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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How can I get him to want me the way he used to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I met this lad about 6 months ago, and we automatically clicked. We rushed into a relationship, and although I knew he cared, I wouldn't have sex with him. We ended up giving up on the relationship. A few weeks later, however, we started ...

I feel addicted to sex... How much is too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have sex constantly. Its my wanting to most of the time. But he doesn't want to sometimes because he says we have sex every day. I'm just always in the mood when it comes to him. Am i addicted to sex? I feel like i need it ...

Want to have sex with my boyfriend but worried about how my 'stubble' down there looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - right, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month now and we both have decided we want to have sex. But i'm a virgin and i'm really nervous but i've also told my boyfriend this. The problem is, he keeps asking me if i shave, and i do, ...

Since having kids my wife is never in the mood for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - ever since we had a kid three years ago my wife is never in the mood for sex what can i do...

Mixed feelings after a threesome with my BF

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I know i`m outta my head. For my bf birthday me and my best friend (who knows him well) had talked about a special gift. Still full of fear we planned the three of us and he was having a one off threesome he`d always joked with us about (he never ...

Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle? I'm casually seeing this guy and yes we are sleeping together. He likes to cuddle in bed, especially after sex. When I fall asleep he's holding me and when ...

Things have gone from bad to worse with my abusive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi! i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for three years now. at start, things were going so well but as time pass by it changes. he started hurting me,physically. and it really hurts me to know that he can do that to me. then, i m...

Large labia minora....is this a turn off to men?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Hello This is a little bit embarrassing.... I just wondered if anyone could give me HONEST answers as to what they think as i'm too embarrassed to ask anyone I know. I have large labia minora that hang down a little... i am so paranoid about t...

Everything was going great until we had sex! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - ok i met this guy at work and he was into me and i was too. he was real nice and sweet. until we had sex thats when everything went wrong. he started to treat me bad. until one night he called me when he was drunk. he was telling me he liked me and ...

I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want se...

This is a serious question - How do pimps operate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Hi does anyone know any of the tactics pimps use to groom girls for prostitution - like what kind of mind games they play or if they sometimes operate in gangs or if they would stalk a girl? This is a weird question I know but please only answer i...

He said he knew we would have sex as soon as he met me, is this because I look easy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Met this guy on internet dating. He said he knew when we met that we are going to have sex. Why did he say that? Because I look easy or because he also felt that there is some chemistry? Went for coffee at his place and when I got home someone ...

I slept with my ex, what does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My ex and i have a son together although we are not together, i told him that i needed to have plain sex with him to get him out of my system we split 6 years ago, after alot of no's from him we agreed to meet, in secret away from my now partner. ...

How do I stop feeling bad about when he masturbates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship and the sex is extremely satisfying and frequent for both of us. I definitely have a higher libido than he does, but I can really easily coax a higher libido from him when I want it. We talk ...

Love, sex, the eternal questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: I have consolidated several questions from the same poster as they are all variations on a theme.] Q1: how do you know when a girl loves you and what exactly do you feel when you fall in love with someone? Is it possible to ...

Need some help with roleplaying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 123 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Everytime I roleplay with my boyfriend, I always mess up or kinda lose interest. I feel bad too because he loves to do it with me. How can I stick to the RPing and and have fun with it? ...

What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - My fiance and I had sex three or four times throught the day recently, one of those times (the first) a condom was used, the rest we didn't have any, so one was not used. My question is this: What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum ...

Can I get HIV's if he is positive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i have recently been with a guy who is very promiscuous, we didn't completly have an intercourse because i was drunk and dry so he just got his tip in for a few milimiters and then took it away before we came, what i am worried about is that he ...

Please help! Only 15 and I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Help please I think I might be pregnant and Im only 15. Im on the pill and last month I had sex with my bofriend (didnt use a condom) I was on the pill but about a week ago my period was late then came and when I stopped taking the pill, I started ...

Married but have found a FWB relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I have been married for MANY MANY years. Last year, my husband and I decided to separate, but to stay together as room mates for while due to finances. I found a married man and started an affair with him. My husband decided that he wanted to stay ...