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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I am in a long term relationship but having lustful thoughts of another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3701 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 years. I've been happy but over the last year I have started to have lustful feelings towards a male friend. I wouldn't want to date him and I would NEVER cheat. But what does this mean? Does it mean that I don't love my ...

My fab new BF ticks all my boxes but won't give oral

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - Dear all Please advise. I ve been dating this fabulous guy for around a monthnow. He is kind, intelligent, reliable, handsome and has loads of otger great qualities. We get on very well and I could not ask for more except he doesn' t do oral whi...

Should I back off and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - About a month and a half ago, I was at a local bar with my best friend and his younger sister and her friend. One of their guy friends came over to the table. I will call him Michael. I had seen him around before and thought he was good looking but ...

Why do women lose interest in sex after being in a relationship for a while?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Why do women lose interest in sex after being in a relationship for a while? Maybe this Isn't the case with all women, but it seems to be like a continuously notorious pattern in my relationships. Women lose interest in sex but I still want it....

He's so special to me, but I wonder if I'm just one more of the countless girls for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I'm having a hard time coming to terms with my boyfriend's past. In the beginning, I knew he had been somewhat promiscuous but I didn't know to what extent. I have never been promiscuous myself, although I have had no strings attached sex, only a ...

First one night stand has me wondering why boys are like this!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - On Friday I had my first ever one night stabd! But I really havebt taken it well I didn't know the guy I had met him that night And had spent most of the night with him we had got to talking and he took me back to his. Obviously everything happened ...

I'm struggling with accepting his use of porn, it breaks my heart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - So I have always struggled with accepting porn behind my back from my husband. I have come a long way and have come to terms that it is normal. I also have found that the less I stress about it, the better off I am. That I should be thankful that ...

Why was my boyfriend more experimental with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I know from little conversations we've had here and there that my boyfriend had much more experimental sex with his ex. Questions like: have you done this or that before? To which he might say yes.. We have a great sex life anyway, he tells me I'm ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

Now then ...what about sexual fantasies in committed relationships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - Hello, I have a strict question about sexuality/fantasies in relationships. First off, I have come to a point with my girlfriend where I'm pretty certain everything can be put in the open if asked correctly, that is, it works generally with...

How can I tell if he is addicted to porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Ok aunts ... Please help... Is there any way for a woman to know before she gets too deeply involved with a guy whether he has a porn addiction? It is clear that he uses porn regularly but I have come out of a marriage where my husband was very ver...

What is left to do safely without getting HPV?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am a a 31 year old female recently divorced and now dating again. Recently I got out of an almost year long relationship with a man, and I now test positive for HPV after my Pap Smear. Here is the situation: We did everything right, we both ...

Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....

I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could n...

Some questions about sex and oral contraceptives.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

22 February 2014 (M) - So recently my girlfriend and i have started using oral contraception in place of condoms after getting checked out, we were loving it and i cumed first, as men usually do and because of a lack of condom it was inside her. After 10 minutes or so we ...

It feels like I am no longer good enough for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hello Dear cupid ladies and Gentlemen. I'm in a very confusing situation with my boyfriend of a year. For starters our relationship is going straight to the ground. Since January we've been fighting a lot every single day! And he's been acti...

Big Girl with Low Self Esteem. And I just lost my virginity to my married friend. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I’m sort of a big girl who has always had a very low self-esteem because of my size. As a matter of fact, up until a week ago I was still a virgin at 26 thanks to my insecurities. I’ve been best friends with a guy since high school that I’ve alw...

My thirteen year old caught my husband and I having sex. How do I repair the relationship with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - so every friday, my susband has a day off. we thought to make it special on valentines day, and ended up having sex. we didn't hear the key turn in the door because the next thing i know, my thirteen yearold daughter's standing in the doorway ...

Worried that I'm not meeting expectations and worried about having sex again. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I am so worried that I don't enjoy sex because I'm too worried thinking about whether I'm living up to expectations or being good in bed. I'm 21 and not a virgin but had very little sexual experience all with guys who used me and at the time me b...

Does having anal sex make me no longer a virgin?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I pledged not to lose my virginity until marrige but it has been hard with my kind of personality seeing naked guys and me getting wet. All the thoughts about having sex. I have a guy in my house currently and he has been here for over a week. At ...

After a year this is what our sex life has become?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We used to have sex alot! But this month we've only had sex once he's 21 and im 20. The last time two times we've started having sex he just stops and says he's to tired, or his legs or whatever is ...

I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive - help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - We have been dating for about 5 months but we were good friends first. I really do believe he loves me and he tells me I'm pretty all the time but I just don't believe him when he say that. I feel like he says it just to make me happy, but he ...

How do I break off this affair with an engaged colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello, 6 months ago I fell deeply for a man who is 16 years older than me who works in the same building and department as me. He began speaking to me online while I was on holiday from work and we got close chatting and joking and staying up a...

Should I have moved in on her that night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - So I started talking to this girl like a month ago. We only started hanging out because there was a party and she wanted to go, ever since then she barely texts me or wants to hang out, we both just text each other when we know there's a party. ...

My fiancée is having a stroppy moment over something seemingly small, why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Hi aunts n uncles, I have been with my fiancée for three years now, shes 23 im 26. The other night I told her that I was going to Bath in Somerset to maintain some equipment for a few nights and I said that I would like to be in my own bed when ...

Drunken mistake with a colleague. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi...in my place of work there is this guy I work with who I talk to almost al the time at work but now this Friday me and my collegues went out for a drink and we really got wasted that I don't remember most of the things about later that night.. Bu...

Why is this position we use still causing me problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have regular sex, we like to try different positions but our favourite is usually cowgirl where I am on top of him. When we first tried this position I had never done it I wasn't any good and he was doing most of the work. I thou...

My boyfriend won't have sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We are both 22.We used to have a great sex life but over the last 6 months, he doesnt want sex with me. I'd say this has happened gradually, before I had hope but now I know it's useless. He says ...

Partner says he wants to be with me forever but has "itches that need scratching" with other women.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years. We met at uni. It's a long distance relationship but we are planning in moving in together this year. We are both each other's first sexual partners. I was in a long term relationship before but never had in...

I have an uneasy feeling about my husband's use of Cialis and his locked cell phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2247 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - My husband has been secretly taking cialis for some time now. At first my brother in law would give them to him, but as of July last year he has a prescription. Problem is, he uses them even when we are not having sex. I found one in his pocket, he ...

How can we get past my inability to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I lost my virginity a little over a year ago to my boyfriend, and since then we've had sex at least 100 times. I love and enjoy being intimate with him in that way, however... I've never been able to achieve orgasm. I never worried too much...

How do I work my nurse's uniform for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has mentioned few months earlier that he like me in a nurses uniform...I have bought one as a special surprise for h..but I worried to how should I preform when I have it on .,,help...

His penis doesn't really stand up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Im 24 and Me and my boyfriend recently just started having sex, and I noticed that his penis doesn't really stand up. He can be fully hard but it still kind of flops over. I don't know if this is normal and he doesn't really seem to care about it. I ...

How can he love me and want to share me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I have met a man who seems wonderful in every way. We have an incredible connection on so many levels yet I have a question. He has said to me that if I feel the desire to have sex with another man in his presence he is ok with that. Even turned on ...

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he w...

Help, I think I might be gay or bisexual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I think I might be gay/bi...HELP!? I'm a 20 year old female and I am so confused it's driving me nuts! I can't seem to enjoy sex with a man at ALL, I've been having sex for 4 years now and haven't had an orgasm once with a man. I can do it myself...

I'm dating a man and love his personality but the spark is not there. I don't know how to proceed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts, I've got a big dilemma! I've been seeing a guy that is not my type and I'm not really attracted to for the last 2 months. I was attracted to something about him initially when I first met him and wanted him to take me out. He did ask ...

Sex with my best friend - has it ruined our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I have a male best friend who I have known for about 5 years. We hang out all the time and love joking around. When we go out drinking we sometimes sleep over each others houses and nothing has ever happened between us, apart from one night we ended ...

He's older, divorced, and giving me mixed messages about our arrangement!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - I'm seeing a guy who constantly gives me mixed messages, he's older, divorced and has two kids, we've been seeing each other just under three months. It started off with the intention of being a FWB arrangement, but that quickly changed, long story ...

How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...

.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...

The intimacy is gone from our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Hi I am a 33 year old female I feel like I am in my prime. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs now he is 27. We do not have any children together but I do have 2 boys 11 and 16. We have custody of them every other week. Within the past year or ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - Me and my common-law husband been together for 5 years and just had our first born, and he is still releasing himself to early, maybe 1-2 mins max, and i dont get to finish or sometimes anywhere near finish. He never had this problem before with his ...

Is sex always going to be this uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3717 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - So I lost my virginity to this guy I'm sort of seeing it was a mistake and although I wanted it I felt pressured at the same time. Anyway we had sex and it was slightly painful, not all it's cracked up to be and I didn't finish no matter what he ...

My husband's secret porn addiction is driving us apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for twelve years I have recently checked out the history on our co on our computer and noticed a lot of porn sites which he has been on for about a year. I have also looked at his phone which is hardly ever out of his ...

I get jealous of the girlfriend my boyfriend had before me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a relationship with the most perfect guy in the world. We knew each other for years and been close friends before we started dating a year ago. I know lots about him and he is beautiful person inside out and the way he treats m...

I'm not sure if I'm freaking out over nothing or if I'm just freaking out over sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Ok, umm, I really need some help with this issue. So me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now and were really happy together but I feel like he's pressuring me to have sex with him or to do anything sexual. Now before you start ...

How to make sex feel good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had sex a handful of times and we just can't seem to figure it out (until recently we were both virgins). We are attracted to each other and we have no trouble with the mechanics of sex, but it feels kind of meh for both of ...

I don't think she's given me the full story about this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

11 February 2014 (M) - I have been married for 7 years. Everything was great for the first 5 1/2 years then in the fall of our sixth year things changed she became distant and sex which up till then was great it suddenly stopped everytime I approached her about it she ...

Am I bored with him or intimacy or both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and for the past few months i've noticed i'm never "in the mood", we used to be sooo intimate at the start of our relationship and it was great and now the thought actually makes me feel negative. We've ...