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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

What is happening here? Neither my girlfriend nor I were virgins when we met. So why am I suddenly bothered that someone else before me had sex with her, before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I’m with my girlfriend since almost 3 years and none of us were virgins when we get together. For me non virginity is not a problem at all, but since 1 week the idea of someone other than me inside her started to pop up in my head. I love her fro...

How do I make the next move? I'm scared of rejection but when I do meet a woman I don't know what to say to get her interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I've been single for a while now. i'm not looking for a relationship just yet but am looking for casual sex. Thing is, I'm quite shy. I like to flirt with women and find this happens often, I just don't know what to say to take it to the next ste...

My FWB grabbed me by the throat when I said I would find sex elsewhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We made it very clear we do not want a relationship with each other. It is just friend with benefits kind of thing. We are really good friends and we're not sleeping with anyone else. Last night we ...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

Does anyone know of a "safe" or reasonably safe natural remedy that a man in his senior years could use as a stimulate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2588 days ago

27 February 2017 (M) - I am 87 years old. Periodically what testosterone I have,kicks in with a vengeance and I long for sex. Or even succeeding at masturbation. My main problem is ED. I have been tempted to try Viagra or Cialis but they are not effective for me. Some of...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

Is it too soon to sleep with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I need your opinions and thank you in advance. I am 40 dating a guy who is 48 for 3 weeks. We have been on 16 dates already. I know it is too much with some standards but he is just head over heels for me and has told all his family and friends and ...

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I ...

How should I deal with moving into an adult relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - There's this one boy who I have known since I was 4 and we've always been good friends and ever since we were about 15 we've been very flirty and make jokes about messing about with each other, sex and stuff like that. Last year he got together with ...

New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for ...

Sucking on breasts. Is that so enjoyable that it can be described as an act of love and deeply satisfying when between two adults in a relationship?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - Dear Cupids Having experienced the wonder of a female friend breastfeeding her child a question arose. When a woman breastfeeds her child, it's a highly beneficial situation for both of them. Not only in nourishing, but also for bonding, cl...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

I'm a virgin and a little afraid of sex but I'm worried this guy will want it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I'm a virgin at the age of 21 and always feel embarrassed talking about it. I've never done anything with a guy... But I've met a guy and we get on well... however I'm afraid of having sex. I don't know why. I just think he will just want that. An...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

Is he right to be annoyed? He was asleep, while I watched porn. He said that what I did was a form of cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Okay so My boyfriend always takes the mick out of me that I want sex too much. I do like it every day but I don't think that's a problem.. Anyway, that's not the issue. Last night he fell asleep when he knew I was horny, which isn't reall...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Disappointed he couldn't see me Valentine's day. Am I being selfish? Should I try and make things work?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm 38 and have been dating a guy who is 38 as well. Our first date was Nov 5th last year and we've seen each other every weekend since then and sometimes during the week. He is part of a culture that does not honour pagan holidays...and I am fine ...

Is my wife secretly interested in a threesome?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

15 February 2017 (M) - So we've been married now for 3 years. And we have 2 beautiful boys. Our romantic relationship is starting to get better than it ever has been in the past and my wife(Bev) and I are really enjoying ourselves and each other. Bev only has a couple ...

I am a transgender man, dating a woman but I prefer sex with men.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

15 February 2017 (M) - I am a transgender man and I have been dating a very respectful, understanding woman for a few months now. We have reached the stage where she wants to define our relationship and move forward together, though I feel conflicted on how to progress or ...

My husband wants me to give his friend a hand job!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - my husband has been trying to talk me into giving his best friend a mercy hand job , Because his wife has some kind of a medical problem ? His friend has been so sad ever since his wife has cut him off . I am seriously considering doing it for him ...

Is this sensitivity normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - We had sex which was great. But he hadn't had sex for a year and his penis was ultra sensitive even for me to touch. I wanted to pull and squeeze his penis, I wanted to give him oral, but he stopped me, saying his penis is too sensitive? Is this ...

Why does he now decide he wants to do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - I've been having a fwb relationship with this guy for a few months now. My partner and I have been having unprotected sex for the last couple times we had sex. Today he decided to cum inside me. What does this mean? Is he starting to have feelings ...

I'm tired of the way our life is going and wonder if its time to throw in the towel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

14 February 2017 (M) - Hi I need some advice and somewhere to express exactly how I feel, I have been with my current partner for a little over 7 years now, she fell pregnant very early in the relationship (within the first 4 - 6 weeks). After which she was diagnosed wi...

My 16 year old sister is sexually active, without birth control. Should I just come out and tell my Dad what my sister told me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - My dad is a single dad , he does a great job raising my sister and I but he's a little clueless in the age girl department. He believes everything my sister tells him. I've seen her come home drunk and convince my dad that she had food poisoni...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...

How do I deal with a guy who is insecure that I had sexual experiences before him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - How do I deal with a guy who is insecure that I had sexual experiences before him? Is that even normal for a guy to feel? Early in our relationship, he was disappointed that I wasn't a virgin. Then he was weirded out when he found out that he wasn't ...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

11 February 2017 (M) - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

I feel miserable and our relationship lacks excitement!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - Hi I've been with my fiance for 3 years now the problem is it feels like we've been together forever we never go anywhere together birthdays Christmas,s valentines day all get forgotten about by him he has a very easy job he works Monday/Friday ...

Our naughty nights have turned into fights over porn and role playing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

10 February 2017 (F) - I've got problems please help! Over a year ago now, My hubby and I were only having sex once a week due to hubby getting a giant workload so we decided to make it special and naughty! We put porn on and dress up all sexy in a school uniform a...

Why do I keep having sex dreams about a girl I think of as a little sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

10 February 2017 (M) - I am 32 years old and one of my best friends, Danny, is 28 years old (we played football together in high school). He has two sisters (an older sister, Rebecca, who is 32 years old and a younger sister, Lisette, who is 22 years old). I am close to ...

I literally melt when the man I like touches me or stares at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

9 February 2017 (F) - Hello. I'm in my mid 25s, in love with a man at work. I very much enjoy my job so wouldn't risk it unless it's really worth it. The man is still playing the field and after inviting him over for coffee and a frank discussion it's clear we want ...

I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 2566 days ago

9 February 2017 (M) - My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...

He says he loves me so why is he going to escort sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - One day I used my boyfriend's computer to look something up only to find a website called backpage and he had been looking at escorts. I confronted him about it and he said it was from before we were ever dating and I believed him. Well I was using ...

Would ladies be interested in a night of hot foreplay but no sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

8 February 2017 (M) - Question for for females who could possibly be open to casual sex or males with experience. I think similar has been touched on before here. You see a guy in a bar or wherever and are really attracted to him. Both agree to get together or go s...

How can I encourage him to consider discussing with me, and choosing a baby boy's name with me, where we both agree together on the name?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - My husband and I don't live together because we don't have jobs. I live with my mother and she is supporting me financially for the moment. She will also be getting a house for my bf and us to live in as well. I see my bf once a month, we live a...

Is this male theory correct? Do woman wear matching black bra and panties when having sex is intended?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

8 February 2017 (M) - Is there any truth to the theory that women wear black when they are planning to have sex with someone and also if you're going to have sex you wear matching bra and panties?...

My husband and I had a threesome with a guy. Should I push the issue or let it go on naturally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

7 February 2017 (?) - Recently I found porn on my husbands phone and confronted him. He confessed that he was turned on by the fact that he wanted me to do a three-some. Well yesterday he brought a male friend home and after several drinks I found myself going down o...

I discovered that my 16 year old has had sex. Should I punish her by cancelling her "sweet sixteen" birthday celebrations?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - i recently found out by going through my 15 year old daughters phone that she has recently lost her virginity to an 18 year old guy whom is now dating another girl in the same area as us. When i first confronted her she denied it but eventual...

Should I tell the parents of my daughter's boyfriend that their son aged 17 is having sex with my 16 year old daughter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - My 16 year old daughter revealed to me a little over a month ago that she and her 17 year old boyfriend have had sex. They have been dating for two years and I support their relationship and like her boyfriend a lot, so I am not really surprise...

Is it likely that we will get in trouble for being together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, we go to the same highschool and we were not looking for love when we found it. In my state I know that the age of consent is 16, but he will turn 18 before I turn 16. We are both concerned that we will get in t...

Concerned about my sex life and I need some advice

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

6 February 2017 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my now fiance' for 2 1/2 years. Our sex life was great until we moved in with each other 1 year ago. I am not sure what but something changed. I have been open and honest about my feelings and my need, she says she ...

Advice please on raising girls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - Hi all, i just wanted to share my thoughts with you.. have you noticed people around us lately - the social media? People are all posing nude and doing sexy poses etc. Girls want to pose half naked. The butt (sorry) has become the women's most ...