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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Does he truly love me, or is he with me because I do stuff to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - this is my 4th bf but his the only guy that actully kiss me...then well we started to play around. taking our clothes off but we just touch each other we don't do more than that is that natural in a relationship he tells me he loves me but ...

I'm new to the UK and trying to figure out sexual behaviour here. Any statistics/experiences/advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I was just wondering: In the United Kingdom, what is the average sexual behaviour of people? Are the majority of people ok with no strings attached sex, or do most prefer waiting for a relationship? And is it a foreign concept to wait until you ...

I really need to understand what his fascination to 'let loose' all over me is all about!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - What is with the male fascination with porn and cumshots? I guess I don't understand the appeal of it. Maybe some of the guys can explain it. I can always tell when my b/f has been looking at porn because he will pull out during sex and let loos...

Can suffering from S.A.D. "Social Anxiety Disorder" affect your sex life or performance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Does anyone suffer from social anxiety disorder? If so, how does it affect your sex life/sexual performance? Do you suffer from feelings of embarrassment or guilt after having sex with a new partner?...

He was into foursomes in the past. How do I make sure he isnt into that anymore?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My question is My boyfriend was once married, and then come to find out he and his wife were into foursomes, when I ask him about it because I just want to make sure that he doesn't still have those feeling because I won't do it he get mad at me...

I am a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave something and don't get it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My GF wants a break away from sex as she said she gets hurt sometimes, im worried that this will make our r'ship break because I know sex aint the only thing in the relationship but it is one main key to a relationship. I'm a ratty person and I get ...

Can you answer questions about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - can you answer quetions about sex?...

How can I make my first time having sex enjoyable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi DearCupid, I'm 23 and a virgin. Basically, my question is how can I make my first time having sex an enjoyable one, or at least partially enjoyable? You seem to hear that everyone's first time is a disaster, awkward, or embarrassing, so...

I'm a gay man, married to a woman... am I doing the right thing, pretending to be straight?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I need help!! I am a gay guy age 29, trying to have a straight life and relationship. I love my wife more than anything. now i have two questions: 1: Am i doing the right thing by trying to be straight? 2: Are there ways I can spice up our...

Men, do you discuss details of your sex lives with your buddies?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I have a question for the men. Do you guys discuss what happens in the bedroom with your male buddies, or best friends? I'd like to think what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Do you guys compare notes and tell each other if she was...

He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?...

I'm self-conscious about my body, I'm afraid that when we have sex he'll tell his friends about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm self concious of my body and am scared to have sex for the first time because i fear that he won't like my body and will tell all his friends about it. Are guys usually like this. please help!...

My boyfriend is a "minute man". Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is almost 34 years old and is a "minute man". He's the first guy I've been with that didn't have a little more control over said issue. Are there any men that might have some advice? Is lasting longer a genetic thing, a mental thing? ...

Will losing my virginity help my self confidence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I'm 16 in a few days. I always feel lonely and lost even if I have a girlfriend. I guess I just feel different from everyone else. Maybe it's a self-confidence thing. Does anyone think that losing my virginity will help this a little? I mean, I want ...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

What does a girl do when she's on top?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do when I'm on top!! help! ...

I am not sure I ever had an orgasm though we have a very active sex life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - my fiance and i have been together fo 2 1/2 years now and we have a very active sex life, but i'm not sure if i've ever had an orgasem. i dont know what one is he is the first person i ever had sex with so i dont know when i get one iv'e also heard ...

Please explain sex / oral sex to me and give tips...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i have recently gotten into a relationship with a man a year younger than me.. we are really happy apart from the fact that he will surely expect me to sleep with him soon, altho he has put no pressure on me so dont get me wrong i really want to. ...

E.D. is destroying me emotionally because I just want to make love and not worry about the sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi I am a male, 28. Since 7 years or so I have had a problem with erectile dysfunction. It has been creeping up and has been getting worse lately. I have had about 10 partners, all of whom I had sexual relations with. The problem is, I cannot r...

We have no sex life. Am I being a selfish bitch?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I am with a guy for the last year and a half and we get on very well in general in that we don't really argue but lately i am getting more and more unhappy, problem is we have no sex life. He has made many excuses as to why we don't, depression, ...

My man is too depressed to have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I am in a sexless relationship. It's a long, painful story and if I could recount all the reasons why my man is depressed and feeling powerless, you would understand why I'm being so long suffering. He refuses counselling and gets upset if *I* try ...

My boyfriend (28) says he does not have a sex drive and does not think about sex anymore?!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 36yr old woman and have been with my 28yr old man for 2yrs. I can count on 1 hand how many times we have had sex. I dont understand I've done all I can to get us there but nothing seems to work. So I just keep asking him why wont you make love...

I'm 14, should I suggest to my girlfriend that we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - i'm 14 and i really feel the need of having sex with my girlfriend (she's 15), though i'm not sure she would want to (they say boys want it more than girls do)...but i really do. i really really love her and its been about a year since we started ...

What else I can do to please him besides blowjobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend but i dont really know how to please him. all i ever do is give him blowjobs. he doesn't complain but i know he feels something about the situation. i want to know what else i can do to please him besides blowjobs. ...

Is it wrong to have a physical relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have ...

I can't always maintain an erection-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - There is a funny situation that makes me feel sometimes worried but last few months sometimes when i have intercourse at the begining my penis is hard but while i start doin it in a minute it becomes softer and i need like to get it out and again ...

Do men in relationships want to have sex with other women? How much and how often?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - How much do guys in a relationship want to have sex with other females? I'm curious. I don't ever get the urge to have sex with some other guy. I wonder if it's the same for men? Today I was telling my boyfriend how weird it'd be for me if he was...

My older girlfriend is pressuring me for sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - Hey Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months know and we love each other i am 15 and she is 18, and she is ready to lose her virginity but i do no think that i am. I have told her this and she said to me that she will 'go somewhere el...

I need some tips on talking dirty!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(...

Are there any tips for using vibrators?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I know this sounds a little, um, weird to say, but, I cannot orgasm when I use my vibrator. I start getting pleasure, but then it fades away, and I can barely feel anything. On top of that I find it quite painful when I insert it--I can never find...

Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...

How can I stop my boyfriend from worrying about him not pleasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've never had an orgasm, i've been having sex with this one guy for a few weeks and he is really worried that i don't enjoy it, which just makes it harder for me to relax. I don't know how to stop him worrying??? ...

I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS...

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...

She reacted so adversely when I asked for more intimacy that I felt like a pervert! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - hi everyone, ive posted a few things on here and you all be very helpfull... me and my girlfriend are very intimate at the moment and i came out with totaly the wrong thing the other day when i was intimate with her i asked her if she wanted t...

I have pain when he penetrates very deeply, during intercourse, why does it hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - why does it hurt when he goes really deep, like all the way in? is he hitting my cervix?...

My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally ...

We are more like friends than a couple now. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and in the past 6 months our sex life has gone completly, even kisses and cuddles have gone. I have tried more or less everything. We are more like friends now as we have nothing in common like we use ...

My vibrator is making me feel uncomfortable when I get close to orgasm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have not been masturbating for very long. (about two weeks and it is with a rabbit style vibrator) I come very close but I find the vibrating is too intense so I have to stop! I have not had an orgasm before. I would like to but when I get very ...

21 and still a virgin. What can I expect for my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old female. I have recently gotten together with my first boyfriend, who is 23. We spent the night together last saturday but decided to stop and not to have sex just yet. I am a virgin, he is not. But i haven't told hi...

My husband doesn't know I've never had an orgasm because I fake it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hi, well,eva since i started having sex,which is a long time now,i ve never had an orgasm,i mean never.am married with two kids and my husband doesnt know cos i fake it!!!i dont want to hurt his feelings!! i do have feelings though when i put my pi...

How do you know if you are ready for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - how do you know if your ready for sex???...

What is sexual contact, and is it illegal to have any sexual contact with someone under 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - i just wondering if u could help me what is sexual contact??? is it illgal to have any sexual contact with a person who is younger than 16? ...

He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get ...

My sister ruins everything for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - my sister really winds me up, she ruins everything for me and when i say everything i mean EVERYTHING shes such a tart! shes 13, yes only 13! and shes going out with a 17 year old who shes been with for 3 months and is already having sex with him, ...

My girlfriend is refusing to give me oral unless I shave, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My gf is refusing to give me a blow job unless i start shaving. what should i do? I'm also woried about accidentally cutting myself. Plz help me out....

Is asking my boyfriend for oral sex unfair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am a virgin, which my boyfriend knows, but we have had anal. There are a lot of reasons I don't want to have sex with him that I won't include here. But one thing is that he's small in that department (I can't imagine that I would honestly feel ...

I don't make any noises during sex... should I fake it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Note: I am a girl. So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingeri...

How do I ask her to shave down there without her getting mad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are both 15,we've had oral sex together, and she doesnt shave and i want to ask her without her getting mad so how do i?...

How do I squirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've tried to squirt a few times now, by myself, I tried using my fingers--which I didn't really feel a terriffic 'G-Spot' (and I am not sure where it is because 1-2 inches into my vagina doesn't feel ULTRA SENSITIVE) And my fingers didn't feel as ...