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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it ...

Another question about anal sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Does the majority of women like or dislike anal sex... and would a woman leave her man because of it??...

How many women actually orgasm during vaginal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've heard it's possible, but that it doesn't happen very often because it's hard to stimulate the clitoral complex this way. I've still never had sex, though I've orgasmed before through fingering, but I'm just wondering, are fingering and oral sex ...

Why is it seemingly more acceptable for girls not to give oral than it is for guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why does it often seem like people are harder on guys who won't give oral than they are on girls? Even just browsing through questions on here, I've noticed that when a guy complains that his girl won't give bjs people tend to get a bit defe...

Confuse on what to do, birth pills question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no cond...

Blowjob information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue....

I have a question about female orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - i have a question about female orgasm , im a virgin so since women orgasm from clit preassure , either from oral or during sex from he preassure of the man's pubic bone . so why is vaginal intercourse enjoyable ? i mean it is for the man cause of t...

Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one.. Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend with something new and exciting! Keep in mind we still have to whisper..The family is in the bottom floor.;) Oh, and sis is down the hall.. But who cares.....

Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will t...

When kissing and aroused, what to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - When you are snogging (kissing) a bloke and he makes you feel how aroused he is, what should you do, I mean, what does he want, what should you do?...

What do you think: shaved or natural?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex....

He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help ...

Does my girlfriend want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...

Sex in the rest room!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Two days ago I had sex with my boyfriend in a public restroom at my boyfriend's favorite place (it's a pool hall), I didn't meet him for like 3 weeks because he was in Australia. I missed him a lot and I just can't stop myself of doing ...

He's throwing his acted out fantasies at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, So my fiance and I were talking about fantasies. We've already had a 3some with another guy (he just touched me and I touched him no sex) and I said I'd really like to try with another woman or couple out of curiousity (again, no sex ...

My girlfriend has a rape fantasy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I were talking about fantasies. She said that she has always had a rape fantasy. I was a bit weirded out at first but we acted it out in the end. Now, she wants me to act out the rape fantasy again, except this time she wants to ...

How can I find someone to do what I want to sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - So I'm a bi-curious 20 year old male, I had never been w/ a guy, and I'm not attracted emotionally to guys whatsoever, just to penises. Anyway, I went to a gay bar and found a guy and went home with him. There was almost an hour of handjobs and ...

We slept together and now he hasn't called

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really like this guy and have for a while. After becoming friends and months of me wanting him we began dating. Everything was going great at first and no problems at all. Then we slept together. I wanted to wait (We have only been dating ...

Boyfriend doesn't last long in bed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. The sex between us is good for as long as it lasts. Foreplay like 30 minutes ans sex like 2minutes. We been together for a year and made a son together. The other day I was putting desensitizing gel on his penis and ...

Am I sex addict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have been single for a while having been in two loveless relationships. Now I find I am having regular sexual fantasies and have been sending and recieving flirtatious emails back and forth to several men on dating agencies, none of whome I am ...

Bedroom troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and getting along great. In the bedroom seems to be a problem, keeping it up. Once in a while it works, other times he will be erect but go right back down, or never come up. I know he is very ...

My boyfriend still has pain from an old sex injury, is this normal and can it be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suffers from a tight foreskin which causes him discomfort sometimes. I just learned that occasionally his frenulum also becomes very tender for no apparent reason and stings; he says it tore or was damaged to the point of bleeding ...

What can we do to improve our sex lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice (especially from any guys out there!) about my b/f. We've been together 5 years and now we live together. My worry is that he seems to have gone off sex. This has been going on for a year. He pretty much falls ...

Is it safe for him to cum inside you when you're on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I know this is kind of a rhetorical question, but please give me your opinion and knowledge anyway :] I just started on birth pills. Me and my bf don't use condom anymore since he never cums in me anyway. However, last time we had sex, he wanted t...

My girlfriend and I don't know how to resolve this difficult situation

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I just had a very interesting conversation with my gf. Lately I've been bothered by a lot of stuff in our relationship. Let me preface this by saying that I love her very much and vice versa. I grew up in a nice little white bread town where ...

My husband is having an erectile problem. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - In the past 3 times that my husband and I have had sex, his penis starts off hard but than it goes down- he tries to get it hard, and sometimes it does but once he goes inside of me, it goes down again. We never had this problem before, we wher...

Is there a cure the premature ejaculation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Is there a cure the premature ejaculation? I've looked over the internet and there are a lot of people who say that premature ejaculation cannot be cured. I last about 10 seconds every time me and my girlfriend have sex. We've been having sex ...

I want him to want me, I don't want pity sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 232 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been with a man for over 3 and a half years. I am about 14 years younger than he is and that has always seemed to be a good thing. We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage who consider him their father... Here's my ...

I want to have sex with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really want to have a boyfriend. I just wish I could make out with him every day! There is this one guy, we both like each other. I just dont know how to talk to him. I also want to have sex with him, every time I see him, I have an orgasm! Pl...

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...

Can a man tell about these things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi i would like to know whether a man can tell that a woman has baggy skin on her vagina when having sex? (without seeing it) Let Me know xx...

I want to have sex with my friend’s mum

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at ...

As much as she is very excited, she cannot get to the finish point

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - OK, I hate to ask, but we are at a loss here. I love my wife very much, she loves me very much, and we only seem to have one problem, My wife and I get Very Excited with each other, and we play and get really into things, but she is having a prob...

I need to place a divide between sex and the emotions behind it to look at things differently.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm not nearly as sexually experienced as I would like to be. When I think about any of my high school experiences with girls it's mostly all either bad or non-existent. Since high school I've had some minor success with women. I'm currently ...

Why can't I feel it when I cum during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi i am really ashame of this question because to be honest. every time i have sex with my sex partter i can never tell when or if I cum?...

Handjobs instead of oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - okay 1st off idk if this is weird but i love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. not just bc i know he wants it but because i just love doing it and it massively turns me on. but anyway what i want to know is, how often is it "normal" to give them? cause ...

He's never done oral on me..he doesn't want to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - i give my boyfriend oral and he always comes but he hasn't done it for me - we haven't had many chances to do it since i started giving him oral so maybe that's why. but assuming he never does it back, would this be unfair? because i've never ...

He says he was on the sex register for verbal abuse to a teenager..do I still see him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - iv met someone he told me he was on sex register for verbaly abuse to teenager it ends in may but i dont know weather to trust him ,my family would not aprove if they find out im so worried...

Hymen, sex and oral!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I love each other, we make out and fool around, he sometimes fingers me but it hurts. Now I have two questions : I have looked and it looks like I have like a -full- hymen, so you can't really get your fingers -inside - is that why ...

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than...

Question for the guys: How long do I wait to give him a blowjob.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait...

Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...

Is it time to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told...

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am...

16 yo virgin and I have stretch marks on my stomach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I have stretch marks on my stomach, and i dont know how to get them to go away. me and my best friend want to loose our virginity to each other, but im scared to take off my shirt. can you help me? ...

Why do women prefer being on the top?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 March 2009 (?) - Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the ...

I'm not attracted to my older boyfriend anymore... why am I feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok please help me based on these facts........... * I am 28 years old * I have been with my 45 year old boyfriend for 5 years * We haven't slept together in over 2 months because I don't feel attracted to him in that way anymore - I could kiss ...

Getting intimate with my bf felt good but now I feel disgusting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were laying on his bed today and he started asking me if we could "do something" and we've been together for quite awhile now and last time he tried to get me to do something with him, I did a little and told him to stop because I ...

Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even ...

How can I make myself more confident with kinky sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a month, we have liked each other so much for a very long time and he was, well still is, my best friend. We have had sex and I really enjoy it and so does he, I have had 3 other sexual partners but with ...