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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

What's wrong with me? Am I weird for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? am I weird? is it normal? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6months and I've not been with anyone else since. I had a lot of guys come my way but they all wanted sex, but I can't have casual sex, I've got to be in lo...

What happens when you orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hey, can anyone tell me what happens when you orgasim, im a girl and me and my boyfriend have been having sex and i csnt seem to orgasim, but csn anyone tell me what actually happens and what it feels like? thanks....

Pain during sexual intercourse! is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Is it normal to have pain during sex x my and my bf are both inexperice him being my first bf and first sexual partner x I find am a little tight and find it really painful I found sex painful for the first time and at first when my bf fingers me I ...

Need advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a ...

Was it Implantation bleeding? or just a really light period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex twice about a week and 2 days ago(it was a Friday and Saturday). The day after,which would have been Sunday,my period was supposed to start. I am on birth control,and was on the last set of pills at the end,which are supposed ...

Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating

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31 July 2011 (M) - Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...

I don't feel like I turn him on the way I used to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. The relationship is amazing and the sex is just as great. I know its normal for the amount of sex a couple has to decrease over time. I still want it more often and have always wanted it more ...

Is this classed as a holiday romance now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My daughter went on holiday she hated it and came home early when I asked her why she said "everyone" was sleeping qround getting boozed out off their head and the other girls were laughing at her because she didnt want to sleep with anyone (she ...

Am I being too fussy and picky when it comes to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm a virgin guy and 20. I've finished my first year of uni. There have been a few girls. I kissed one in a club, danced with a few and there was one i was interested in but she wasn't. Anyway yesterday i met up with my mates who i hadn't seen in a ...

Am I experiencing a phantom pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Recently my body has been acting REALLY weirdly. My stomach has bloated out by a HUGE amount (I keep getting asked if I'm pregnant it's that bad) and it's rock hard. I honestly look 6 months pregnant. I'm getting cravings for strawberries, my boobs ...

Why does he pin my legs down to the bed, during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hello Just a quick question really so thatnks for reading Ive just started sleeping with a new guy everything is going good and sex life is fab, but my one question is during sex he holds my leg down like he pining it to the bed when hes i...

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went ba...

Our sex life is dull and she told me she has no desire and thinks she will never have the desire again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years next month. Our sex life has been very dull over the last few years. Recently we had some issues with our marriage and has been very rocky to say the least over the last 5 months. We have not had sex in ...

Should I tell my FWB about my feelings for him? I don't want to risk what we have and scare him off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Ok so heres the story. Theres this guy i have known for the past 2 yrs. I met him because he was my boss. Well he was transferred about a yr ago and up until may our relationship had been strictly professional. We no longer work together in the same ...

I'm not sure how one talks about boundaries in a relationship. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently kissed/made out/cuddled for the first time. He always asked what made me uncomfortable, and stopped when he sensed I didn't like it. When I asked him later if that bothered him, he said no, we were both inexperienced with ...

I'm left emotionally and physically starved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, please, I desperately need help! My boyfriend/partner of several years is driving me sexually and emotionally insane! We live together for 2 and a half years now but things arent good. When or if we row he wont speak to me or let me speak to him ...

He's really big and I'm really tiny and sex just isn't happening!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I just started dating this guy who is amazing. Unfortunately when we tried to have sex it doesnt work for two main reasons. It takes a while for him to fit inside me. He is really big and I am really tiny, so the combination of the two is bad. ...

How do I know if he came in me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - this morning, at about 4 i was rather drunk and ended up having sex for the first time with one of my ex-boyfriends. it was kind of a rushed thing, just happened out of no-where, i wasn't pressured into it and i know it was stupid to have sex with ...

I took my birth control pills a few hours earlier than normal. Could this have messed my period up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I had sex about a week ago,and we didn't use condoms twice. He also didn't pull out. He has a really difficult time staying hard with condoms,so I figured it couldn't hurt since I'm on birth control. We had sex that Friday and Saturday. My period w...

Is it normal for some men not to be into sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hiya, Well, I was just wondering if it was normal for some men not to be into sex...? My boyfriend of 18 months goes through sages when he is like a rabbit then dosent want to do nothing. Of course he never turn down the blow job when he is like...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

How do I tell my mom that I'm ready to start having sex? And are condoms good enough or do I need some other form of birth control too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hi!! I'm new here and i'm not sure how to ask, but well, i've been with my 1st boyfriend for almost 6 months and we want to start having sex, but we are both very worried about unwanted pregnancies and we don't feel save using just condoms during s...

I have no bf and I don't want to masturbate...but I want sex so badly! What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I want to have sex, I want it really bad! But I have no BF, I don't want to masturbate and I don't want to watch porn. I mean, I want to make love with someone but I have failed to get a BF. Hey, I am female 30 yrs, professional and ...

I never used to have problems lasting during sex, now I do! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hey, Im 18 and have been with my girlfriend for a year. I'm worried about sex. I've been with about 5 girls over the past couple of years. But when it comes to sex i'm always worried about lasting long. I had no worries or troubles with...

Is it normal for a man in his forties to have a sex drive this high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Is it normal for men to have the same sex drive in their forties that they experienced in their twenties? I'm in my mid forties involved with a lovely woman who commented about my high sex drive and being very sexual, but not in a vulgar, ...

Should I stay in this relationship even if it is only for friendship and the occasional hookup? Do my son and his father need to know about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am a 43 y.o. woman divorced for about 4 months. I started seeing a guy in January, but it has been an on and off dating thing. He has potential, but I don't feel like getting into a strongly committed relationship yet. We date, go out, have sex ...

Turned on by porn but not my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi!I'm a 31yr married female and i love watching porn so much and it always turns me on but when my husband touches me or does foreplay with me i don't get turned on and i don't even enjoy sex but before i used to enjoy it. i don't know why is this ...

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Its been a week after my period and I feel off an on emotional and achy legs and some fatigue here and there. I had (anal) sex 12 (almost 13) weeks ago. He didnt ejaculate in me.... had 3 periods since so we can cross off pregnancy. ...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

Is it normal that I bleed a little?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Hi, i have a little question. Im a virgin but have been finered about twice by my boyfriend. After he fingered me today, i went to the toilet and noticed blood on my knickers. Is that normal? I am due my period in a few days however i dont think its ...

Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...

FWB--I'm scared I'm in too deep

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - About a year ago I was just getting out of a 3 year drammatic relationship when I met this guy. We had mutual friends and instantly clicked, so after a few drinks one night we ended up hooking up. Neither wanted anything serious as he was getting ...

Any tips on how to achieve orgasm through vaginal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys, i am a 21 year old female. iv been with my boyfriend about 6 months and we have been having sex for a few months now. iv had previuos sexual partners before him. but one thing thats really been bothering my boyfriend is that he can't ...

I can't feel any sexual pleasure. So scared it's something unfixable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm currently having problems with my sex life. I'm almost 20, and I've been with my boyfriend awhile now, but I can't feel any sexual pleasure. This isn't a "I don't feel sex" or "I don't feel it sometimes" It is Never. He is the first boyfriend ...

Whats the problem......why don't I want to have sex? Do I not love him? Am I not attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and im a virgin and hes not. im 16 hes 18 (hes not pushy At ALL) im afraid because for some reason early this month i wasnt sure how i felt about him..i was feeling that i maybe should be his friend ...

Is it worth sacrificing the sexual excitement for some nice loving companionship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I have met this lovely woman who has all the personality attributes I want I think so far. She wants to be my girlfriend but she's vey bad at sex. She's either stiff as a board or moves awkwardly. This ultimately results in my getting a softie. Her ...

What can I do to get him in the mood more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for two years now. and we foot fool around like we used too. my main issue is that he just isnt in the mood anymore. in the begging it was fun and you never knew whats going to happen. Now, i have tried ...

Erectile dysfunction....is it really so common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I really wonder about this issue for a long time. I hope you can give me some ideas about the reality. So I'm in my late forties, and I really struggle with libido, and erectile dysfunction. My doctor says even I have no medical problems...

Help! I am failing for my FWB partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a friend..we full around once in a while.. I try not to meet up with everytime he calls.. Due to that I'm getting emotional attached to him.. I haven't really opened up to him of my feelings.. ...

I'm lost and confused please help. any advice will help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My ex and I broke up on new years eve, ever since then he is been going back and forth. He would start seeing a girl they see right through him the she split he would come back to me. one time he was dating this girl we both work with and then ...

Why is this happening when he touches me to roughly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Lately he's tried a new fingering technique which makes me bleed while he does it. He has been going deeper and does it harder than normal. I've never bled during sex or fingering before. ...

I think I have a really high sex drive, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...

I get him off, but he doesn't seem like he wants to get me off. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend, who is 21 and without any previous sexual experiences, and I (20 and having already had one sexual partner) have started becoming sexually active just within the past few weeks. I just started giving him blow jobs within the last week. ...

Will he catch my genital warts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi me in my boyfriend had sex twice with condoms. And I have genital warts. Will he catch it, even though we use condoms ?...

Any advice on masturbating without direct touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Heyy, I've recently started masturbating and I love it! I've been using a vibrating massager which I put on my knickers. I prefer doing this than touching my vagina with my fingers. Is there any other ways I can masturbate without touching my vagina ...

Should she enema before first time anal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - I am looking for advice on whehter my GF should use an enema before first time anal sex. I have heard many pros and cons. Pros being that they obviously clean things out, cons being that they can irritate and make poo that would otherwise stay ...

I never enjoy sex....am I doing something wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Dear All, Since i started having sex, i never enjoyed it,i thought maybe i was doing it with wrong people but only to find out that is the same, i started having sex by the age of 19 and now im 21,i dont know wheather im doing it in a right way or w...

I havent had sex in 2 years and scared of getting emotionally attached....should I go for it anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Ok so me and an old friend got in contact through facebook.. We've talked met up a couple of times.. Well I remember I used to have the biggest crush on him.. He was even my first kiss back when we were in our teens.. Well we're older now and we ...

Is there anything we can do to improve our sex life? I don't know why I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married less than a year. The problem is that I have very little sex drive. I have never been interested in having sex with him, aside from when we first started sleeping together (and even that was short lived). He was ...

Should I be specific and let him know that I'm looking to finish what we started the other night, sexually?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Went out with a guy twice (but kind of knew him through mutual friends before that). First time, he was a perfect gentleman and only hugged me at end of night. A few days later, he invited me impromptu to hang out at his house w/a few guy friends ...