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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Could my friend be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend who i love sooo much kind of makes some stupid decisions sometimes. She's on birth control and that usually is enough to keep someone from getting pregnant, but if you have a condom why not use it to make sure you are protecting yourself ...

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the othe...

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do...

What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) - I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. ...

I've been developing some strange sexual fetishes. Will this affect my relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment and it is the wrong sort of girls i attract. Si...

How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...

I have sex five times a week but he has a girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi I have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend. The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to contin...

I constantly want sex! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Help! I think im addicted to sex. Me and my bf have a great sex life but i think about sex all the time. Even at work. I suddenly get really horny without anything even triggering it! I masturbate every day (sometimes more than once) and even s...

Could it be possible that the hymen stays intact after fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - my wife and i were watching a tv show and the question of virginity came up. we started to talk about our first times and my wife said she was fingered for over 2 years before she had intercourse. what i do not understand is she says she still had ...

He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels that we are a bit past all that !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Iam a 53 yr old woman and having relationship problems with my husband of 30 years and it is now to the point where i am having moments of serious anguish.He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels ...

Do you like going down on your girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) - One for the guys.. Do you like going down on your girl? I ask because you hear of girls' opinions on fellatio a lot more than you hear of guys' opinions on cunnilingus. So guys, how much do you enjoy performing oral on your girl?...

Would my old school uniform turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for awhile, and we totally love each other. But this weekend I have an empty house and I want him to come spend the night. I need something really amazing and sexy to surprise him. I used to go to...

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we g...

She wont sleep with a married man, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I have been somewhat happily married for almost 9 yrs. now. I love my wife very very much, however we rarely have sex anymore due to wife's lack of interest! I have talked, begged, pleaded, and have done everything I know to do to help her "get in ...

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

What turns men on when they masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - What do married men think about when masturbating to porn or thinking about another women????? (mod note: this first passage was virtually unintelligble so I have given it my best guess) PLease help??? Do they want the same thing with their ...

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...

How can I give hubbie a great blowjob, he's too big for my mouth!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I want to give my husband amazing blow jobs, however, I have a very small mouth (and TMJ on top of that) and my husband has a big cock, so you see my dilemma here! Aside from that I have a shy husband (he's too shy to cum in my mouth, he's afraid I ...

Does oral sex need precautions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi people,can you plz guide me on how to go about oral sex?i mean should one take precautions during oral sex anf if any then what are they?hoping to get some valuable answers. thanks...

I'm ready for sex after having our baby, but he says he wants to wait for a while. He says he can't look at me the same way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi I had my first baby (10th april) she was a girl and is stunning, perfect the birth was pretty easy and im fine now. My boyfriend was at the birth and very suportive i live with him. And im really horny and want to have sex with him. But he cant ...

Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - What do guys think of girls who ask them for sex? I mean would they care if a girl initiated it on a second date? ...

What exactly should a woman do during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not sexually active. I'm not planning on starting anytime soon, I'm just curious about something. What exactly should a woman do during sex? What can she do to make it more pleasurable for the man? It seems that just lying there ...

How do I get more creative with sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I do different stuff wen having sex, I feel like my gf isn't fully satisfied =(. Is there like anyway I could satisfy her in everyway. i'll do anything u guys tell me to XP please help...

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl ...

He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do ...

My gf wants me to plan sex games, I havent a clue what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 17 and my girlfriend is coming round tomorrow, we'll be having sex but she's asked me to plan something for us to do, she didn't say any apart from suggesting maybe making a game but any other ideas are open too. Can anyone help me t...

When a man fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that he loves his own woman less?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - When my husband or a man in a general fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that your husband loves/desires you less, or that he wishes you weren't around so he can fulfill his fantasies? Do men ever have fantasies ...

Why do people think first night sex is cheap and the girl lacks self respect?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys why do ppl think it is cheap and the girl lacks self respect if they have sex on the first night? I mean after going out on a date and lots of talking? What is the difference between waiting for the second date as some ppl think it is more ...

Would you still want her if the sex stopped completely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok we are talk about how we are suppose to love the person who we are with for who they are and it is not all about sex? But now guys, if your girlfriend told you she did not want to sleep with you for a while how many months would you give h...

Do I love my ex husband? Sex made it worse.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok this one might be a little tough, but here I go! I been divorced for almost 5 years now. I left him becasue I wasn't ready ( I was only 19), I know yes that was wrong of me. So a week ago he moved back to his hometown, where I'm at also. We w...

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with...

My boyfriend is now starting to feel unloved and blame himself as my Church back ground teaches sex is bad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This portion has already been posted, but I would like to add to it.....I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was ...

After 4 years of not having sex my bf has difficuilty in maintaining an erection-any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is 37 years old.he has not had sex in 4 years.we just started seeing one another and he cant keep his penus hard.whats wrong...

Help! I lost my erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I have recently started seeing a girl, this is the first girl i have been dating for several months now. She is extremely nice and sexually stunning. After seeing her a few times we decided to make the next step to the bedroom. Unfortunately ha...

Will I go bad if I don't have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I'm worried. If I don't have sex soon, will it make me bad at it? They say that practice makes perfect, but I haven't "practiced" for a long time now. I don't want to disappoint any partner I have in the future. I didn't disappoint my girlfriend ...

Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits ...

Boyfriend says I should be able to come just from intercourse, is he right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Im a little confused about some stuff.. I lost it to my boyfriend who i really love about two months ago.. and from those times... when we've had sex.. he cums but i havent had an orgasm yet.. im nto surprised since this is my first time...

I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand...

I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, ...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

Worried he may have taken my answer as an inexorable NO! I'm willing to compromise, but how to do it without leading him on too far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - i'm not very experienced when it comes to boys, i told my boyfriend that i'm not ready for sex and he respects that. But by saying this, i think he may of taken it as though i don't want to do anything at all, which i do. i'm off back to his this ...

Would great sex make guys want a relationship?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...

Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...

Woman on top advice needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend of 9months asked me about 3 months ago would i go on top during sex just for a change, i said no cause i havent a clue what to do and he was ok with that.but personally i tried it with my ex and it just didnt work for us. I would ...

Any tips on how to warm up the sex action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - hey just wonderin for a it of advice im not a virgin as i had sex many times with my ex boyfriend but i felt that i was very shy and self conscious about it an feel that i wasnt very good! has be1 any tips on how to improve the performance and maybe ...

Why is it so hard to go back to being just friends when you have had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I can not work out this one night stand I had. Well I met this guy on a social networking site. But, it is just a site if you want to go out for the night you post your plans up and see if anyone wants to join you. Lots of ppl use it for dating. A...

My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him,...