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Sex: Help and advice

Emotionless, affectionless and sexless marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I am having this issues with my wife that is destroying my marriage. We have been married 17 years with 2 kids. When we first were married our sex life was fantastic. After our kids and time went on, it went to nothing. I have talked to my wife ...

I'm mis-reading my wife's signs, what am I missing here??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - I can't read my wife's signs. I get home the other day and she heads upstairs to put the kids to bed. Just before leaving the room, she tells me (and shows me) that she doesn't have any underwear on. After the kids are in bed, she takes a bath. ...

Pregnancy and oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) ...

72 hours later, can I still get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I looked at this site for similar posts and i found that all of them were talking about handjobs where they didn't ejaculate so obviously they were very silly thinking that they were pregnant. However, last night about eight oclock i gave my ...

Sex is far and few

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I have been married for 17yrs...We love ea.other,sex is great (when we have it).I just turned 40 and my husband is 46yrs old. My question: I am very sexual and I try to get my husband in the mood,ask for a quicky or give him something in return. ...

During sex with my boyfriend I felt a lot of pain. I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem , i had sex with my boyfriend but then i felt alot of pain , so we stopped but since then , i felt pain , after sometime we tried doing it again , but i bleeded,,, i can't seek a doctor over my country,,,,so anyadvice ???...

My boyfriend can't get me to orgasm and it's causing problems between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't been able to bring me to orgasm through any method. Not oral, not sex, not fingering, Nothing. So the other day we were having sex, and trying to get me to have an orgasm. And even though we know that if you focus everything on ...

I get the most stimulation by having sex doggystyle...is this strange?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Is this a fetish? Or is it strange at all? I like sex of course, all types of positions and with my partner. But it seems in all my relationships, even in high school, I always got the most stimulation from doggystyle. Sometimes I couldn't even ge...

Can you buy a toy on-line anonymously?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and I really want to buy some sex toys. I'm a virgin, and I'm not in a relationship, but that's because I'm kinda shy and nervous. But I still love masturbating; I've been doing it for years. The only problem is, I'm getting bored of...

I don't know if I'm ready ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and there's this guy that likes me. Lets call him J. So j and me were IMing and he said he to have sex with me and i said i wanted to too. But then i thought about it and i really wasnt ready because i was molested and i dont think im ready. ...

Could I be pregnant And is it true that women don't ovulate while on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I'm on the pill, and I'm not very good at remembering to take it (sometimes miss over 3 days at a time) and recently had sex (3rd week of my cycle) using the withdrawal method, which I know isn't exactly the most effective method. I'm just ...

He wants to go on holiday together and have sex without a condom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - After i broke up with the man i used to date last year i started to date with a man i knew for a while but i didn't date with him because i didn't like him a lot. As nothing seemed to get improved with the man i used to date i decided to go out with ...

I don't like giving oral sex, he asks for it every day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend asks for oral sex EVERYDAY!!! I for one am not that into it. if there were a better term id say i hate and choose not to do so, i do it enough maybe every four days or so but im gettin tired and he wants me to do it until he cums, i ...

The bleeding is bad...What is going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - he made it bleed bad about three month ago with his fingers. it bled bad. now today he he didnt barely go in with his fingers and blood came gushing out. whats the problem?...

My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it? What should we do during so it's not phone sex and not like watching porn? Due to work sometimes we have to be apart for a few weeks at a time and I really want to ...

I don't want sex, but she's had sex once before. Should I start a relationship with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent....

Can his ED trigger him to have such addictive desire to threesomes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I am dating this guy who keeps telling me I am the sexiest woman he's ever met. We have had fantastic, hot sex. Lately all he's been doing is asking me to consider a threesome. I would understand this desire if we were younger (he is over 50). To ...

What should I do? He wants to give it time before we have sex, and has a thing for shopping.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - i am on the topic of trying new things that we never done before and it has already been done and that whats keeping us closer and we even come to a conclusion to moving to a different city for that major change. i am a gay dad of a 8year old boy ...

I still love and miss him but does he feel the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy and at first had a "casual" relationship, I guess. He told me that he would ask me out but he needs to get into law school and he is on the verge of failing. After a few months, I told him I cant do it anymore with ...

What's with guys and threesomes? Should I be offended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I who are in a some what long and serious relationship have what I atleast think is be great sex. The problem is that when we do have a go at it, he looks at the porn on the screen more than me. Also, he often admitts to me th...

Lost my virginity. Now I have a concern about my body...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Two days ago I lost my virginity. I'm almost 99% sure he doesn't have an STD but yesterday I was uh feeling around down there to see if anything changed and I felt what seems like an air bubble on the left side of my vagina and I dont know what it ...