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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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I don't know who to choose, I like them both very much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - Okay so there's two guys who like me and I like them both very much. Guy #1 I started seeing a month beforehand and we started hooking up. It's not clear it he wants to be boyfriend girlfriend with me because he introduces me as a friend to his ...

Sex and Love- but in what order??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - Ok so here's three general questions opens to guys and gals: What's the sortest length of time you'd feel comfortable with been told that your partner loves you? What is the ideal length of time between starting a new relationship and having se...

We didn't have sex before marriage and now I discover husband isn't creative or that interested!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - Hi All, Please advice. I have been married to my husband for a year and a half now. I love him. Ever since we have been dating and married I am the one who initiates sex or kissing cuddling etc . We never had sex before marriage. Ev...

She knew she had genital warts and didn't tell me. Forgive her? Or boot her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - I am in an hard spot, i have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are in love. We have sex on a daily basis, usually once or twice a day. For the most part i pull out instead of wearing a condom so its unproteted. We agree it feels better so ...

Why do I bleed heavily during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - I am a 39 year old female. I love sex, but sometimes I start to bleed heavily during sex, Why does this happen. It is so embarrassing and I need to know if there is something I can do to stop it from happening? Any advise is appreciated. ...

I want to have sex with my girlfriends step sister without my girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - Ok, first off i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and i am in love with her. One night a while back my girlfriend, her stepsister, and i were at my apartment drinking... Now my girlfriends stepsister is VERY attractive might i ad, ...

Sexual terminology help needed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - Sorry for may be a little odd question. But it is really important to me right now. English is not my first language and I have never dated English-speaking man until now. Everything is going just great and we had sex for the first time yesterday. I ...

I'm afraid I'll regret it if I don't act on this feeling,,,!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - If I don't act on my physical attraction w/my husbands friend how on earth will I get over the overwhelming aching attraction? Should I live my life always wondering what it would have been? I am talking about 1 night not a relationship. And yes he ...

For the Guys: At "that" moment, what do you want us to do?

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26 July 2009 (F - Guys - when you are cumming, do you want the motion to continue or stop? e.g. when a girl is giving you head do you want her to continue while you cum or stop?...

We use condoms but she's missed her period

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (? - My Girlfriend and I are both 15 and have been having sex for the past few months, we have always used a condom. The last time was approximately 2 weeks ago. Her period was due about a week ago and has still not come, i am concerned she may be ...

Does lack of sex kill a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - My friend just told me that her husband had filed for divorce which I am really shocked by as they seemed to get on so well together. When she talked to me about the things that were happening that she didn't like in the relationship, it sounded ...

She's really sending me mixed signals and I'm confused! Any advice on what she's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - OK, so i met this girl a few months back, and I fell for for her very fast. She knew how i felt about her, and for a month and a half or so things were extremely perfect! we never fought, and always enjoyed being around each other. About a month ago ...

I cry when I have sex with my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - I love my husband. He's a good man who looks after me and treats me like a princess. The problem is really odd. We rarely have sex and whenever we do I find myself crying. It's the weirdest thing and I'm scared he'll notice. It doesn't hurt, he ...

Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all ...

He's great except for the sex -- should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years now and living together for just over a year of that time. I feel as though I really care for him but we, like every relationship, have our problems. The biggest problem is that he never wants to ...

My new boyfriend has a very large penis, bigger than my ex. Will it hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - I am sexually active for more than one year with my ex and he is having a small penis (4.5") and very thin. Even he is small, sometime I still felt uncomfortable. My current bf is almost double his size (8.5") and the most scare me is his thickn...

Are there other women out there that are like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - what's your take on this? my girlfriend doesn't like french kissing, giving oral, handjobs or anything else sexually towards me. When we have sex its all up to me. It's ok for me to touch her during foreplay. She just doesnt really get in to it. I ...

I hate always being horny

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

26 July 2009 (M - I am always horny and I hate it because, I must always masturbate to make it go away, I usually masturbate 5-6 times a day. Does any one else find themselves masturbating too many times a day? ...

Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

26 July 2009 (F - Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm? My lover and I have been together for 4 years and previous to this I was married for 15 years and I have never experienced an orgasm during sex but I cum so quickly with my toy. What do you think is ...

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