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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why oh why did this happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my ...

How do I get this guy's respect after sleeping with him straight away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1853 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Right, well i slept with this guy that i like, and have done for a while, were not in any sort of relationship though, me sleeping with him probably wasn't the best thing to do. How do i get this guy's respect after this? I'm hoping to b...

2 beers and he couldn't get an erection! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (?) - My bf is ALWAYS horny and we have an active sex life, I love it. We don't drink much actually but tonight we each had 2 beers. He wasn't horny at all! for the first time since I know him (I've known him for 2 years) he couldn't get an erection! I ...

Why won't my girlfriend touch me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want ...

How can I unleash her libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the ...

I lost my virginity to a guy I'm not in a relationship with...how do I act with him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I guess you could say what i did the other night was pretty stupid. I lost my virginity to a guy im not in a relationship with, he claims he really likes me, and we have had abit of a thing goin on for a bit of time now. However, im realising it ...

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the...

I'm finding it hard to let myself go sexually...I am so shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice as I feel I am not normal, I have never felt attracted to anyone until now, I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for a long time and he has said he loves me and I love him in every way, he knows everythng about me ...

Secret fantasy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I have been married for about 18 years, and recently have this fantasy of my wife being with other men, I get horny if i think of it. However, I am afraid to ask my wife about it. We love each other and have good sex. Am I crazy???...

I need advice about sex...How to be safe, and satisfying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i want to make a safe sex with my girl friend. We are realy sincere with each other therefore we want to make sexual relation between us. . ! Please give me tips by which we make our sex long at night and i don't want her pregnant. Help me s0on. . ! ...

Blowjobs...What's my problem and what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Ok, so I have been married for over 13 years, and have only gotten off by a blowjob once in my life and it wasn't my wife. I love when my wife goes down on me, it's truly amazing to watch her as she engulfs me, but for some reason I just can't cum. ...

Erection issues...need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - hey friends,, I am a 19 yrs old guy, well virgin guy, and I'm facing lot of problems these days. Firstly, i keep getting an erection all day, also at night, its so much more than normal, i believe. whenever i see a hot girl or without any ...

I secretly masturbate but don't like doing this ...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been living with My Girlfriend a while now but I secretly masturbate a lot. No one knows about this, I have porn magazines hidden behind the panelling on the bath in the bathroom and I masturbate to them sometimes. I also masturba...

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

Can anyone answer my questions about what to expect...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - hello, im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt and we want 2 have sex with each other its just that im scared and he doesnt pressure me in2 it he says he can wait! Well he suggested fingering me 1st and i was just wondering since im a virgin will it ...

Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I ...

He doesn't know how much our sex life is bothering me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over a year. We only have sex about once a week, sometimes not even that, or twice a week at a push. I want to have sex a little more often (twice a week every week would be great), but my ...

Just how much does sex hurt...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. ...

Sex should feel good at some point right...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Here is my story... Well, I lost my virginity fairly late compared to others that I know. I was 20. Before that, I never was so into the idea of sex or felt that I needed it. I know this may be a taboo topic but if I wanted to pleasure myself,...

SICK of oral...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come ...

Do guys like toys too???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!...

He said he needs sex to feel commitment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I asked a question awhile ago and the answers I got were not the ones I was looking for, so I am going to add more detail and ask the question a little different. I have known my boyfriend for 2 years, We have been dating now for 7 months. His o...

My boyfriend seems to "Move" to fast! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - MOD Notes: OP's own title: Well I just turned 14 a few days ago. My boyfriend is 15 and he will be 16 in december. He comes over to my house a lot. We usual hang out in my room. My room is in the basement. I usual have family members walking down ...

How long am I meant to last during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Hai, I am 24M. I had sex when i was 21 and it did not lasted for more than 10mins and my gf broke up with me as she wanted to go long. since then i gave up untill a week bak i met this woman who was 35 and we met and very soon got so comfotable that ...

My boyfriend needs to hide from me because I'm always jumping on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend needs to hide from me- I'm always at him! lol He obliges me when I do want to um...toss the sheets or whatever :p but then, right after, I feel like jumping him again and have to hold myself back. In the car, I'm always kissing his neck ...

I wonder why he's not interested after having sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was really confused , I meet a guy in dating site its kinda adulthsite for casual sex. This guy is interested to get to know me persona, we share a lot of things through chatting ,I know his past relation were share things over the internet and ...

New guy claims to have gotten an STD from me and its ruined our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am trying right now to get over the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my romantic life. About a month ago I met this guy at a club and we really hit it off and have been living a real intense, romantic life for the last month. He ...

He wants to have sex but I can't relax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he wants have sex but I can't relax and he puts on slow music and gives me a massage but my heart keeps racing just when he does this and he kisses me on my neck and I just can't take it so what should I do....

Does it mean he wants only sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - If a guy says he wants to lie you down and strip you, does that mean he wants sex, and does it mean he wants only sex ?...

How can I increase her sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hi,i'm sad and need your help.My GF is a guru whan it comes to blow jobs.Due to the sexual healing i receive from her,i named her my sex machine. she knows lot of sexy things to do and does them at the right time.She knows were to touch, whan to ...

I'm 23, do I need viagra?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Well its been about a month since my boyfriend and I broke up. The thing is that I can't seem to get erect during sex like I used to. I feel awkward and it feels really different. I am versatile so I can top or bottom. I have done both but I ...

Is he only interested in having a sex buddy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi i really need a second opinion on this! I've met this guy thru a cousin of mine they work together. He's a really nice guy, clever and funny and we get on great for most part!at first i wasn't sure about him beacause he's not really my type b...

Her fantasies turn me off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - My wife and I have had some very serious problems for the past couple of years and have been going to a therapist. I want to be cooperative, but I admit also to wanting to learn more about my wife's clandestine behavior that led I believed to our ...

He says he can't love before sex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...

I want my wife to hookup with a guy at a bar!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Do any of you have the fantasy of watching your wife or girlfriend get picked up in a bar by another man, and then watching them do stuff short, but close to, sex? Have any of you indulged this fantasy? For some reason the thought of this ...

I feel I just can't say no...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories ...

Never had an orgasm at 22....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I previously posted a question regarding lack of sex drive with my amazing partner and how its been really getting me down. A few people have suggested it may be due to never having had an orgasm. Not even with previous partners. Does anyone have ...

I have met the man of my dreams but I have gone off sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am a 22 female and finally met the man of my dreams. When I see him I think how gorgeous he is, he treats me like an absolute princess, hes kind to me, caring, helpful, thoughtful...basically as if sent from heaven. BUT...I have COMPLETELY lost my ...

My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I ...

How can I win my husband back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, ...

What's so good about big penises?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

Does the placebo pill you take during your period still protect you from pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I feel like this is a bit of a silly question that i probably should know the answer to but anyway.. I have been on the pill for about 3 years and use it as the only form of contraception. Sexually active throughout this whole time (with the s...

When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...

When I lose my virginity to my boyfriend I don't just want to lay there and not know what to do! Can anyone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a while and we havent had sex he knows im a virgin but he doesnt rush anything because he is a gentlemen and he's not a virgin. but when we do have sex i want him 2 have a lot of pleasure and i dont just wan...

I'm very insecure about my penis size.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?...

Enjyong sex but not squirting like rest of girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots...

I have warts, and can't touch myself, how can I release sexual tension?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Why am I so horny ALL the time? Is there any way to release my sexual tension without sex or masturbation(I have warts on my fingers so I don't like it)...