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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm too old for this, I thought?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Lately whenever i watch a sexy scene on tv or a cute guy i get a funny feeling inside my stomach. Now when i dream and fantasise in bed i'm starting to leak pee. I woke up after a sexy dream and my panties were damp,i'm going to a sleep over and i...

It hurts when he tries to insert his fingers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Every time my boyfriend fingers me, it feels good until he goes lower and tries inserting his fingers. I've never actually let him go underneath my underwear, but if it hurts with them on, will it hurt worse without them? Is there anything I...

Do you think my sexual past is a bad thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im 17 and ive slept with 9 guys and 1 girl, would you say its bad? Youngest guy has been 13 when i was 13, and oldest has been 40 when i was 17. Alot of people say its bad, but im not sure, personally i dont think its bad, the only thing that bothe...

I want to know how other people have dealt with the issue of sex and their parents...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I would just like to know if any of you guys told your parents that you had either lost your virginity or were thinking of losing it? And how did they react to it? If you didn't tell them, do you feel guilty at all? Thanks xx...

Having erection problems... and I'm only 17!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok So i am a 17 years old healthy guy(breakdancer) I had a bad sex experience like 7 months ago it was my first time too.. And i was inside her but it slipped off and i never got hard again to go back in..it was on the beach and it was winter ...

She really WAS turned on and I misread her! Help me fix this please..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i was out with a girl who im in love with; she really liked me to but i tend to f**k things up after a few days so shes was messin on and i was messin on with her. I didnt no i was turning her on then she told me but i thought it was a joke and she ...

My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

13 July 2009 (?) - i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...

First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. ...

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I ...

I start bleeding during sex and its starting to scare me. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok im 19 and im goin out wit this guy he 17 and for some reason i started bleeding during sex is something wrong wit me or is it normal please help its startin to scarre me please...

When I get close to him I get frightened! How do I have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok well i am goin out wit this guy and yes i wanna have sex so dose he but Idk how to go about it im in my childhood i was bein touch unwillingly and now it seems if i get so close to him i start to breath heavy and get frightened please help me a ...

What is this problem I'm having with my penis? it bends down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - hello...im 21 and i think that i have a problem with my penis...is about 5.5 inches is perfectly straight...but the head bends and its kinda ugly...i dunno how to explain how the bend acctualy is ... is like when u tring to bend only ure finger ...

I come across very confident sexualy but in reality I'm bricking it! Help me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I'm nervous. I've been seeing this guy and i'm really worried that i'm not going to be enough, sexually. It's embarrassing to admit... You see, he has 8 inches down there, and I'm worried that I won't be able to give him decent oral sex. He told me ...

23 year old son sleeping with male prostitutes for the "kick". Should I tell his fiancee?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My 23-year-old son is in university, and lives with us at home (purely for financial reasons - he is otherwise independent). He said to me the other night "Mum, I've got something to confess..." I was expecting it to be something academic-rela...

I don't want a physical relationship, I want something meaningful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy well over 1yr ago, we exchanges numbers 3 to 4 months ago. We went on two dates within the last two weeks and basically went all the way last night our third meeting. I’m 26 and at this point in I’m tired of dating for sport. I’m ...

Condom split and her mom would kill me if she's pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, Me and my GF are both 18 and we had sex the other day and the condom split and I 'cummed' in her. She is worried now and so am I about her being pregnant. She tells me that she is bleeding downstairrs and she always feels sick in th...

I split my foreskin - will this cause future problems for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I had sex firt time n while having the sex my pennies stared bleeding and my forskin slept upward and its very painful it took me long time to get back to its orignal place does this will cause me any promblem and will it happened again if i hav...

I'm not happy but don't wish to end relationship just because I am depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hi I am in a relationship, with someone i met around 9 months ago. he moved to my area when he was made redundant and got a good job in the catering industry. (i let him stay at my house, until he was back on his feet but because of my last relat...

Will my husband-to-be know I'm not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend... but i am going to marry with someone else as my family is forcing me......my bf is really ok with my decision to marry someoneelse...... will my to be husband come to know that i am not virgin......... please help......

Haven't had a blow job in 6 years from wife!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I am a 39 year old male and have been married for 14 years. My question is How does my anger towards my wife really affect our relationship? The anger stems from the lack of oral sex i recieve. Before i was married life was good, after that day it ...

My girlfriend is under the impression I have a really big penis, but I think I'm average. Will she be disappointed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ive met a girl that I really really like. and she has also fallen for me to. She has left her boyfriend of six years for me. Anyway, this might sound very stupid but please take it seriousely as it is getting to me. She is under the impres...

I get performance anxiety when sleeping with someone for the first time. Would Viagra help? Should I try it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i get really bad performance anxiety when im with someone new for the first time. it stops me getting an ersction. ive met a girl and feel like im really falling for her. would it be a good idea to use viagra for the first time I sleep with her? I ...

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I ...

My boyfriend wants a threesome, should I do it to keep him happy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - oh oh now my boyfriend wants a 3 some with another woman just the one off mind to see if it will help him get hard but i dont know how to go about it please help im willing for him to try this just to keep him happy thanx...

At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel ...

Thinking about having sex for the first time and need advice!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok will im 15 and im thinking really hard about havin sex for the first time but im really scarred that its ganna hurt and im not ganna know what to do please help me...

What protection should I use to avoid getting pregant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - to avoid pregnancy...should condoms and pills both be used.....or only condom can avoid pregnancy...

Can you catch STD's from oral sex even when neither person has one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok, this is a very simple question but I don't know it. Well my girlfriend gave me a blowjob and she was worried she mite get something we are both 15 yo. n have been dating for 3 yrs. I wanted to know can she get a disease even if I don't have ...

My b/f keeps asking me for anal sex, I don't know what to do or how it's done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend keeps asking me to have anal sex with him. I have never taken it up the butt and am not sure if it will hurt or what i am supposed to do. Can you help me?...

Two guys are chasing me for sex, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well i'm a 14 year old girl, and um Lately i've been gettin alot of attention from the guy's i'm a Virgin and Just got out of a long bad Relationship, I know 2 Guy's That like me right now but They mostly want to have sex, tHat's not the bad Part, ...

White foam everywhere after anal sex!? What does this mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having anal sex. We used "wet original lubricant" (you can type it in google, and it'll come up.)We werent using any protection. (ugh! i know...its bad etc etc etc...i will make sure i wear one next time.) But..the problem ...

Is it normal for me to bleed the second time I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey, i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and i bled a bit, and it hurt. it stopped bleeding and hurting soon after. thats normal, i know that...but then today we went to do it again and i bled again, even though it didnt hurt. ...

My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he ...

Is he only in It for the Sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - So I'm newly single, was married for 6 years. However I'm only 23, young by most standards! I would like to have a relationship, but am not looking for someone to bring home to my kids. I met a guy back in April we had a class together, and 2 weeks ...

How can I stop my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey , i'm travelling in a few days and my period is due to start in these couple of days , is there anyway to stop it so i can enjoy my vacation ? and if not, can i go swimming wearing a tampoon ? blood wont flow ?? i never used one ...

Is it any big deal if I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, are there any side effects?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im a 17 yr old female n i am just wondeting is it weird that I mas turbate 2 or3 times a day ? And does it have any side effects or something ?...

How do you know when you have had an orgasm during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so Ive had sex with a few older than me men. But...as embarrassing as it is, I don't ever know when I cum... He stops when he does and I can't ever tell if I do. I always say it was great because I don't want to disappoint them. How can you tell ...

My partner calls out his ex's name when we have sex, does he still love him, should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I have recently been seeing my partner for over a month now and everything has been ok except for his insecurities about me cheating although i never would and have never cheated on any of my other partners... Whilst having sex my partner said his ...