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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

When it comes to sex hes stuck in low gear any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I'm now 6 weeks into a new relationship with a great guy. He's fun and outgoing, and i had my hopes high for the bedroom department. But it turns out that he has a very low sex drive. In my experience of being with a new partner, i was more than ...

How do I get him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - How can i get him to leave his wife for me? im 17 and hes 40 and really need ideas? he sees me whenever he can get away from his wife, and promises to take me shopping, and he calls me princess and beautiful, we have sex alot in his car, he has 2 ch...

Any products or ideas to tighten vaginal walls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 20 years old and I am very experienced when it comes to sex, lately I've been noticing that my vagiana is looser than ususal, usually it doesn't matter how much I have sex and my walls will still be very tight, I don't know what's ...

My wife isnt horny enough for me...Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - My wife isn't horny enough for me. She beautiful and has a great bod for 50. But she's a tom boy. She's not affectionate or feminine. I am just a fat overweight husband that looks at my wife and fantisizes. We are intimate about once every ...

I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel hor...

Are there any medications to improve our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - hi, i got married 2 years before.After my marraige my sexual relationship with my husband is good.but now-a-days, we are not involving in any sex relationship.we both are sleeping separately since from 6 months.if he has that sex feeling also he is ...

My indiscretion caused my gay partner pain, he said he forgave me, but randomly gets angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - we're a gay male couple (18 and 19) and we've been dating nearly 8 months, recently i had a sexual thing with another guy who i'd been friends with for a while, we didn't have sex, we didn't even kiss, we were sleeping in the same bed, i was abso...

He thinks he hurt me during sex but it wasn't his fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - help help how do i address this with my boyfriend,he thinks he hurt me during sex but it was not his fault as i have a hernia and it popped out during sex and i had to stop as it was hurting me. he now thinks he is the cause of it and won't stop ...

How do I tell him to bugger off - nicely?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Hi all...I am stuck in a sticky tangled mess :( I met this guy once last year and talked to him twice or so, but a few months ago he invited me over to his place. We got along really well even though i didn't really know him. We started watching...

Need a few tips on how to give a good hand-job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Okay so today I was with my bf and we were hangin out with his friends and stuff and when they all left we were getting into it and iwe couldn't hav sex cause monthly shit ya know? And so he wanted a hj and I just had my hand on his tummy and he ...

Is it normal for milk to come out of a girl's breast, if it is sucked?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - i have a girl am dating but anytime i suck her breast during love making,milk comes out.please i want to know if it is normal.or what could be the cause? ...

Do breasts get bigger when they are sucked on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've been sexual lately since its summer.. I have 34A breasts and lately it seems like my bras have been "shrinking" and getting tighter.. he likes to suck on my boobs and I heard they get larger when ...

Mom of four virgin sons, how common is this, can parents cause this, can I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have 4 sons ,all of them over 20 years old, 3 moved out from the house,one is living with us. I'm absultley stunned by the fact , that none of them ever had a girlfriend,and they are all virgin,they are also very self distractive on differen...

Does every girl bleed, when she loses her virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - When u lose ur virginity, do u bleed?...

Does first time sex...hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Does sex hurt when you lose your virginity?...

Without oral sex, how does a girl satisfy a boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - How does a female satisfy a male without sex or performing oral sex?...

Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. ...

Is my girlfriend worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - I at the crossroads where I try to decide whether my girlfriend is marriage material. I have issues with her past and I don't know whether I get over it. She used to go to orgies and swingers parties with her ex-boyfriend and have threesomes with ...

I think I was messed with while sleeping

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - i think i was messed with though my sleep.. And i was woundering if your hole down there gets bigger? So you can tell. Mine can like fit a finger tip in. Does that sound like i could have acually been messed with? Or not.? Im confus...

I am having a problem communicating with her, how can I improve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - It's me, again. It's like I can't stop. I just has sex with her, taking into consideration everything you all have said. I made her come twice and then asked her why I can not make her come like I've made every other woman (48) come (internally...