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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My FWB has a hard time having an orgasm, any good suggestions that would help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, just so you know I 15 and I'm bi. I have a really good friend who is also bi a d yes he is a friend with benifits. We like to get together and wank and suck each other off but he always takes so long to cum. Sometimes I can't make him ...

Is it possible to infect someone with gonorrhea if you test negative for it, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) - HELP!!! Okay here's the story. I went out with this guy for a little while. We had unprotected sex. Within a month of us having sex he finds out he got gonorrhea. I went to a clinic and got tested. The lady told me my test results were going to come ...

Would there be a chance of my being pregnant from this experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if I could be pregnant? We had sex with a condom, he pulled out with the condom on, took the condom off outside of me, and came on my inner thigh. I wiped it off immediately, but i'm not sure if some sperm could have traveled inside.....

1st time intercourse advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I'd like some advice from gay guys about the best position to receive 1st time intercourse with a man. I've seen dvds and think I'd be best lying on my back with a pillow under my bum and legs well up . My mate promises to be gentle and use...

How do I tell my ex that I have an STD when he wont even talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I found out that i have a std after my boyfriend and me broke up. I don't think i got it from him. I think i caught it from someone before we got together. We've had unprotected sex 3 times. Now were not on talking terms. I wanna tell him bc i know ...

After I told him I didn't want a one-night stand, he's stopped responding to my messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends ...

Am I straight, bi-curious, bi or lesbian? How can I have another lesbian experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Two questions were combined into one, as they are from the same poster with essentially the same question. FIRST QUESTION: Am I straight, bi-curious, bi or lesbian? Full story: When I was younger, about 6), I had these neigh...

Should I have anal with my boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - ok i need help cuz my boyfriend wants to have anal but i dont know if i should. i want to know more stuff about anal before i do it. ive heard that it hurts alot and that their might be remains of poo on the condom when your done. then i also heard ...

First time sex question!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hello peeps, I am 25 this year and is currently seeing a 40-year old woman. She is divorced and has one child. We knew each other about two months ago and really hit it off, hence we are currently at this stage. In her marriage, she had mostl...

How do you know when you have had an orgasm and when you have pleased your man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - i need help on this and fast. well first off i feel real Dumb for asking this but how do you know when youve had an orgasm? and how do you know when you have fully pleased your man? i feel real sumb for asking that but i wanna make sure that what im ...

We have an agreement so my wife can have sex with another man, but now he has started to be abusive to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to ...

Is pre-ejaculate fluid normal in males?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) - i get wet frequently how do i stop pre ejaculation is it normal for males...

When is it ok to sleep with a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - When is it ok to sleep with a guy? first date, second? a month......just when i like a guy i get so sexually frustrated i want sex with them as soon as.......

He cant get an erection when we have sex but he can get it up when watching gay porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My husband can't get an erection when we have sex, and I feel disappointed. I'm not expecting an orgasm or anything like that; I'm only really expecting loving, caring sex. He is a respectful, lovely guy. He seems to be able to get an erection ...

He is a lot 'bigger' than anyone I've slept with before and it really hurts! What do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Here is my problem. I am in a wonderful relationship with a great guy. We have been together a few months and we are both madly in love with each other. We have decided to move our relationship on and sleep together. We have both had ...

Ever since I've been feeling like having sex, I've started to break out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - hi, i'm a 15 year old female and i just wanted to say that my boyfriend is 17, and whenever i am with him, i feel like having sex but i don't because i'm only 15, and ever since i've been feeling like having sex, i've started to break out. i wanted ...

Virgin, tried sex twice and no luck.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - So I'm a virgin. And I've attempted sex twice. Both times we tried with me on top once and missionary once. Both times it just.. Wouldn't go. I know I'm really tight. Masterbating even hurts. I'm a bigger girl and he's a little chubby. Would that ...

Am I a freak for remaining a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - All my friends, guys and girls alike, have participated in sex of some sort. So I can't help but feel like a pariah when they begin to talk about their sexual encounters when they go on about, "Such and such made me a woman/man the other day." I ...

My girlfriend thinks she has a horrible body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - i need help, i have been with my girlfriend for around three years now and she still wont let me see her body, she wont take her top off when we have sex and she wont even get changed around me. i have tryed soo many times to tell her she has a ni...