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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Should I wait for him to make the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - He definitely knows now that I'm interested in having sex with him. Should I wait for him to make the next move?...

I am scared to try BJ again!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I was recently told I was awful at giving a guy a blowjob. I mean, it was my first time and all, and he knew that. He just simply told me I was awful at it. I asked him what I could do to improve and he just said "get better" while shrugging. I know ...

He wants to be Friends with Benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants to just date or just not be boyfriend girlfriend title but still wants sex. That went on for about a week and then he sent me an article from this site "Is my girlfriend needy or is it just me?" and says he wants space. Can ...

Attempted sex with a new person for the first time in 2 years, and it hurt. Is it menopause or nervousness? Any idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hope someone can help. I broke up with my boyfriend about two years ago. I have messed aroung with a few guys from time to time since then but have not gone all the way. Well, I tried to go all the way with someone a couple of nights ago and it ...

I'm willing to have anal sex though I have no clue about it. Can anyone please give me advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has asked me to have anal sex with him, im willing to do it but i have never done it before. Can anyone please tell me does it hurt or any advice, tips, etc. Thanks xxx...

He loves "woman on top" position but I never feel comfortable in this way, please give me some tips! How to make him climax in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hi all My husband loves me to be on top of him while having sex but I never get comfortable in this position.I am not good to make him come to climax in this either.Please tell me how to have sex on top of him. I would be thankful Soni...

I changed my mind about giving him oral sex, so he flipped out saying I am playing with him! I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey guys im 15, so i told the boy that im together with in the begining of the week that i wanted to give him head. then i thought about it and i dont want to rush things and be so easy. i told him that today cause i am seeing him later. he FLIPPED ...

Will having sex with him make him mine again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i met my ex at aparty 2weeks ago and he came over to where i was and we hugged,he sat next to me and chatted for a while and later danced,i was confused cos this is the guy who dumped before and now giving me his attention,i was getting mixed ...

My bf's groin area smells really bad!! What is it? Any ideas on how I can talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Yeah so this is kinda awkward but I have a problem with my boyfriend of 10 months. His groin area smells bad. It's like a strong sweat odor and it's rather offensive. The smell is constantly there, even after he showers, and it really repulses me. I ...

He wont have sex with me should I seek it elsewhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im ...

Could my fiance be cheating on me if he hasn't had sex with me for 2 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Should I be worried if my fiance hasn't had sex with me for 2 months? I give him oral sex, but it also, is very rarely returned. I didn't think a male could go for that long without it. Is he cheating on me?...

I don't want to be gay, but lately guys have turned me on more than girls. Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I have never had a question about my sexuality until about a year ago. I have always liked girls, but lately, I've been paying more attention to the male gender. I don't want to be gay, bi, or whatever you want to call it. I'm just confused, and ...

Do you think there is something wrong if a guy asks for sex all the time even though you told him that you were only interested in friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I know i prolly shouldnt of done this but I did it. Anyway I met this nice guy in school and we became friends. I told him I was not interested in a relationship right now cause I am so busy with school and work. He was fine with that ...

It is so hard to be just his friend with benefits because I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I fell in love with my best friend brother. We started out as friends and eventaully became lovers. As a result, feeling got involve, mainly mines. I wanted to take our relationship to the next level. as for him, he was not ready to commit. ...

Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...

Is this a medical issue or is it that my girlfriends have been satisfied quicker than I have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Dear DearCupid, I have what feels a serious problem, I'm in love with this girl, we have been for nearly 2 years(in a relationship). We began to have sex in October last year. I love her so much; but a problem that we seem to have is that I can sa...

I want to try cunnilingus one day but I feel it's disgusting... how to get over this feeling? How to start?...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start?...

Inflamed lip on vagina, what could this be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Anyone please help, I've noticed that I have an immflammed right flap on my vagina. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but he is clean I think. What could this be? Please help I'm really worried.!! Thanks....

I am married, love another man who doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I am married for the past 10 years. I married when I was 18.My husband is 12 years elder to me. I was doing my graduationwhen we got married. Now for the past 3 years , I have a relationship with this guy who is a colleague at the instituion where I ...

Will guys see me as a slut now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was wondering if i was a slut. Its been on my mind for a while now. I am 15 and I am not in a relationship but lost my virginity recently. He wasn't my bf, but i really like him and don't regret it. Well anyway I did most things with him (bj, ...

Is this rape or sexual assault?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...

Why has he become so distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My husband and Ive been fighting for some time. I think he cares more for his job than for me, he's assertive and attentitive more to his job. Like, he's emotionally disattached himself from me. Our fighting has really calmed down in which th...

He doesn't make any sounds when we make love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend.we have been together for a year and ahalf. When we make love he doesnt make any sound he so quiet that i wouldnt know if he is enjoying himself. Well i asked him why he's quiet? He told he he doesnt know and he said i also dont ...

Does his porn preferences mean he is gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - My husband, Does mean he is gay or bi? Been married for a few years and have kids together. He often watches porn and masturbates. I know he likes to watch 2 girls or threesomes. He really loves going down and swears he is a p...y man. But lately ...

She was perfect for me...but I still couldn't give myself to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 500 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hello, my name is Daniel. I'm a 24 year old male from the Bronx, New York. A few years ago, I was 21 and dating a woman I knew from a college class. We dated for almost a year and connected in all sorts of ways: she was friendly, cared ...

He has a very high sex drive whereas my libido decreased after giving birth - it does not help that there is no foreplay before the actual sex! How to get my sex life back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend two years and our sex life is non existant due to me. It was fine before i got pregnant with my son over a year ago but now im never in the mood and i only do it to stop him bothering me. I love him and prefer cuddles and ...

The sex is unsatisfying, what can I do to save the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hello again aunts =) I am having a little problem in my relationship right now. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now and we currently live together. He is a wonderful man, but he can never seem to please me in bed. I bring it to his ...

Had sex with the ex and current boyfriend, both unprotected, now I'm pregnant, I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm a 23 year old college student. My boyfriend broke up with me to go back to his ex, and by my own nature of not wanting to be alone I returned to my ex boyfriend as well. I was on my period for the first week that my ex and I started...

Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....

Is getting really wet bad/nasty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i am wondering.. is getting really wet bad/nasty?? like i mean really. i haven't been horny lately but i guess i was and this boy fingered me and he was like my fingers are so wet while he was doing it.. so is that a bad thing?? im really ...

What can I do to make him trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple ...

I want to feel an orgasm. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - okay--so i've been having sex for a while, and i still dont think i've "came" yet. i mean it gets really wet, but thats just an atomatic reaction. i constantly feel like i need to pee durring sex, and i almost feel like if i let my "vag" muscles go ...

How do I get more confidence about sex? My boyfriend is getting bored!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to do more in bed, But I usually try new positions with him every time but he still says it's the same old thing and it's getting boring. I say no to certain positions because im nervous after maybe the second or third time he ...

Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? J...

I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...

"Air noises" during sex. How can we reduce it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Does anyone else have a problem with 'air' during sex? I can't think of a pleasant way of putting it... Basically during penetration when my partner and I are having sex if we shift position or he withdraws there are sometimes 'air' noises. I hate ...

Talking about sex embarrasses me, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi im in my late 20s and have been in a relationship for the past three years but when im out with the lads and any talk of sex comes up anything at all relating to the subject i get really embarrassed and my face turns bright red i also ge...

I'm worried about my penis... have I damaged it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I have this serious problem.The left side of the head of my penis has a bit of foreskin attached.After 3 years of vigorous jacking off it's taken it's toll.I now have this bruise like mark down the length of my penis where the skin is being ...

Why do some men wear a band around the penis during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Does anyone know why some men wear a band around the penis when having sex? Does that really help with erection problems or something like that?...

Why don't I feel like having sex more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I simply dont feel like having sex very often, maybe twice a month. My partner is a wonderful man and he means the world to me. It makes me feel bad that I'm not in the mood more. I've had the same problem with previous boyfriends. I know this cant ...

I'm 15, he's 25, is it illegal if I am with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hello i just wonderd if u could giv me some advice really i lyk this boy and hes older than me well hes older than 25 and im 15 i jst wonderd is it illegal if i am with him?? and do u think its right?? wb x ...

I didn't want him to tell anybody we'd had sex, but he told his friend. I told mine, so am I just as bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - My partner and i had sex but as i am 2 years younger i do not want him to tell anybody, but he doesnt mind if i tell people. He went against my will and told his friend. but i told mine so does this make me as bad. He didnt tell me he had told his ...

He wants to try a new sex position. Is he bored with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - me and my partner of 9 months have only recently started to have sex. about 2 months but we use the same positions. He wants to try a new postioion does this mean he is bored? x...

I never have an orgasm. Is he really having one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have now been having sex for about two months. Each time he cums but i never have an orgasm. Is there anyways to help this, as i enjoy it but i want to orgasm. does it help the guy if i orgasm? Also is cuming a guys orgasm a...

Can anyone help after my first night sex experience?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex. We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks and then he asked me out again. I just said it was a drunken...

I have a working, open marriage. Could I have scared off a guy I met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some help. Here's the deal my husband and i have an open marriage. We love eachother, and this WORKS for us. I met a guy at the bar one night as i hung with my sister. He was an amazing looking man nothing happened that night. I...

I'm playing hard to get. What is he expecting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Is he expecting me to make the moves on him? We have demonstrated to be attracted to each other. He hasn't approached me yet we flirt and flatter each other. Two years ago he wanted to go out with me but I turned him down because of another ...

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...

No experience and needing help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - thanks for reading this ill try to be really short basically me and my bf have been going out for a long time were both over the leagal and are both virgins lately we've been experimenting but i dont know how to pleasure him i dont even know how...

Do many guys have this obsession with sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I have never ever experienced anything like this before. I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex. We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks ...