - So I've been feeling incredibly hormonal lately. I've never felt this hormonal before but all that's on my mind for the past week has been sex. My boyfriend is lovely and is more than happy to have sex with me and does enjoy sex immensely though ...

My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...

It seems like my sex-drive is out of control

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I have an embarrassing question and cold really use some help For as long as I can remember I have been natural wet down there. To the point in high school I had to wear panty liners because my panties would get so wet. I have always had an extre...

Is it time to close the door on my current relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - my relationship seems to be on the rocks with my boyfriend of over three years. I have a 5year old daughter from a previous relationship, which ended because i couldn't take anymore lies, disrespectful behavior which of course lead to dist...

How can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hello. I have a problem that I really need advice for. Thing is, it's kind of gross, and I don't mean to offend anyone. My question is, how can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department? I'll give you some back story. He i...

The passion has left the marriage. What more can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for 18 months. We have lived together for 4 years. Best way to put this is I am basically the woman of the relationship. I do about 90% of the house work, cooking cleaning ect. I was just raised that way to be very...

She wanted to be 'just friends' but cant handle my chasing other girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - Hey guys, this is about a girl that I met at my university a few months ago. When I saw her, I was instantly attracted to her. Beautiful, great body, nice personality, the works. My mistake was trying the nice guy act when I approached and at...

I feel disgusted he saved an inappropriate picture of his daughter's friend!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Hi There, Agh, I am actually a embarrassed to write about this. I couldn't even bring myself to talk to any of my friend about it in the last 3 days. I have this habit of going through my boyfriend's email, phone, etc. It's a bad habit, I ...

I need to gain some clarity about what this relationship would mean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - I met a man online several years ago. He and I got along until he told me that a woman from his past wanted to come back in his life. At the time I had just stopped dating someone else and was trying to see what was going on with us. So he end up ...

I accidentally sent my step-mom a sex message intended for my girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

10 May 2014 (M) - Okay. . .I know some of you will be tempted to think this a prank message and OH BOY I REALLY wish it was at the moment. My girlfriend and I got into "the mood" and decided to send sex messages and pics to each other. We were really getting i...

Do I need to have a serious conversation with him about his rough way of making love? And how should I raise the topic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - I don't know what to do with this guy. I met someone 3 months ago. Really cute fun guy, But... The only thing I keep having problems with is how he has sex. He is a bit on a rough side. In addition he has large penis,which doesn't help the s...

How important is the look of "it"?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Help .... I'm about to enter into a physical relationship with a new man after a long marriage and I need to know . How important is the appearance of a woman's vagina to a man Most of the ones I've seen in porn look very similar and much tidier t...

I ruined my second chance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - so cupid, Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up for the second time. things that happened: In the past, I have cheated, and I paid for my actions, I was devastated. so that led to this girl in my class who's in his class, and she's been feeding ...

My boyfriend wants a blowjob but I can't do it due to past experiences

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend of almost a year really wants me to give him a blowjob. He's asked a number of times and at first I thought nothing of it and said I would at some point, but more recently he's become more naggy on the topic. This has made me ...

Will I be limiting my chances of having a Boyfriend considering that I don't like giving blow jobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - Will I have limited boyfriend chances unless I give blow jobs?? I don't mind hand jobs, but I'm not a person who feels comfortable with the idea of a penis in my mouth. I also don't particularly like the idea of a guy ejaculating on me, but I don't ...

How do we address issues that arose after we both cheated on our former partners, at the start of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3636 days ago

9 May 2014 (M) - My gf and I are having issues with our families accepting a mistake we made and I really could use some advice. We have been dating officially for about four months now. But eight months ago we met while we both were in relationships. I was marrie...

My husband requests fellatio all the time and not only that! What do you do when your husband denies you a sexual orgasm or intercourse if you don't do it first?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - I don't want to bash my husband or write insensitively of him but it has caused a little ripple in our marriage where it hasn't completely gone away. By continually asking for me to give him oral sex but it's not as bad as it was before when he kept ...

I thought all men liked giving anal sex! Is he a weirdo?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - Am a bit confused about the situation am in it also may sound a bit silly. I have been with my partner now for 7-8 years now and I should think i know him but.... When we got together ok we experimented with each other in the bed room department and ...

Am I suffering from some form of sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

8 May 2014 (M) - As I've mentioned previously on this site, I'm in the habit of frequenting brothels on a weekly basis. However, after soliciting the advice of some of the regular contributors here, I've decided to refrain from sleeping with sex workers while I wait ...

What type of condom do you recommend for the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

7 May 2014 (F) - Hi! So I am a virgin currently. My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex. I'm a virgin and he isn't. My question is: What type of condom do you recommend for my first time? He wants to use fire and ice but I'm not so sure since if it hur...