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I care for him so much but he talks to Rachelle about sex!

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Question - (27 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *hantomvampire93 writes:

There is a boy a year older than me named "Nick", and he is Orthodox Christian like me, and he is godsiblings to my cousin "Cecily." When we were all younger, his father, a priest, had an affair and he was disrobed and he and his wife divorced. Since then, Nick has been lost and not really trusting his religion - I mean, his father told him all these things about God and then had an affair!

So Nick, Cecily, and I went to our religion's summer camp last week, and I flirted with Nick as I have liked him for a while (and I'm friends with his little sister "Katie"). And at this camp, there was a gorgeous, 21-year old counselor "Rachelle" who I found out teaches Sunday school at Nick's church, which isn't far from mine. Rachelle and Nick are incredibly close, and I heard them talking about sex and awkward stuff (which is a little strange - 6 year difference! but since I didn't hear it all, I'm not gonna touch on that). This made me feel awkward.

There was a dance at the camp, and I slow-danced one song with Nick, but the rest he and Rachelle danced together. Like Tango during Frank Sinatra songs, ballet during crazy songs, and it did kind of disgruntle me. However, Nick and I kissed at the end of the night ( ^_^ yayy!) and I got his number.

Now, the dilemma:

I'm not really allowed to text, but I really want to text Nick. That's not the problem. But he and Rachelle are at camp for one more week together and I miss our hugs at night, I miss talking to him each morning. So what should I do??? What should I do from here???

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A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (28 July 2009):

woment prefer older men; she's not going to have sex with him, although there is 2 explanations:

1) She likes to feel attractive to younger men

2) She's generous and she's giving him some advice

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

rachelle is not really going to sleep with him, i'm certain. just talk to him when he gets back - if you do start seeing him, you've got to make sure his intentions arent too sexual or you could get yourself hurt.

you'll be fine, dw.

x

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