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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He wants to spice things up in our sex life should I go along with it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i am 16 and have been having sex with my boyfriend for ages but he wants to change it and try tying me up and adding spice to it but i feel like it means that normal sex with me is boring and thats why he want to spice it up. am i just being stupid ...

I think my man is a pimp and I'm scared! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - please tell me if you think this sounds like something to do with organized crime-okay,so a few years ago I knew this girl who I'm sure was a prostitute-she would go to different men's houses and come back with cash-one day she took me to this man's ...

Help! my sister was raped and the police don't want to help us!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i seriously need some advice here. not even the police are helpful! it all started when my sister saw this ad in a local newspaper. this bar was looking for a waitress. so she called the bar and asked if she could come by and have an interview wit...

I can't orgasm from masturbation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - ok well I started having sex with my boyfriend and he seems like he knows what he's doing we've had sex at least 15 times it feels good somtimes but I don't ever orgasm so I tryed masturbating and I still can't have an orgasm and when I do masurbate ...

I cannot achieve penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - i m 20yrs virgin and my girlfriend is 18 yrs too,i tried and fail to insert my penis 2 times in her because my cap is bigger than normal and she don't give me time to manage it,but she loves me and still believe me...

Why won't my wife let me get her boobs out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hi everyone well i am just curious as my wife is very secretive and i am very open minded in all matters i talk openly about everything and what i did before i got married to her. i have come of an age that i love listening to her telling me some ...

How can I make things different when I go down on him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My man wants to go down on me while sucking an ice cube, I love the idea but I want to return the favour and do something different when I go down on him. Any ideas?...

I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...

Would it make things more complicated if we have sex? Surely there's no harm, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, an ex-girlfriend's mother is currently staying with me. I split up with her daughter years ago and she has since moved to Australia. It wasn't a bad split or anything, we were just young. Her mother and I kept running in to each other ...

I'm 13 and sex is on my mind! I have so many questions!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old, and I'm having the urges to have sex. What do I do? I know, I am Way to young. and I want to wait for the right guy, and be a saint. but, The orgasims. It very tempting. And the boys my age, Offer it all the time. Its my ...

Will it go back to its normal shape after the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My vulva does not look the same each time I look at it. Sometimes it just looks like a fold of skin where the two sides meet. After touching it for a bit it seems to open up and the inside shows. Is this normal? Will it go back to its normal shape ...

One night stand with someone I know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - 3 months ago I got out of a 5 year relationship and he was my first and only. The other night I went out and saw a guy who I had gone on a date with once to a resturant. I will name this guy, guy B. Guy B had wanted to continue going out with me but ...

My girlfriend wants to give me a handjob, and I'm a bit unsure of what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been seeing this girl for not too long now. we've just been kissing and thats about it. I've been out with loads of girls before, but have not done anything but kissing and rubbing. She said she is going to give me a handjob next week. Bu...

I'm thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Im thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job or head can i get pregnat from this? And if i were to have sex with him and we use protection how big of a chance is it that i could get pregnat?...

I don't feeling comfortable exposing my breasts to my BF

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am very paranoid about exposing my breasts, I'm not sure why. My boyfriend is very respectful of it and never asks me too but I can tell it is beginning to hurt his feelings like I'm not comfortable around him or something...any confidence ...

Should a virgins first time be with a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi, this question has been floating around a lot and I wanted to know what your guys opinion is about it. Most people imagine their first time to be special and wonderful, but can it still be special and wonderful if the guy or girl your having...

Two kids, no time...Am I wrong to expect a little passion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - My wife and I have 2 small children, so it's hard for us to make time for sex. But when we do have sex, it feels like she's not really into it. We've fought about this before, and I know she's tired. But even at my worst, I'll still perform like a ...

I was drunk out of my head and got involved in an orgy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Something happend to me last Saturday and I am trying to process it in my head. I am still in shock. I went to a very good friends birthday party. Because it was a house party and I planned to stay in their spare bedroom for the night, I got rea...

Why is sleeping with a lot of people viewed as bad? Isnt just experience?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Why is it a bad thing to sleep with a lot of people? Some people say it's sluttish behaviour. But i think it just makes you experienced. It makes you know what you like and dislike. Surely isn't this a good thing? (Lets say, for arguments sak...

Having some unusual bleeding and too afraid to talk to my mother about it..Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm having problems with random bleeding, and i'm too embrassed to talk to my mum about it or the doctor. Whenever my boyfriend fingers me, i'll bleed, normally a few hours later for about 6 hours, really light, but last night, when he was fingerin...

Afraid I'll go too fast during sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hi, Well, i am 17 years old virgin.(Healthy-Water Polo Player) Anyways well, for the past couple of months i've been masturbating alot. So now i am a bit scared to have sex. Cuz i am bit scared that i get them so fast. Should i be worried or...