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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Boyfriend and I want to try different positions, any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I’m tall and my boyfriend is short. Both my boyfriend and I enjoy having sex and are willing to try different positions, other than me on top and missionary! got any suggestions?? ...

My boyfriend tried a new toy with me but neither of us knows what it is called

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, So, I feel kind of awkward and not very smart asking this question, buuut here goes...lol. I had sex with my guy last night, and before we got started, he slipped this little band of rubber around the base of his penis. It was pr...

Question about the chances of getting pregnant from sex immediately after period

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - What are the chances of getting pregnant when you have sex immediately after period? And when does ovulation usually happen?...

I'm never turned on or want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Ok so, me and my boyfriend have been together two 1/2 years. Everything about him fits me like a puzzle piece. The only problem is that...I'm like never turned on. I never want to have sex, and even if we do start fooling around I have to use lube ...

This don't make sense. How is it possible that he contracted chlamydia if we have both been faithful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - i have been in a four year relationship, i have had many pap smear done and been tested for all std's, my man just went to the health department and got tested, and they told him he would have to come back in a couple of days to know the results, ...

How can I control my urges? They're driving me crazy!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 August 2012 (M) - Hi, I am 22 year old virgin male , who has a high sex drive. Is it wrong, all I seem to do is maturbate but it doesn't work. Every time I' am out, can't stop looking at girls, But feel weird because I look at breasts and other areas like Thier bums ...

Tightness of a virgin, truth or myth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 August 2012 (M) - OK, I have often wondered about this. I have never been with a virgin but have always wondered if I am missing out. My wife was VERY inexperienced when we got together. 2 guys a total of 3 times.Not sure she could feel any tighter when we first ...

2 months away from our wedding and revelations about his past have hurt me. Should I still be getting married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - It is two months before my wedding and I my fiance told me he's been with "like 6 other girls" before me. I had thought there were two which was hard enough because I waited for him. We've been having a hard time sexually and I feel angry an ...

B/f and I have been into swinging and I HATE it!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - About 4 - 5 years ago, me and my boyfriend of 6 years decided to finally try swinging after playing around with the idea for a while. I was scared out of my mind that I was actually going to go through with it, but chalked it up to newbie nerves. ...

Plenty of emotional intimacy, but no physical

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - My bf and I are in our early 50s and have been dating for several years. We have hugged but have never held hands or kissed, let alone made love. The first couple of years that we were dating, he had some health issues (including some ...

I had 12 sexual partners in the 4 years prior to my steady relationship. Is that bad? And why did a doctor conclude my relationship wasn't monogamous without asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Yesterday I had my annual, I was expecting to get on the Mirena (birth control IUD that last 5 years) but when the dr came back she said that I couldn't get it because I'm not a good candidate for it, being as its for people who are in monogamous ...

Your opinions on the state of virginity in teenagers today.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - This question is not really a screaming for help, but most likely is just for own purpose, I just want to know other opinions. Since my 'career' in dating started, I woke up and realized that girls, lost their virgins younger than ever. I mean, from ...

I need advice on how to kiss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for a while and I am ready to kiss her. But the thing is I don't know what to do with my lips. I already have the perfect idea for it but I don't know how to do it. How do I do it? Please help me it's going to be ...

I still haven't had my period after changing my method of birth control. Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I recently had my IUD coil removed as I was having trouble with it and the new method I chose was the Mini Pill (POP) which is the Cerazette one. I must stress me and my BF have never had any luck with condoms so we don't use them, hence why it's so ...

Tips on having sexual intercourse? It will be the first time for both of us.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - hi, i'm an 18 year old girl. I was just wondering if you guys could give me any tips and suggestions for my first time having sexual intercourse! It will be both his and mine firt time. Thank you! (:...

Does watching lesbian porn mean I'm bisexual?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Hi I am a 24 year old virgin,I don't believe in sex before marriage,I believe in abstinence..I know some of you may think its crazy but these are my values,luckily the men I have dated understood this about me and never pressured me into sex.. I...

How can I know if a woman is sexually interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - hi all, how can we understand that a woman is sexually interested on a man. as frequent guests we used to touch or sometimes stand closer etc. but I tend to feel that this woman has an attraction on me. but this is an intuition. are there indirect...

Husband thinks swinging can save our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I split up from my husband about three years ago, as he was cold, disinterested in me or our son, and refused to give me any housekeeping. I started a very romantic affair with a guy, got myself a rented house where my son and I were happy. My new ...

Are there any real benefits to casual sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - My first sexual experience was a FWB. I was 13, she was much older and, to my recollection, it was a very awkward, uncomfortable situation. It bothered me a lot and perhaps has made me biased against them. When I go back through my memory, the ...

My friend with benefits seems more withdrawn after sexual dysfunction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I've been seeing/hooking up with this guy for several months. Lately, the last few times we have been together he got off too fast when we had sex and he was embarrassed. Now he seems like he is distancing himself from me. Does he just not like...

How can I act, behave, appear, present and seem as if I am a virgin for the man I love who I am about to marry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - i used to have sex with my two boyfriends in the past but i stopped with all this stuff from last four months as i got engaged to a guy who loves me a lot and treats me like a princess. We are going to get married soon but he doesn't know my past ...

Week after we broke up she was sexually active with a new guy. What does this say about how she cares about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I share a child together, and had plans on becoming married. Later in our relationship I cheated on her by conversing with other females when things weren't going good between us. When we got into an argument and I pushed her and ...

Disastrous attempt at first time sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - Okay me and my gf lost our virginity to each other. We had sex but I dont believe I fully went inside her. She kept jumping. It was my first time so I didn't know what to do. So now im fustrated and believe I did a terrible job. She wouldn't let me ...

I'm worried that my masturbation habits aren't normal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, okay I feel really embarrased but I really want some answers about this. I am 18 and I have been masturbating since I was 11. Over the years I have tried to stop and come to realize that I really only do it when I feel stressed, but it ends up ...

How can we break the habit of having sex so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Okay, so I've been with this guy for a 1.5 years, and we lost our virginities to each other about 4 months into our relationship. We're both Christians, and have often said we need to stop having sex - it can be up to 3 times in one day, and eve...

He can't ejaculate inside me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Okay, I've been with this guy for over a year and have been sexually active from about 4 months in - we were both virgins. Anyway, when we have sex he never finishes inside me, and pulls out - even if we use condoms. He's scared of me getting pr...

I crave dominance, I'm naturally submissive and want to explore the BDSM scene

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for just under a year and a half. I love my boyfriend, and we've been through a lot as a couple - I've suffered from bulimia and self harm, and we've also had to deal with a lot of issues ...

Is he not into sex because he's aware of what is going on around him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hey, silly question. The other day I was having sex with my fiancé and right in the middle of the action he noticed my head was banging against the wall - nothing major, really, I could just feel the wall touching my head... I wasn't hurt or ...

Is he being a typical rat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi I have known this guy for quite a few years I fancied him when I was 18 but he was more into my mate, fast forward 9 years I bumped into him in a club he was like you look great do you want a drink etc, gave him my numb he tried to get me to take ...

Years ago he was my foster Dad. No blood relationship. No legal adoption. Can we now legally have a relationship? I am pregnant to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I grew up in foster care bouncing from home to home and shelter to shelter. When I was 16 I was placed with foster parents that were very close in age 23 and 25. I remained there until I aged out of the system at 18. While living there my fos...

The things he does make me feel unattractive, unsexy and like I'm not good enough. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - About a month ago I was laying naked in bed with my boyfriend and my breasts were exposed and I saw him looking towards that direction. I saw that and started teasing him about staring at them and he told me he was used to seeing my body so it's no ...

My husband and his family do not believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed after our first night together. Why did I not bleed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Hola I am from Mexico . Please forgive my English it is second language to me. I am originally from Mexico but live here in the united states. I am 21 years old and recently got married . I was a virgin when I married . I didn't bleed . My husband ...

Don't want to be in this relationship anymore, but I've lost all my friends and I'm scared to break up with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - I'm starting to feel "off" with my boyfriend and just generally doubting my relationship. This will probably be a pretty long question because I kind of want to get as much detail in what the relationship is like so I can get the best possible ...

How do I avoid becoming pregnant by my husband who won't allow me to use birth control?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - My husband of 6 years won't pull out during sex. We are catholic so he refuses for me to use any birth control. I do not want to get pregnant. Please give me advice...

She's married and we talk about sex, a lot. Are our talks: Just Friendship,a Green Light or just conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 August 2012 (M) - I have a female friend, who was married a few months ago. We spend a lot of time together: grocery shopping, errands, etc. When we are talking about other women in my life, she seems to get jealous and threatening(verbally) toward them. She has ...

How should or can I tell my husband I want to try swinging, without him doubting my assertion that I am satisfied with him sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Over the last few years my sex drive has increased and I've been a bit more wilder in the bedroom with my husband. We have done some role playing, taken a few photos, and a video. I know my husband dose not mind at all but there are some nights I...

I'm having sex with one of my brother's best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - Recently, I started a sexual relationship with this woman...We've only had sex a handful of times, but I may have grown attached already...We talk all the time, even after we've had a night of passion haha... We have a slight problem though.....

I cheated on all of these men, why are they still calling me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I have had serveral men in my life once a point a time that I use to deal financely,sexually,mentally the whole nine yards.now these guys have saw each other but they don't know each other like that and the first guy caught me with the second guy ...

Do women enjoy small penis, or miss the big ones?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - My wife and I had a two month break a few years ago before we got married. During this time she hooked up with another dude. I always assumed he may have been bigger than me or better in bed. Well I overheard my wife tell someone " I've only had ...

Married one year. He disgusts me and he will not sleep with me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - My husband and I just passed our 1 year anniversary ... However he disgusts me. I can't stand to be around him, he won't even sleep with me.. So I resent him for that. He won't take showers for days, doesn't even change his underwear, won't brus...

I found my mother in bed with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I feel desperate and I really need someone's help. It happened yesterday, I came back from a holiday with my dad (mom and dad are separated). We returned a little earlier than we were going to and I found out my mother was sleeping with my...

Us plus sex equals not working. Hes down I'm frusterated please help!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Please help, i have just had unsatisfying sex again with my fiancee. Normally our sex life is good, but lately i havent been able to orgasm at all. I can really only achieve one by masturbating or in other words clitoral stimulation. My fiancee ...

I'm 26 married and still we can't have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - i am a 26 yr old girl.got married one yr back..but ever since i have not been able to have penetrable sex ..he is able to enter only a inch of his penis inside me..ive tried all lubricants but nothing has helped..its very frustrating ...

I don't want to have sex yet so was it wrong of me to go that far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Ok so I'm 16 and my bf and I have been dating for almost a year and today my friends had a back to school party, every1 there basically was all over their bf's and stuff but me and my bf aren't like that sobwe just did small cuddling and stuff. ...

How do I get better at riding a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I am 19 years old and have only had two partners (one when I was very young) and another recently so not that experienced. He is now my ex but still curious as to how i can get better at riding. Everything else during the sex was good the mental ...

Booty is one thing. But were this man's actions disrespectful and selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I met a guy who I slept with the first night. I regreted it the next day and didn't think I'd hear from him again. He works 2 weeks on 1 week off and has been texting me, asking me how I am etc and whether I wanted to catch up when he came back. W...

Indian society is very harsh on babies born out of wedlock but the man wants nothing to do with me. What do I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am basically Indian, working in US. Had an affair with a guy, I was in love with him, obviously he just used me for sex and money. Now I am pregnant, he didn't use condom, since Indian guys hate condom. They never use one, I took morn...

I watched my ex friend with benefits beat his wife! Why would he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I found myself in a situation I never been in a few days ago. Someone I had a fwb relationship for a few months and I stopped it last month came to my house. We remain friends still but I know that this maybe an issue now. He showed up at my house ...

He performed oral on me and then we broke up. What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - He kept telling me how much he wanted me in his life and wants to tell his children and siblings about me but only told siblings and they wasnt happy about it {or he's white and Im black} but he said he didnt care how they feel he cares about me. I ...

Inappropriate txt from friends wife to my husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - i just found out from my husband that she said ask your wife how she We have married friends that hang out with us. They have kids the same ages as ours. The wife is 12 years younger then me. She texted my husband a inappropriate message that my ...