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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We've had sex twice but now he's not calling me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks. we had sex on our second date. he says he is ready for a serious relationship. we work very close so i see him everyday but thats all he does not call. we had sex again but since then he has not called what ...

Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend i mean this is terrible and its destroying my life i mean i just dont know what to do i am not on speaking terms with my x so i can't even tell her to try to get it out my head...

I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...

Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm still a virgin. What's it like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 899 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - can someone please help me with sex, i am a virgin and i am with a guy im 15 and he is 16. we really want to have sex, im scared of letting him go down there because i find it embarrasing although i realli like him. we want to have sex but can ...

Every time he puts on a condom he goes limp. How can we fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf fot 14 months. We started having sex back last august. We have only had sex like 15 times since as i still get a bit anxious and after a while feel pain when having sex. He finds that when we have finished foreplay and are...

Is there anyway you could help to me to make things in my sex life better for the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 908 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I am 17 and just got married about 3 months ago after being with my now husband 3 years. I dont enjoy sex that much anymore and I am not for sure why. After about 3 months of dating him I lost intrest in sex altogether, I think I like it so much ...

My boyfriend said sex hurt him, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My guy and I recently had sex after a few months because we were in different parts of the country. He said that it hurt him, he felt good but also pain. Is this normal ? I am worried for him. I was on top of him just for the record here. We did ...

My girlfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time this weekend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Me and my gf have been together for 7 months have have decided that on saturday night when i stop over that we will have sex for the first time, we are both virgins btw. We are incredibly close as we have been best friends for many years, have have ...

My period is late, do you think I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I haven't had my period. I usually get it on the 5th. I've never had a normal period until i started taking the pill. I slipped 1 or 2 days but still used condoms. it is now the 30th and still haven't got them my period yet. I have spotted and I am ...

I'm a virgin and he's very well endowed. Will it hurt to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I'm wondering... I am a virgin and I have a partner which is really big in size, he's well above average. Will it hurt me more than if he was smaller ? I'm kinda scared....

Is it healthy to be that sexually active?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i just started having sex 4 days ago. We were both virgins. Now we have sex 2 times a day. Is that heathy? We're madly in love and we cant seem 2 find any other better way 2 express our love 2 one another. Hes 20 and im 21. He ...

I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...

He fingered me and I bled! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - hey everyone,i just have a little question...my boyfriend and i decided to get a little intimate a few days ago...things were going well..then he decided to finger me..when he did this, there was a little sign of blood on his hand..later that day,i ...

Mom found a condom wrapper in my bedroom. She now says my bf and I are not allowed to be alone together, here! Is she being unreasonable? or is she right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Right this is a long one so i need to find a place to start. Well im 15. Have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for 5 months. i was moving my room around with my mum nd she found a condom wrapper. She at first was pretty ok about it, but then she ...

My one testicle is a bit bigger and hurts more than the other. Anyone know what the problem could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Okay this is more a personal problem and I don't know where else to ask. I have been checking my testicles the past week as I think it is important and they do look normal but if I feel on the left it is a bit bigger than my right and when I feel it ...

Do guys like to kiss girls who give blow jobs?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know what everyone thinks of kissing girls that give bj to boys? do men all think that kissing them is like kissing the private part of the person they gave bj to or is it not? also do their mouth taste awful then...

I told him I wanted to to be more assertive and say NO to sex with just anyone. Yet he took advantage when I got drunk! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Im 17, im pretty and have a nice figure however i am very insecure about myself.. i cant go out with out makeup and take so long to get ready in the mornings... ive slept with 5 people between now and last June and i no this is too many, and i ...

Why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? Is this a sign of a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? why would a man have a threesome with his long term girlfriend and her friend? is this the type of thing that would just happen when you got drunk or would you plan this? is this ...

I am so dry down there. I had chlamydia a while back..would an STD affect this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I get so dry! im 17 and have been sexually active for less than a year. In the beginning i got sooo wet, i mean with hardly any forplay. Now i dont get wet AT ALL. I got chlamidea a few months ago and i treated it... im currently not in a ...

Was the cut on vagina from rough sex or an STI? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I have noticed a small cut on the lip of my lady bits and it sometimes stings slighly when i pee if a bit gets on there. I was very drunk and had quite rough sex the other night, do you think it could be an STI or just a cut from the roughness. My ...

Our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently...is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 853 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys, I've been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now, and she moved in with me last month (serious, I know!) - but our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently, only making love once a month at the most. It just seems that she d...

Bf pressured me to give him head and said he's return the favor but he didn't! How can I ever trust him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - im 17 my boyfriend is 31 he got me 2 give him head i didnt really want to but he said he would do it back to me and he didnt . how can i trust him...

She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...

He watches porn and 'gets off', every morning! Is this why we don't have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My bf and i have been together for 3 years now. We hardly have sex. He has a habit of watching porn and getting off in the morning. Could that be one of the reason why we hardly have sex? We had talked about this matter.His answer was because he is ...

We recently had unprotected first-time sex. Could she be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I am worried that my girlfriend may be pregnant. We had first-time sex recently. We had sex in the shower first, I did not ejaculate. Then, I went to my bedroom and masturbated until I ejaculated. I fell asleep for about 45 minutes...

Had a threesome with my bf and his best friend. Trouble is-I've fallen for the best friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have had a 3sum i am a nymphomaniac and have had many so its not the first time we have currently had a bunch with his best friend who i dated for 1 month over the phone when i was away me and my boyfriend have been together ...

I 'm interested in BDSM-how do I introduce it to my bf of 2 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Help! This is a very strange question... And I feel strange asking it. I am interested in BDSM (male domination) and am in a really secure relationship with my boyfriend. I just don't know how to introduce a Dom/Sub relationship, since it all seems ...

My 'sex buddy' guy got me pregnant-then he accused of giving him chlamydia! Any advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have a major dilemma... please any advice would be appreciated. I started seeing a guy a few months ago, I knew he's just split up with his girlfriend and it was just sex between us... but i kinda got emotionally attached. In the end his ...

I'm a 27 year old male and have never had sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I would appreciate some advice, I am a 27 year old male, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any sexual experience with the opposite sex, girlfriends/rela...

I'll do anything for it to be how we once were...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - ok so im 8month pregnant, 15, and by boyfriend -hes the dad- keeps forcing me into sex, he sexually abuses me and accuses me of cheating on him and goes everywere with me and if he cant he gets one of his m8s to go with me instead , he beats me up ...

I threw my vibrator in the bin and now I can't pleasure myself properly, any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hia just a quickish question, im in a great 1 year relationship and we are a very sexual couple. but when i am not with him, i still become kinky and i cant pleasure myself no matter what. i did have a vibe but i threw that in the bin when i moved ...

Can't orgasm and different positions don't work...what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have been having sex for over a year but cant orgasm, i have tries different positions still dont work. please help...

He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I a...

Is it normal that sex is painful the first few times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i just became sexually active 2 days ago. We were both virgins. In the last 2 days we have had sex 4 times. The first time it was pretty painful. And the last 3 times have been painful but not as much. The last time felt good b...

I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and want to initiate foreplay. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - dear cupid !! i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months nearly now and the sexual tension between us gets reeally high . However, we have not done any foreplay or anything and i do not know how to start it and wandered if you have any ideas xx...

I have a fluctuating sex drive. Should I be worried and is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 911 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I have a fluctuating sex drive. Over the period of about two months, i can go for weeks with absolutely zero interest in sex, and then one day, become this ravenous sex animal, and not want to leave the bed for hours, if not days, on end. Needless ...

How can I make my girlfriend feel more confident about herself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - me and my gf have been together for a year and 2months now. We have known each other all our lives and have always been close friends. We started having sex about 7 months now but when we do she will never take her bra off, sometimes she doesnt like ...

How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test? and if abortion is an option... how long do u have to decide before it is too late?...

He said ASKING him to make love to me is a turn off...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. When I want to make love, I usually tell him in words. He tells me now that this is a turn off for him and that I should just start kissing him or something but the whole reason I don't do that is because ...

My wife and I want to try out some new ways which are exciting but extremely pleasureable sex wise, any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - me and my wife have been married for 7yrs this summer and been going out together since we were 16. We have always had a really good sex life and still at the age of 33 we still have sex between 3-5 times a week even though we have 2 kids. One is 17 ...

When I masturbate it's absolute agony, can any of the agony uncles help here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys. I have an embarrassing question coming up and i'm hoping some of the guys may be able to help me out. A little while ago, I wasn't able to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis while erect, then after research I found out that s...

I have never had sex but masturbate a lot, will this make me loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - im a young girl with a really high sex drive. i can get horny anywhere, and everywhere. suprisingly i haven't had sex!! this is because me and my boyfriend want to have a white wedding. i have been masterbating a lot (with one finger), will this ...

I don't feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend because I'm so thin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings....

How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him? My bf is the nicest, sweetest guy but his erection is not that hard, it just kinda flops back against his abdomen instead of 'standing to attention' (for want ...

I masturbate, thinking about... myself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Do you think it's weird to masterbate thinking about yourself? I can have an orgasm when I think about myself wearing sexy clothing - my boyfriend can't believe I'm not thinking about having sex when I masterbate - does anyone else think of other ...

This is a question for the girls only!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna sh...

I worry in case I can't get and erection and it's ruining my social life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 910 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - hi, this might sound like a weird post but i was just wondering if anyone knows where im coming from or could offer me some good advice. its a little embarrassing and i dont know quite how to put it with it making sense but i'll try. o.k. this...

Why do I never feel like having sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things are great but i never feel like having sex... other sexual acts are ok... but wen it comes to sex i never really feel like it. its not that hes bad in bed coz he's really good but i just never ...

What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 789 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got ...