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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I am insecure about how my body looks, its affecting my sex life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Hello, and thanks for reading. I am very apprehensive and insecure when I have sex with my boyfriend. I wish I had the confidence to initiate but everytime I build myself up to initiate, I clam up. I find myself to be beautiful and I love my body ...

I'm 16, girlfriend is 14 ... I am thinking of breaking up because we cant find anywhere private!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - Am a 16 year old teenager in High School. Am currently a junior dating my 14 year old freshman girlfriend. We've been together 2 months and its been working out. Me and her have kissed before a couple of times, but never making out. The reason being ...

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were...

How do I convince my girlfriend to indulge my ballbusting fetish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - I've been dating a girl, that I love, for about six months. I also love ballbusting, and the problem is that she doesn't want to do it anymore. If you don't know what it is, just Google it. One session usually lasts about 30-60 minutes, dependi...

Boyfriend wants me to give another man oral sex.I am not happy with this!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been pressuring me into blowing another guy and I feel completely uncomfortable with the idea, I have told him this everytime he's asked and now he brings it up in the middle of sex or while he's dirty talking, I told him I'd ...

I've planned a very elaborate threesome with my bf and another girl, but could still do with some advice..

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - Hi all. The live-in boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are very solid, trust each other completely, with little to no jealousy whatsoever, and we have a great sex life. So after about 6 months of discussion, we've finally decided to ...

What does my best friend want from me? He is married but keeps asking for a secret relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - He is married for 7 months. And he wants me to be in secret relationship with him. We are close friends since very long time and back in our college days we used to like each other not genuinely but just like crush on each other. We got so ...

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), ...

My crush. He's 20, I'm 17. Should I wait 2-3 years for him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him...

The professor and the student...are we bad for having sexy fun?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I am not going to lie and say I regret this or that this is anything serious. He works at my university as a professor, and yes i am a student there. However, he is in a completely different department to me. He is 38 I am 22 and our university...

Why does my g/f want to go to planned parenthood to get checked out if she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - My girlfriend and me are both 15. She said she got her girl thing at 12 but she wants to go to planned parenthood to get looked at. Even her East Orthodox mama said no since she's a virgin and doesn't have to. I'm Pentecostal and I agree with her ...

My online girlfriend cheated on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

21 November 2016 (M) - So, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years, because of her age and my age we never told our family the truth...that and we live a thousand miles a part and have only gotten to see each other twice. Well a month ago my girlfrien...

Sexting and video chat is not enough for me ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - So me and this guy talk but he lives like almost 3 hours away from me, and me and him sext all time but it's just not fun for me anymore... I feel bad because we can'r see each other and sexting is basically all we have... How do I make things fun ...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

The guy who meant nothing to her in her past got to live out his fantasy while I, despite being her boyfriend, don't get the same privilege. Isn't it unfair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I guess the question I have is what do I do? About 3 years ago before my girlfriend met me she had sex with a girl while a guy she occasionally hooked up with watched. They were all out at the pub and the girl was interested in her and the guys ...

Making love vs having sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - how do you know when your making love and not having sex,...

Why do men sexualize women this way?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Why are men so disgusting? I'm not trolling. From what I have seen of men, they are foul. They admit to looking at every woman as a sexual partner, imagining her naked... They think disgusting things. They use disgusting words when referrin...

Did she just want to sleep with me? Or could she really 'like' me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - To cut a long story short, I had sex with my female housemate. I am not super attracted to her but yeah, it happened. I suspect she has been trying to seduce me for a while because she has asked to 'spoon' a couple of times after a night out. After ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...

What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times ...

My life is a living hell with this older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - I had a crush with an older man who is about 60-65 not because i like him but because of situations this man will ask for sex all the time and anytime i give him sex i get hurt and sometimes when i say no is a problem too he gets mad at me,he makes ...

Why do I have mixed feelings about my friend of 20 plus years who wants a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - My friend of 20 plus years has a plan to come and visit me. We have been crushing on each other for years now that we have come in contact with one another on Facebook we really want to see each other. We talked about being in a relationship but...

I just want to know from a womans perspective what my wife may be feeling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - What does intercourse feel like for my 26 year old wife, who has only been with me, until she started having an affair with a man that we both know from the past... we had a threesome with him, which didnt work for me, but my wife started seeing h...

I don’t to give my girlfriend visible hickies or love bites!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

14 November 2016 (M) - Adults only please; this questions is not suitable for young readers. My gf has grown to love rough sex that leaves marks. I oblige but I draw the line at anything visible - often neck hickies or love bits. I don't want others to either see her a...

Stuck in a cycle and unable to initiate the conversation ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

13 November 2016 (M) - I am 55, my partner is 64. We have been together 11 years. We got together immediately after I left my previous relationship, we were friends before I left my relationship, which went wrong for many reasons. She initiated the relationship, and at ...

I'm really attracted to my friend, won't cheat on my partner so how do I handle the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - Hi, I have myself a very loving boyfriend, we are each others rock, and best friends, enjoy food, and home life, and hobbies together, we help each other to work through any stresses and fully support each other as much as possible in all we do. I...

Why does he never offer to pay for the hotel?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

10 November 2016 (F) - I travel quite a lot and 3-4 times a year I fly through one country where I met a guy who I really like. Sometimes it's a lay over, sometimes it's a couple days stay. We always meet and it's usually just amazing. Sex is amazing and I really enj...

Should I try to seduce my brother's wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

10 November 2016 (M) - I'm 19 year old and have a huge crush on my brothers wife she's around 28 and I've been in a relationship with her sister she's 23 and whenever I have sex with her I couldn't stop imagining my sister in law and ejaculate thinking of my sister in ...

Am I confusing love with sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. We have been friends for years and have slept together on and off for a while. Am I confusing sex with love. Should I tell him?...

Am I wrong for wanting sex twice a week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid: I'm a lesbian and been with my lady for almost 2 years. At first the sex was amazing. NOW it never happens and she thinks there are times it has and it hasn't. I would remember. I CHERISH it so much when it does. She used to initiate...

Do I have cancer? I'm really scared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - So it's been a long journey of worrying myself sick and feeling scared and alone. About a year ago I had sex for the first time. I'm not gunna go into to much detail but yes I did use a condom. Long story short.. I developed a little bump where my ...

I thought we had something but now I'm thinking we are just a casual relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - Omg! So, we met online and have dated a few times. Taken the relationship to another level, had amazing sex, a few times now. and now,after just 7 weeks booked to go away together. All fantastic, I thought. However, he has been acting strangely the ...

I cheated once on my husband with a friend I like the attention but feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - I know my hubby for 18 years of which we married for 10 years. Although I came close to cheating on him, I didn't actually ever kiss anyone (French kiss). I was so proud of this as most of my friends have cheated on their spouses. That was up until ...

I'm uncomfortable saying words about genitals. Help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Hi there, I'm in my first relationship and have been for 18 or so months. I've got body dysmorphia and I'm waiting for therapy for it, but I'm ashamed of my body. I'm very introverted physically and I've only ever been naked with my current boyfr...

If a man's intentions are sex, will holding off make him like you more?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - I had read an article on the Evan Marc Katz website and it mentioned that holding off on sex weeds out the guys who are only interested in getting into your pants and not really wanting to get to know you/don't like you. I also heard from a dif...

How do I tell my husband without hurting his feelings that he doesn't satisfy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

5 November 2016 (F) - So..I've been with my husband for 11 years. Sex was never a problem, up until recently. I was young when we first met so I never paid attention to the "small" size he carried, it would satisfy me completely. Now after 3 kids I feel differently. How ...

How can I tell my wife that her sister has started to appear in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I are generally very open with eachother about our fantasies. They usually just come out during intimacy. Lately, however, I've been having a fantasy that I want to be a bit more subtle when I tell her about it. My new fantasies have ...

Is this normal? Should I avoid any contact sexually with men if I'm not gay or bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - I'm a heterosexual male and is not sexualy attracted to men. However I do get turned on when I see a male erection. I fantasise on occasions about performing felatio and mutual masturbation with guys. I have also participated in mutual masturbation ...

Sex with my uni professor, help please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - Hello I am 24, he is 42 (I know he is so much older than me) I have always been drawn to and dated older guys (besides my first boyfriend.) Anyway he is my professor, now when I say my professor, he is a lecturer at my university and he is the ...

Why do I get so upset when my husband masturbates??! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - I've been with my husband for about a year and a half now, I'm 26 and he's 31. I have to say I am not bad looking at all but I just feel so unsexy when he masturbates! We don't have sex as often as I'd like to and I always initiate. He never does! I ...

The man I'm dating keeps asking for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - Hello. Looking for some advice. I have been single for 17 years and dating the last eight years. Have had a few relationships that lasted six months. I have had a lot of bad luck in relationships. Seems like men don't want a serious relationship. ...

My boyfriend told me he has never enjoyed sex much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hi, I have a wonderful boyfriend of 5 months. Originally we took our time getting to know each other before taking it to the next level. Now, that we have mentioned to each other that we are both ready. Every time we get sexual, it seems he ...

She says she commitment problems but I either need her to commit or move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

1 November 2016 (M) - This is a difficult one – at least for me. I ask you to please give my question due consideration before giving an answer. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly six years. I am 68 and she is 50. I am younger than my years. We have both suf...

Is he holding back because I hurt him? Or punishing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I met an Irish guy doing the regional work in Aus and became close. While he went on a road trip for a few weeks,I met someone else,which only ended up as a fling, and had to tell him when he returned before Christmas. He was very hurt and bitter. ...