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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Threesome question please - Advice on before, during and after

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hello, My Fiancee and i have been in a relationship for 12 years and still have amazing sex. First and foremost, i have always been curious about being with a woman but never tried it beyond kissing and fondling. However since i turned 40 thre...

Which are the best sex positions for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I'm 20 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend. We started our sex life about 3 months ago and since then we've done it a few times and it's always been very enjoyable... but we have a bit of trouble with positions. We pr...

Why are boys like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like ...

She wants to have sex with no strings but I'm not sure I can do that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl i met and have been talking to as friends wants to be my first time having sex but doesnt want a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits at least for the time being. She has said she would possibly date me in the future but i ...

I feel like if I have a threesome, the other person will fall in love with my man. Have you been in this situation before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am a bisexual woman who is dating my soulmate. He is a great guy and has all of the qualities that I have dreamed about since I was a child. I love him so much. But I am bisexual and I do have my moments where I crave other women. But I have ...

I use the term 'make love' and he uses 'f*ck'! What are your views on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - In need of some answers/advice my boyfriend and i have been together for more than two years . His made a few kinky suggestions b4 and we tried anal but never got any where as it really hurt and he promised not again will we try. Well just yester...

He can't come!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - well my boy friend an i been togather for one month now an fron the time we net we been haveing sex every day an he never come not one time for the hold month we been have ing sex befor to be togather i have not had ...

He says if I bring jenny into the situation he will end it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Urgent Advice Needed Please Hello everyone who helps people on Agony Aunt. I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when ...

I just want someones view on what I've done and learnt from it : )

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Hello I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a while as it keeps coming back to bite me. A few months ago i visited a brothel. The reason i did this is clear to me now as i was very lonely had not many good friends and was addicted...

Would your ex try and get you into bed even though he's with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - If your ex was in a relationship with someone already who lived in another country who he had spent 2 weeks with and came back and was talking to you, wud he say anything to try and get you into his bed? for example, he said "while I was on my trip ...

Do men think about their female friends when they masterbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 97 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have this male friend who used to be a lover. Now we just hang out and occasionally kiss or touch each other. I pretty sure he used to masturbate thinking about me but it makes me curious if he still does. And I'm just curious in general if guys ...

I feel too shy to tell him what I like during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hi There, While love making, I feel more eroused when he touches my pussy, fingers it. But most of the time he just does the intercourse and finishes off. This does not satisfy me at all. Now the problem is, I feel shy telling him what I like. And...

What is a womans perspective on a threesome? Why does my girlfriend want one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - What is my girlfriend looking for in a threesome? My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We are very close, and have a really good relationship. My girlfriend asked me if we could try a threesome with another guy (no g...

How do I avoid putting myself in a vulnerable position?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am anxious about sex and don't know what to do about it. I've always been nervous about it, because my family is somewhat strait-laced. Then, when I was a teenager, an old man once grabbed me in the market and kissed my cheek. That completely ...

How can I fulfill my boyfriend's fantasy for him? It's not really my thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My partner told me the other day what his fantacy is. His been wanting to tell me for ages now, but couldn't find the guts to tell me.. He told me his fantacy is to role play.. that part I don't mind, but when he told me what he wants us to be is an...

Will sex feel okay? My boyfriend has a curved penis. What will it feel like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has a curved penis and I am wondering if the sex will be ok? It is curved downwards, and am concerned it might hurt or feel different during sex. If any ladies have been with a guy with a curved penis and can relate please do. and ...

It seems like my boyfriend only wants sex, but I don't. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Okay I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and I have a boyfriend that keeps asking for sex and Im not ready for that yet...I mean like I'm ready but I just want him to wait...because the longer he wait the better my reputation be at the end.I mean I like ...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...