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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn my B/f on when we are getting intimate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months now..we have decided there won't be any sex(I believe in sex after marriage and he's ok with that) So I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn him on when...

I want to make sure I get a good night of fun and then never have to see him again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hey I am looking for some advice on how to play this situation I am in so I can snag this guy in my work before I leave next week. I started a new job like a couple of months ago but something else has come up with better money so i can leaving and ...

What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and ...

I want to make it clear that there will be no sex on the first date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Basically, I am in a bit of a situation with this guy. I met him in a student bar and we hit it off. We had a bit to drink and ended up making out throughout the night. After this, we ended up exchanging numbers. He text me last week asking to meet ...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual function for unknown reasons. He is unable to keep his erections, and he has zero sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I m so disappointed . My husband and me , might be unable to make it much longer together., after 26 years of marriage. I know sex is not everything, but affection is... I really need some understanding and some advice. He is a good man, but he is ...

We have sex 3 times a week, what can I do to boost my sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Hello dear cupid I have a serious issue. ..I am 22 and my fiance is 27 we have a great relationship outside of the sex department. ...we have a handsome 9 month old, truly faithful to one another, and pursuing to be successful for our family...the ...

What is wrong? I ejaculate too fast!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3951 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I dont really know what is wrong. But each time i try to play with myself i usually ejaculate very fast than expected and anytime i try to penetrate any girl i usually ejaculate even before my penile draws closer to the vagina. I dont know if this ...

Do I ask my boyfriend about an old sex tape I found in his camera?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last year. He is home for the summer and I'm staying here in the apartment. So, whenever he is gone, I always do deep cleaning. While I was cleaning the closet out, I came across an old camera ...

Is this normal? Or am I just having a really good orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - Hello! I have a question. I'm a 23 year old male and when I orgasm, my body seizes up and causes me to not be able to move much afterwards. It is not painful, but my penis becomes EXTREMELY sensitive (enough to cause me to post about it! Lol) a...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

Threesome with her ex. Mature answers please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - This isn't so much a question, but more of me asking for advice. So basically I know people are going to think I am weird, but here it goes. I have a fantasy of watching my girlfriend give oral to another guy. I have been with her for 2 years and ...

Do women get wet panties without physical stimulation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - Women do you get wet panties - in a sexual sense - without getting physical? By this I mean without someone physically stimulating you. Several years ago a girl I was friendly with came round to my flat and had a quick shower after work.W...

My girlfriend doesn't seem to enjoy sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - My girlfriend almost never initiates sex and whenever we do have sex, she doesn't orgasm. We're 2 months into the relationship and I'm not sure if I'm ready to start a life with someone who isn't sexually attracted to me. In the start of the ...

Is he having trouble with sex because of my body? Or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So, my fiance and I have been together for almost three years, and most everything has been great. The one thing that really concerns me happens during sex. He has a very difficult time getting and remaining erect, as well as reaching orgasm, ...

In the closet or able to enjoy all types of sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - For many years now i've know that I wasn't 100% straight, I use to masturbate to gay porn, loved it as much as straight porn, however I lived a "normal" life and began having sex with girls, which I enjoyed always and never had a probably ...

My cheating ex is making me feel bad because I had a one night stand after we broke up. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up around about 3 weeks ago due to him cheating on me. He's cheated on me multiple times, and now I've had enough, we broke up and ended and the break up has been challenging to say the least. ...

I'm feeling rubbish about myself because I can't get my girlfriend to orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I'm good at getting girls off and always been very confident about it. My new girlfriend acts just like the others getting closer and closer until its like she's about to orgasm when she pushes me away saying everything is too sensitive. I'm used to ...

No longer sexually attracted to my husband! Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm 24, and married to a 25 year old. When I first met him, I couldn't take my eyes off him, and same with him to me. We dated for a year, then got married when I was 21 and he was 22. He still feels just as attracted to me as when we met, eve...

I can't orgasm during oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been getting more intimate for the past month or so. When I say intimate, I mean to the point of oral sex and nothing further. He is the first guy I've ever gotten this far with, and I'm the first girl to ever ...

Is the purpose of sex to orgasm or to feel close and intimate with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm 20 and recently started having sex with the guy that I'm seeing (he's 21). I lost my virginity to him, but we have only had sex about 3 times since that. Before we had sex, he would play with me down there. Now he doesn't, I think ...

Would it be possible that it could be STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago we tried to have sex, in the sense he tried to enter me but couldn't, his penis touched my vagina but he didn't enter me, I think it was me being too dry but that isn't the ...

My Boyfriend thinks I'm a masochist! Am I???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Please don't judge me. I am 18 yrs old. Im a very quiet and shy person. I have only had sex with one guy which is my boyfriend. My bf and i have sex alot and its always the pain that turns me on. My favorite is the neck biting. I like for him to ...

I want to feel close to my husband sexually, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I posted the other day SVC gave me good advice. Although I should have explained more. My husband no longer wants sex as often. I originally said that he would like sex at least once a week, but its been over a week. We are voth in our 20s. However ...

My boyfriend can't enjoy sex when we use condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I have a problem, my boyfriend cant seem to enjoy sex when we use a condom he even gets soft, and if i was on birth control would be a good fix if i could do it, but the hormones don't do me good, i get really sick, i also cant afford to get the ...

Married for 20 years and been feeling alone for the last 5! Is it time to get out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - Another night of being ignored. Together almost 20 years, and feeling alone for the last 5. I have gotten the excuses "I need to be in the mood (emphasis on I)".....I'm too tired, the proverbial headache, yet her addiction to Facebook and gam...

Was she a virgin or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - Maybe my question is stupid, bare with me. recently my gf and I were playing a game, something like truth or dare, I asked her with how many guys she has have sex with, she hesitated for a bit and she answered "only with you". when we had sex for ...

We have been dating 8 years and never had sex because of pregnancy fears

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have never had intercourse. We are ready to, but we are freaked about getting pregnant because we have both always been so serious about attaining our high degrees in school. In high school i...

We both have someone else now so why did we get close to each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - So here I go. I just don't understand a certain situation or how to handle it. Although there is a lot that goes into the background of this, I will just try my best to condense it. About 5 years ago I had a male friend who was in my life at a ...

Our sexual relationship is all just one sided. Is this right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 24months or 2years and in that time we both have not had sex. We are each others 'first' boyfriend/girlfriend, we started dating in our 20s and both virgins. Though we have not h...

I am confused: I don't particularly like the guy but don't want to break contact either ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3956 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hey All, I posted this question before and it was basically about this guy I met on a dating site. I did not like him too much but I think he liked the date, and me. I didn't want to judge too early so I decided to take it forth. We are i...

Should I break up with my girlfriend? We don't seem to have that spark.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - My and my girlfriend have been together for nearly three months. She is 18 and im 22. My problem is that we dont seem to talk very much. I am naturally quite quiet and she is too I suppose, but I just wonder if this is normal. I see my friends ...

Is this really cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I'm separated for 3 years now. I ran into my high school sweetheart a few weeks ago and made a lunch date. At our lunch we discussed everything. I told her about my cheater wife and she told me about her bad marriage. Long story short, she asked me ...

Will I measure up OK for upcoming one-night stand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Hi, my mates girlfriend is coming to visit him in a week (she lives in another city) and we are going clubbing when she comes, she is bringing her mate with her to set her up with me (just for a one night stand), now I'm just a bit anxious as I ...

Will I be able to find a girl to date? I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I get plenty of attention from girls and even occasionally some even ask me out, which from what I hear in not the usual. My problem is that I am not interested in sex, namely penetration. I would very much enjoy foreplay, cuddling, kissing and ...

My husband doesn't want sex as often, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi all. My husband no longer wants to have sex regularly and Im not sure about what I should or can do about it. Im 24, we have two children together ( toddlers) He works a regular job and has a side job as well. Im currently a stay atvhome mom ( ...

How to deal with my boyfriend having a beautiful, sexually liberated woman as a roommate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend lives in a big flat with his male friends. The problem is one of his friends is going to spend this summer in a different city. And he said that instead of him, there will be living some his female friend, in his words "the most ...

Why can I only orgasm on my own with a toy, but never with a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I am a 30 year old female. I am able to achieve and orgasm alone with my rampant rabbit. Sadly, no man has ever given me an orgasm. How do I manage to have one with a guy? ...

I don't want to lose him, but either way I surely will once my B/f finds out about my wild, reckless past. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - When I was at university, I was a little wild. I had quite a few one night stands and had a fling with another girl. I even had a few threesomes, and swapped my boyfriend with a another girl ,who knew what I was like and was open sexual too, for a ...

My new man's sex drive is just so not on a par with mine and I think his deep love & affection for me is adversely affecting his sex drive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I was in a dysfunctional relationship for almost 8 years, I have to confess that is was largely because the sex was good, I was 33 when I met him and for the first time I was able to orgasm through penetrative sex and I guess I got addicted. My ...

Boyfriend can't make me cum so I took care of myself but he woke up and caught me and is angry!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles Bf and me have an ok sex life... he gets it anytime he wants, but since he works so many hours I do not initiate(I pounce on his days off) and let him rest during the work days. i never cum unless I touch myself, but h...

Boyfriend wants a threesome. How do I handle this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and have a great, caring, passionate relationship together. We often go out on a date night, go to our friends parties, etc together. Although neither of us are eachother's first long-term relati...

Should we start sleeping in separate beds till he get a new job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years has been waiting for his promotion for 2 years and he didnt get it this year too, even though his juniors got it. He was so disappointed, planning to quit his job and try job in a new company. I support his decision. ...

Should I lose my virginity to a webcam girl?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - Hi all, I'm a 26 yr old male virgin. I saw this girl on one of her online webcam shows and found out she's a flight attendant flying into my city. She made a proposition that she will offer sex for money. I am a virgin and want to know what sex fe...

Why doesn't he want me as a woman ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 31 years. When the children got older in high school my husband cut loving way down. really way down. 4 times a year- then we went to nothing. we do not kiss at all-peck once awhile. no embracing. no loving fo...

We've grown used to each other but I'm tired of the games!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - So this guy i know has always had this strong connection and we both confirmed we felt it. He's been curious about me for years and finally one day we were able to call each other and then started making time to actually hang out.We both have trust ...

How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

19 June 2013 (?) - Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked a...

How do I go about initiating a no strings relationship with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I hooked up with (not had sex with, just made out) a guy last weekend that I'd never spoken to before with mutual friends. We were both very attracted to each other, but haven't really spoken or texted since then. I would really like to talk to ...

Where is the blood coming from?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hello! I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite awhile. While we were on vacation, we were having sex much more frequent than what normally happens at home. YAY! On one of those days it was kind of rough, and later on when I ...

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3960 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it s...