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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ...

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

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30 September 2008 (M) - everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard ...

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started ...

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to ...

Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?...

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After ...

My husband is afraid of physical contact from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Help. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. For nearly six years we have had no physical relationship to speak of. My husand is afraid of physical contact from me. We do however have a daughter of 5 who he adores and will provide her with...

Self Conscious about my vagina!! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Personally i feel really weird asking these questions but they are driving me crazy!! I am a teen and as many people say am very self conscious about my vaginal area. I am in a relationship with a boy and i want to go the next level with him but ...

Why is he ignoring me? We had sex but I want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Ok here we go... I met a bloke 2 weeks ago and he's a friend of my housemates. We all went out and got drunk one night and I let him sleep in my bed. One thing led to another and in the morning we had sex. He lives about an hour and a half away fro...

I wanted more romance and now she's broken up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I have been seeing a girl the last few months, its long distance of sorts being about 2hours travel apart. We meet as much as we can as our jobs and busy personal lives will allow us. Yesterday things came to a head however after an arugement. ...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

I feel so used and violated. Does anyone else think this behaviour is abnormal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I think i was violated by a guy i just had sex with. I hung out with this guy twice, the first time he tried taking my pants off but i insisted they stay on. I wish i would have listened to my instincts that he only wanted sex from me, but i ...

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I let him know I need to feel wanted and taken once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am 41 years old and I started dating a 34 year old. I do not think he has any previous experience with women and I do not think he knows how to please a woman orally or even in bed. He is a great guy, very gentle but how would I let him know that ...

Is there a way to tell when a girl is cumming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hey Cupid. I was just wondering if there is a way for a guy to tell whether a girl is cumming during sex? Because my girlfriend groans and gets wet but I want to know if she is just one of those girls who don't ever cum or whether I just can't te...

Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...

Is it a bad thing for a girl to take a while to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay, Well i take forever to orgasm.... Is it a bad thing? Any advice? ...

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts ...

Is 'queefing' a turn off for guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - What are guys opinions on queefing? I think its pretty normal for a girl to do it but do guy like it or are they turned off by it? Or do they not even notice?...

How do I get past these feelings of inadequecy, beating up on myself, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am confused. My husband and I have been married for 2 months, and dated for about a year. Sometimes I'll tease him and not make love to him and other times I will make love to him. Thursday night, I kept delaying making love to him and my stomach ...

Is he gay? Sex with him isn't normal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i've been with my bf for a few months but i'm starting to wonder if he might be gay. He told me that he nearly once kissed a guy, also he says he has an arse obsession. He seems to enjoy sex but the only thing that makes him hard is if he touches ...

How do I improve the taste of my cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter....

My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...

How do I try and stop my friends from having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - One of my 14 year old friends and his girlfriend (also 14) are thinking of having sex... they dont know that i know they want to and i want to try and stop them. They are both very close to me and they are not thinking of using contraception. Any ...

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....

Anyone ever heard of these WTF US sex laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Crazy US Sex Laws... Ever heard of them or any others that are crazy like these. I find it hilarious!! 1. Oral sex is illegal in 18 states, including Arizona. 2. In Virginia, it is illegal to have sex with the lights on. 3. It is illegal ...

How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...

Losing your V card: does is hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay, before the question, i would like to give you some background onto the situation. I am thinking of losing my virginity, im 18 and i have a boyfriend. We are not in a hurry to lose our virginity to each other, just thinking about it. We kn...

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I g...

Why haven't I had an orgasm yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Well here goes; Me and my bf have been together almost two and a half years now. In that length of time he has never given me an orgasm (I’m not complaining by the way), but yesterday he got really upset about it, and I would like him to be a...

My LDR isn't working and I don't know if he's cheating or just not that into me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...

Should I pull out now completely (not even friends) and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for five months. He is 32 and I am 27. In the beginning we both wanted to be free and enjoy life and time together without labeling our situation. I warned him that as we progress my feelings could change and I may want to ...

I'm afraid of having sex for the first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hi there im in 17 and i always hear about sex nad espashily for the first time and how its painfull and some screemed on that day. in fact after that i became very afraid about it coz i didnt went through this yet and i have a boyfriend everytim...

All he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - been with my partner for close on ten years ,i have always had to ask for sex and all he wants is oral sex to satisfy himself ,he drinks far to much and we just shout and scream at each other ,i want to leave but my problem is we have property ...

Is it normal to have sex after one week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for a week and we all ready had sex. Is that normal? She talks openly about it on the phone and I feel comfortable talking about it. She trusts me with some of her secrets and I told her mine because I can trust ...

Should I let him have sex with me even though it hurts after several contacts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'm 15 and ill admit I party so I was completly wasted and me and this guy had sex but were not dating or any thing and I was just wondering HOW MANY TIMES can I have sex and it still hurt because I had to push him back a couple times because it ...

Problem with getting wet since I'm on the pill - I'm embarassed to buy a lubrificant though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone : ) I have a problem getting wet especially since I've been on the pill. I want to buy lube but I'm embarassed. I'm 18 btw any advice?...

How do I give my boyfriend a blow job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Well i tryed giving my boyfriend a bj and hj but its like im hurting him but yet its not my first time doing this and i have no clue what to do! i want to give him the best cause thats what he does for me but it seems im just hurting him ...

Why have I lost my sexual desire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - HI, I wonder if its sound familiar for anybody...I truly believe, that I love my wife, but I lost my sexual interest. I don't know what went wrong.But I don't feel excited about sex at all. Its very much out of character, as I used to be very int...

We're 20 year old virgins, who want to keep trying to have sex. Any tips on how we can relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years and we have talked about having sex for a while, last time we tried it hurt me a lot and we haven't tried since. We're both virgins BTW. we are planning to have a weekend alone no room mates, no ...

When's the earliest for me to tell from some sign that I could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been having unprotective sex once, twice, or more a day, for almost 3 months.. how many days is the earliest for me to tell from some sign that i could be pregnant? -Michelle...

Why are my orgasms not as powerful as they were when I was younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have found in recent years that my orgasms are very faint, and last only a second or 2. I remember when I was younger that orgasms were much stronger and I could feel them all down my legs. They were never longer than a few seconds though (exc...

I know I'm not pregnant, but I'm just wondering why I haven't had my period come yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, i need some help..I had sex last month, 4 days before my period, had my period the last week of august and it went into the first part of september. Would i have another this month or since it came into this month, would i just skip this ...

How likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Okay aunties and uncles ... I am on the pill, and I had protected sex 3 weeks ago. I am on my pill-free week (3rd day in) and no hint of a period.... how likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry....

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. ...

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...