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Sex: Help and advice

Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....

Starving for more in our sex life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My husband and I got married this last october. I love him more than anything but I knew from the begining that we weren't sexually compatable. This is a problem we've been dealing with for over a year. We've talked many times about what we can do ...

Have I given her the message that I'm only looking for something casual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Hey guys, could do with some advice here. Main question - do you think if you sleep with a girl on 2nd date that means you give the impression you're not that interested in a relationship/serious thing, but moreso a casual thing? I met this gir...

I am gutted that he's only looking forward to seeing me because he thought he was going to get his leg over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hello all, well i'm 36 and after a crappy divorce am back with my parents, had one disappointing boyfriend since but have been single for a good while and would like to meet someone now.. well i have and we went for a drink last night, hes 31 and a ...

My fiance wont have sex with me, so how do I reduce my sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I am a 20 year old male and im posting this because i simply do not know what to do with m y fiance. her sex drive is low and mine is pretty high. We have been together for 2 years so far.We started having sex pretty early in the relationship and ...

I don't want sex anymore because we are not trying for a baby and I simply don't feel like it anymore, so should I end the relationship because this is not fair on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I met each other having both come out of long term relationships 3 years ago, him a marriage with 2 kids and me long term partner no children. We are both 40 years old now. We discussed having children about 1 year into the ...

Does my boyfriend see me as a respectable girl after I give blowjobs?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - one time, a close friend of mine and i were discussing sex. i asked him if he was interested in a blowjob and he said if it were coming from a girl he didn't respect, then yes, he would want a bj but if it was from someone he cared about, then ...

Any advice on how to text dirty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - i guess i am having a small problem of texting my boyfriend. when we want to play and flirt on the phone he is really good at sexting and sending dirty texts, but im soo bland and i dont know how to keep the fun up? can anyone give me some adv...

So much love-So little sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I been married for 13 years. Both 41, with no children. I do ALL the things every wife wishes for: Flowers, many vacations,, cook dinner, weekend get aways, cards, notes, gifts, hugs, kisses (but told don't get myself excited). In return, I get ...

How do I bring up my bondage fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I have a soft bondage fetish, nothing extreme. I have read around on the subject of bringing it up and I realise that I have to start with fuzzy handcuffs etc. until she's ready. However, how should I bring up the conversation? I have been with m...

I really want to change my promiscuous ways! Please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I was a very promiscuous girl, from 18-24. I would sleep withguys (oral sex mostly) without knowing them that well, it was REALLY easy to get me in bed. I couldn't form lasting relationships b/c of this. I didn't want to be with a guy i slept ...

He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning ...

What can I do to make sex happen more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I've been dating my gf for 6 months and for the first 3 months we had sex every day sometimes twice or three times. But the last few months we have been having sec less and less and I don't low why, it doesn't bother me if we don't have sex so often ...

I can't get over her past. it's too extreme for me to handle. But I love her so much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been having some difficulties in my relationship with my girlfriend. I've been seeing a therapist, looking up similar stories, and reading books to understand her. The issue is all about her past, and it stresses me out t...

Psychic says do not have sex in the next 2months. What will you do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - A psychic told me not to have sex with my man until April. Hmm my man is a scorpio and I know how much he loves sex. How can I pull this off. SO far its been working because we are in a LDR and just ended a fight that lasted with a month of silence ...

Do men like females who are very experimental sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Do men like females who are very experimental sexually? For example, my boyfriend and I went shopping and bought a huge jar of pickles. I said that he should f*** me with one of them. (I'm not always quite so strange, I was 1/2 joking, 1/2 serious, ...

Didn't want to be lead on -- was this the right way to do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I met this guy not too long ago. He kept trying to talk to me and i kept blowing him off cuz I was busy. Finally he got my attention and we talked and exchanged numbers. we texted a lot and went out a few days later and had an AMAZING time. We ...

My gf and I don't want to have sex anymore, is time to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - we been together for just over 2 years now, at the start was good and we have sex all the time, after 6 months she moves into my place and the sex goes down hill right away. in the past year we hardly ever have sex, from once a week down to now once ...

How can I help my boyfriend get over my past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about 3 months who I am completely in love with. Everything was going great until about a week ago. He found out that I had slept with a guy in his group of friends around 7 years ago. He had always told me he has ...

I didn't enjoy seeing my wife kiss another woman. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I'm a guy. I've been married for 2 years. Tonight my wife was out at a friends. I know she's dabbled in lesbian sex, and I'm ok with the idea, or thought I was. Tonight her friend was with kissed her while I watched. (I was at home we were on cam) ...

Is it to be expected that I would be insulted by his disbelief in me? How can I also suggest new things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, we're not official but things are getting more serious between us as time goes on... He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, I've given him a handjob and a blowjob. Now I've ...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

Should I leave him to find an attentive man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - frist i want to say i love my boyfriend we've been togther for 4 years now. but things are getting wierd . like sex between us is almost nonextint and if we do all he wants is for me to go down on him . and if i dont drop every little thing im doing ...

Should I ask him why he is ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - We had a fling, we're friends (or at least I thought we were) and recently he stopped texting me, if I ever try to contact him he never replies after the second text. The last time I saw him he seemed a bit weird and I didn't know why. The time we ...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

I am worried it is over.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). ...

Being told you're beautiful during sex, does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Just want to get an idea what the general consensus is on telling someone they're beautiful during sex. If during the early stages of seeing someone, they say you're beautiful, can this still be quite a casual statement, or do you think it's a ...

G/f says she has an orgasm, but how do I know if she's just saying that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend don't have sex yet but do fondle and try to give each other orgasms. I dont have a problem with mine, but do get confused about her. She does like me touching and massaging her down there but doesnt let me do it continously. She ...

If he wants sex he has no chance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS...

I'm too self conscious to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I havent had sex with my boyfriend yet but i'm worried about making a lot of noise during sex,like moaning and screaming and shouting lol.I'm also self conscious about my body.I really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to stop feeling ...

Would you believe a guy who had a one night stand but said he wanted a relationship with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - How come men have one night stands with some women, and decide to have relationships with other women?. What makes the women that they have relationships with different to the ones that they have one night stands with?. I don't understand it. Also, ...

Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...

Is it weird to get turned-on by things you're actually disgusted by?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I have a question, and I could really use some thoughts on it. Is it normal to be turned on by things you don't like? Like you get physically aroused, but mentally you don't like it. Heres an example, say you don't like porn, you think it's ...

Am I not attractive enough for him? Or is it just that he respects me a lot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I have always had high sex drive and that kind of makes me feel weird about myself. My bf has a seemingly low one cause he doesnt not ask me for anything physical. Normally I would be the one taking the initiative to cuddle with him. Recently, I ...

I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of ...

Confidence plummeted since having a baby, does it ever get better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I gave birth to my lovely son 10 months ago. Problem is, ever since I found out I was pregnant, my confidence and self esteem has plummeted, and it's got worse since I gave birth. I'm only a bit heavier than what I was Pre Pregnancy, and I've ...

I've never had an orgasm. I'm afraid I'll have to pee if I have one!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I have never had an orgasm, I am sure of that. But from what I've read, I've been close many times. I always either stop myself (if masturbating) or my partner when I start feeling like I need to urinate because the feeling is too intense- it's not ...

There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...

Can sex make your boobs smaller?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I just began to obsessed with my boobs lately, I want it bigger, I see a skinny person with big boobs and mine is just too small, when I was going through puberty I think it was so big and I hated it. I always think it is always getting on my wa...

Wife and I haven't had sex in a year, she says go somewhere else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - My wife and I have not had sex in almost a year now and I do not know what's wrong. I try to talk to her about it but can't get any straight answers. She says she still loves me but that I should go find someone else who will not only love me but ...

Is it taking advantage of a girl if you sleep with her because she's "easy"?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - So I know this girl who is really beautiful. Not only is she gorgeous but she's also "easy". You know what I mean by easy, right? She lets a lot of mates have their way with her. I mean, maybe she likes it too. If someone will get her a gift or buy ...

Are there any health risks in swallowing cum?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - dear cupid, are there any health risks involved with swallowing cum? please don't mention std's, because i already know that they're a risk factor, buuut i also know for a fact that the guys i've given oral sex to don't have anything. soo, o...

Pregnancy risks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - dear cupid, if you have anal sex and the guy cums in you, is it possible for any of his sperm to come in contact with your vagina (like, if it happens to run back out of your anus) and get you pregnant?...

Feeling awkward when I get intimate with my boyfriend, how do I get over this and get the passion back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hey, I need some advice on how to get over feeling awkward when I get physically intimate with my bf, please. We've been togther 16 months and are now talking about moving in with each other. At first, our sex life was amazing....lots of lust! ...

Is this a problem? Or is it normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - so i've been reading alot of questions on here, and have only just realised i have a problem of my own. i am sexually active(safely), and everytime i have sex, if we are in missionary position or i'm on top, it feels good don't get me wrong, i...

What can delay a period other than pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I read on the internet that you can miss periods for a few months after stopping the pill, and I was just wondering how accurate that is? I stopped taking the pill around the 10th of December, and had a period (or withdrawl bleed). I then got anot...

Premature ejaculation.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - What can I do to prevent quick ejaculation?...

Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...

I gave him oral sex on the 4th date and now he has stopped contacting me, are my fears of him never contacting me again correct?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I know that getting physical too soon especially if you are just dating and the guy is not your boyfriend is not the best way to go. However, I have been on 4 dates with this guy and on the fourth date gave him oral sex. I said some stuff that may ...

He can handle longer sessions.....so what am I doing wrong when he finishes quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Not really sure how to ask this.... sometimes my boyfriend will cum two or three times in a row and we can usually go at it for like an hour. othertimes it only last like 10 minutes. am i doing something wrong when its only 10 minutes? his body can...