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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Opinions please. Why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a week ago. We're still attracted to each other - obviously and our break up had no real reason/ I think he just felt overly stressed w/ everything his life but neither of us were happy bout the breakup. We've been ...

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...

I'm no longer interested in sex and I'm scared it will ruin our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and we've been living together for almost 2 months. I love him very much, and we get along great. I really believe that he might even be the one I spend the rest of my life with... except for one ...

Should I have sex with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts ...

Help please! Getting mentally and physically ready for sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been going out for a couple months, and we have talked many times on what we both have done in the past. Surprisingly were both still virgins and were both 16, and we both have gone up to oral sex. The thing is like i feel ...

Does he want something more than a booty-call arrangement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've been with a guy for the past 15 months and have recently (for the past 2 months or so) been a bit confused by his behavior. I should also mention that I am moving away in approximately a month, so this might be a factor. We are not in a ...

Does it hurt to get fingered?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?...

She doesn't know I'm gay but feels I'm impotent. Help me solve this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - i am gay but got married to a female. now i am having problem with sex with her as i do get erection, she does not know that am gay but feels that i am impotent. plz solve my problem....

My girlfriend has a past which I find hard to deal with, any help will be great.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over ...

Sexual tension and some insecurity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I'll first give you the basics. I'm 28 and he is 21. We're affectionate and compatible and both a pair of good looking men. We're both hard working and put a lot of work into our house. We appreciate art, music and gardening (growing our own ...

How to get him to initiate sex more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, My bf and I have been living together for 10 months and were going out for 5 months before that. Since Jan he has had limited interest in sex and this only occurs when I initiate. He has given various reasons for this, more recently saying ...

Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...

Is it true that men will have sex with any female who is willing?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it true that men can have sex with any female. If female is willing and approaching them , they never say no. Even if they love their partner, but for sex they everready for any female. Male readers plz answer this question...

My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...

I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x...

What does my lover mean when he says he wants to rape me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My lover keeps telling me he wants to rape me and i'm not sure what he means by this ,why say something like that when we have good sex anyway,does it mean he want's to play act with me and if so and i went along with it what if he lost control and ...

Can you get pregnant once the sperm hit air?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - what if a guy comes onto a female's hand and then she masturbates and the dry semen is in her vagina... can she actually get pregnant?...

I'm worried she'll start being afraid of having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hi i have a big problem last night i had sex with my gf she said she was a virgin, first we did some foreplay when we go to the momment she said it hurt like hell she almost cryed we try it twice, then we watched some tv together, now my question ...

I am very confused by his weird behavior, do you think I am being used? I

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I met a guy at a party and thought he was very interested in me. He made out with me and tried to go farther, but I stopped him as I thought it was inappropriate. I went over to his place the next day to watch a movie, but while we were watching it, ...

I have a lot of pain and burning when we have sex, what could be the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok well iv benn having sex with my boyfriend for a while now atleats 16 times.. and its hurt me everytime its like a burning feeling around my vagina walls i hate it i havnt sed anything to my bf but it hurts SOO SOO bad i get to wear i wana cry... ...

The sex is great, but he has other issues, ADHD, for one, how do I keep his interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I have met this guy who is 38.. (I am 36). He has been engaged several times--most recently, a few months ago. He says that he's 'a pleaser; and that he has 'ADHD.' (Yes, I know...red flags all around. We met a couple of weeks ago and ...

My BF wrote to the aunts about the things awful he's said to me, and now I am destroyed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts, I think my boyfriend wrote a few days ago (I saw something that was similar to what he said to me on his computer) about some things that he's said to me about our sex life (how "f*cking me is like f*cking a doll...I'm only good when I'm ...