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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why isn't he interested in phone sex any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My bf is now thoroughly disinterested in phone sex and instead makes it into a joke. He used to love it. What's changed? I'm worried. ...

How do you know if they felt the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love opinions from guys and girls about this: when you kiss someone, and it makes your stomach do flips, makes you feel on top of the world, how do you tell if it's having the same effect on them? When I kiss my new bf, that is exactly how ...

I've lost my sexual self

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I a 48 years old male. I have been married for 25 years. But my marriage is in crises,because I lost my sexual self. I m really ashamed,but I dont know what to do. I lose my erections right when I enter,also I have zero sexual desire. I went to ...

Lost my erection, and she's not happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} 1.) ok, so this is the thing: sometimes when alone with my girlfriend i'm not getting an erection!!I do in the beginning when we start kissing each others lips and neck,but when we get nake...

Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Are you ready for a nontraditional question? Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprise...

Whats wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - my husband n I have been together for 13years married 8 an I feel he don't care for me any more. We don't talk, we have sex maybe 3xs a month, an I caught him looking up a girl on the internet that we work with that he was accused of sleepn with. He ...

One night stand with my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine. Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen. I really don't know what to do?...

I want to remove myself from these one night stands and just be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Help me out with this...I know I've screwed up, don't know what to do to fix this. I met a man about 8 months ago, it was only intended to be a one night stand on both our parts. And we never saw each other again for 5 months, then for whateve...

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

Wife's sexual habits have changed, does this mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My wife has always been very conservative in the bed, but lately she has done dirtier things in the bed and I don't know where she gets the ideas from. She deepthroats, she spits on my tool when going down, she asked for a facial the other night, ...

Anal skin tag

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so this is embarrassing.... I have a skin tag on my anus (im a girl btw) Its just a loose piece of skin, nothing else. Woukd this bother or freak them out? I know the whole 'if he likes me it wont matter' bla bla bla etc, but seriously, ...

He says we are not compatible sexually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - How important is sex in a relationship. My boyfriend of 3 years says he loves me but that he thinks we are not compatible sexually and that sex is really important to him. I like that he may end the relationship because of it. Im not sure what I ...

Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...

Something just doesn't feel right about our sex life! Is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My husband is a great guy. He is very Affectionate but.. I wonder sometimes If he could be gay, he is overly concerned With his looks and cleanliness, hates To get dirty. When we have sex, he only Wants to orgasm when he enters me from Behind...

Sex is very uncomfortable or my girlfriend and that is the last thing I want for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months now. We've had sex a few times but it is very unsatisfactory. We were both virgins going into the relationship, so it's not like we're unhappy at each other, it's just frustrating. The ...

Boyfriend is just TOO big!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (?) - Ok. So i'm new to this whole thing. But - i have a problem and i'm hoping theres some people out there that are going through the same thing. So my new boyfriend and i started sleeping together last week. He's Black. and he is HUGE. I sometime...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

Too much talk of sex ruining relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - NOTE: Self Titled by asker. I'm in a relationship for about a year with an amazing girl that I have so much in common with. We are beginning to make wedding plans, but I don't feel totally ready for a few reasons. First, I am still getting ...

I feel he is not making the effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...

Blow jobs?? how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - how do you give ''head'' or blow jobs?? i mean i have had sex and stuff i have never given head before though?! help mee out please!!...

Have I Orgasmed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I don't know if i've had an orgasm. I've had a few boyfs and we've had sex, and there's been a massive build up, he's been down on me or whatever, and it's like build up build up build up and then it's like a little explosion but only 'downstairs...

He wants me to talk during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend often asks me to tell him naughty stories when we're having sex. Is the fact we're having sex not good enough for him? I don't require him to speak. Plus I find it really hard. I just want to enjoy it not have to speak and think. ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

How can you nicely tell someone they are unattractive naked and a lousy lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am now engaged in a sex-free relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we probably have sex about once a month. We are both in our twenties. The thing is, I am not attracted to him anymore. I feel superficial because it has t...

Would this work in preventing pregnancy in the same way Plan B would?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I had sex and it turns out that right when he had an orgasm and was finished, the condom broke. I ran straight to the bathroom and cleaned myself off and made sure that I got most of it out, but I feel like I should ...

I think my very conservative mother found my vibrator!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I used to live with my extremely conservative mother, but last year I decided to move to my mother's empty loft. She agreed because the alternative was to live farther to where she lives and we like spending time together every other da...

He only talks about sex, does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi. There's a guy whom i met 2 months bk. Hez been askn me out since nd i rejected him several times bt he has not given up. I acpted him 2 wiks bak nd we had sex 3 time nd lately, what he talks about is only sex. Does he luv me?...

I'm attracted to men, but don't want to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I really hope i dont offend any one so I appologies if I do. I am 38 years old and always had some sexual attraction to men. Its always been just sexual never wanted to date anyone that is. I dont want to be gay and in my family life it would not be ...

Can you get an STD from oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay so i am 16 and i am quite grown up for my age like i go clubbin i drink i am freinds with older peaple and i have done drugs like twice! I lie an awfull lot to my mum i do it basically everyday and i know it is really bad but something ha...

Can't climax with my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my husband has an average penis, he's a 61/2 and i'm 71/2-8 length. is that the reason i can't climax? we tried oral stimulation and it doesn't help. he's often asked me for threesonmes and we have in the past but not the right sizes. i'm tired and ...

My boyfriend claims he loves me and can't live without me, so why does he behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so this is my first time doing this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We have had our ups and downs like any normal couple. Over the last 2 years I have noticed a huge decline in his yearning for me. And with each passing ...

My mother's promiscuity is influencing my life and my sisters' lives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I live with my mother and younger sisters who are sixteen and fourteen. My parents divorced when we were young but I am the only one who remembers a time where dad lived with us. My mom is truly promiscious that it borderlines prostitution. Sh...

Is she being honest with me? Did she really sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I was away out of the Provence working for a few months and my wife cheated on me. She says she's sorry and it will never happen again. I found out because a friend called me at 330 in the morning and said my wife was seeing this other guy. She ...

Why does he lose his erection by changing positions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My man can only last longer during sex if I am on top of him, or if we have sex laying on our sides. Most of the times when he decides to roll over on top of me, he loses his erection. Do anyone know why does he lose his erection from simply ...

Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?Do I want too much? I mean ,it is not ,that I can;t live without sex, but not to know, why your husband doesn't touch you ,or want to have sex with...

I want my "old" husband back, not this new greedy selfish man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (?) - Hello everyone. I've been married for about 15 months now. Before I got married, my husband and I had made the decision to wait until we were married to have sex because we wanted our 1st time to be special. Even while we were dating, he was a very ...

Sexual tips regarding a large penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi, need some advice from guys and girls, please. Slept with my new bf for the first time last night and OMG his penis is huge! I have never been with a man with such a large penis before. Not only that, he had so much stamina (was erect for ...

I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying...

Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will ...

Still bleeding after 1st time sex 8 days ago. Is something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid This is really embarrasing, basically i had sex with this guy who had a very large penis and it did hurt as it was my first time, but you see i have been bleeding for longer then 8 days i think. I thought it was my period that star...

Every time I try to get close to him he pushes me away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years.. We had a baby boy together who is now a year old. I have gained some weight due to pregnancy and I'm fighting to get it off. When I was about 6 months pregnant, he said he didn't want to ...

Can masturbation break your hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i am 16. i want some tips about how to masturbate to make it more fun. i also wants to know if masturbating has risk of breaking the hymen?? am a virgin...

Loosing verginity from fingering before sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ok so i had sex today but my bf has fingered me with 3 fingers before and that made me bleed. before i had sex for the first time today he fingered me with 4 fingers. it was weird that he could fit that much... so is there something wrong with me?...

Questions about sex and boys.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Does it hurt when a girl has sex for the first time? And are boys attracted to girls with big butts or unattracted?...

We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers ...

When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...

When we were together he seemed interested.. but now is not making an effort to talk to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I met a guy at a college party and he ended up giving me a ride home.. turns out we lived really close so he invited me to his place before taking me home and we ended up watching a movie. He slowly did the whole putting his arm around me and was ...

I am tempted to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - First of all this is a gay relationship, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and we are living with eachother, I am currently going to college and he is working. I love him with all my heart! We make eachother laugh about anything...

How can I get my boyfriend to come onto me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - how do i get my boyfriend to come on to me? its been 3 weeks since he has even tried to have sex with me and when i try he shoves me away and makes up excuses all the time when i bring it up! so what do i do?...

6 months into the relationship and he has stopped giving me good sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm a 31yr old woman, with a extremely high sex drive. I'm with an older guy, well 7 month older....6 months into the relationship he is no longer getting morning wood....he thinks this is a problem. So this means no sex for me. He is not even ...