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writes:Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. we're both college students and during the summer its hard to find places to have sex. Sometimes we try to have sex late at night after everyone in the house is in bed ( poor college students who live w/parents during the summer). if not then he pleasures me in other ways, but the problem is, when we're at my place I get paranoid that my parents or someone else might come knocking on my door. my boyfriend gets mad at me cuz he usually pleasures me but then i don't return the favor (because i'm paranoid). Are there any other college students who have the same problem?? I feel horrible cuz i want to return the favor but i can't stay concentrated on him when i keep thinking we'll get 'caught' Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Go on google earth look for secluded areas in your town drive out there with a blanket KY and some condoms. many places have rooftop acess where no one ever goes, Parks and beaches are great just go late after the kiddies are alseep depending on the layout of yur parents house you should be able to go outside in the back yard no one will be spying on you at 3 in the morning.why are you so worried about getting caught your an adult your parents arent stupid they kno your having sex and at your age i doubt they care, in fact i doubt any one cares about your sex life so your paranoia is unfounded unless you where specifically told not to have sex in your parents house. personaly i wouldnt in my parents house if they where home but if i did and they caught me so what. some people are more open about sex and they expect you to have sex and really dont care if you do it in there house or not. others may shun it.
oh and have you ever thought about a hotel
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (27 July 2009):
That's what the back-seat of a car was invented for.I was in a similar situation when I started dating my best friend's sister. We didn't want anyone to know about us, so we got very inventive with where we had sex.We lived in a small town where life pretty much stopped at 6pm in the evening most nights, so we would sneak out anywhere between 11pm an 1 am in the morning and meet up in random places to have sex. Sometimes we'd go for a drive and park in a used car parking lot (no worry of cops coming and find you there! :) ), sometimes we'd go down to the local park, a couple times we went to the local cemetary (morbid, but she was into it :P) Sex out under the stars is pretty fantastic!
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